The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

Bonus Episode: Your Window Of Tolerance Explained


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What is The Window Of Tolerance, and why is it important to understand how it relates to your healing? That's what I am talking about today in this quick episode.

This is an important concept that will help you with your boundaries as well! Sometimes when we understand more of the psychoeducation around healing and why are brain and bodies are doing what they do, we aren't as resistant, judgemental and confused about what's going on.

Highlights:


  1. Foundational Importance of the Window of Tolerance: The window of tolerance is a crucial concept in understanding how the brain and body react to stress and trauma. It represents a balanced state where individuals can process emotions and experiences without becoming overwhelmed.

  2. Hyperarousal vs. Hypoarousal: The content details the differences between hyperarousal (characterized by anxiety, panic, and over-alertness) and hypoarousal (marked by disconnection, numbing, and lack of energy), emphasizing the importance of staying within the window of tolerance to avoid these extreme states.

  3. Somatic and Physiological Aspects of Healing: It emphasizes the somatic and physiological aspects of healing trauma, underscoring that trauma is stored in the body and must be processed through physical means, not just psychological understanding.

  4. Autonomic Nervous System Regulation: The significance of regulating the autonomic nervous system (ANS) is highlighted, explaining how it plays a pivotal role in responding to stress and trauma and maintaining the balance between the sympathetic and parasympathetic systems.

  5. Techniques to Access the Window of Tolerance: The episode discusses various methods to help individuals access and extend their time within the window of tolerance, including somatic experiencing, EMDR, brain spotting, yoga, breath work, and grounding techniques.

  6. The Role of Safety in Emotional Processing: Safety is identified as a fundamental requirement for allowing oneself to feel and process emotions. The discussion includes the challenges people face in feeling safe to experience their emotions and how establishing safety is the first step towards healing.


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          The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and AbuseBy Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, PCC, APSATS-CPC,ELI-MP, C-DGS

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