Brilliant Balance

In today's episode, we're exploring how to keep moving through uncertain times. You know that swirling feeling of facing too many unknowns and variables? Fear not, you're not alone, and even amidst this uncertainty, there is a path forward. I've got insights and strategies to keep you not just afloat, but moving forward!

Plus, I'm inviting you to a live workshop on May 8 that's all about finding clarity amidst the chaos. If you're ready to embrace challenges and seize new opportunities with confidence, this episode is just for you.

Let's navigate these uncertain waters together and create a life that feels as good as it looks!

Show Highlights:

• Join my live workshop on finding clarity on May 8. [01:37]
• Understand uncertainty. [03:04]
• Discover the neuroscience of uncertainty. [06:17]
• Is the fear of making wrong decisions paralyzing you? [08:20]
• Shatter the illusion of control. [09:37]
• How to shift from outcome-based paralysis to a process focus. [14:19]
• Do you have foundational practices keeping you in agency? [15:53]
• Discover "both/and" thinking for realism–optimism balance. [17:15]
• The importance of choosing support and advice wisely. [20:27]

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Investing in yourself might seem out of the question. You think of it as 'burning cash" and can't see the return.

But when you classify everything as an expense, it's hard to see the right things as investments. You miss opportunities that come your way when you are only looking at one side of the equation.

But when you learn to value investments in yourself, the returns could be beyond anything you've imagined.

In this episode, you'll learn 3 ways to invest in yourself without guilt (and nearly unlimited potential for growth).

Show highlights include:

• Should we rethink the cost of renting over homeownership? [01:53]
• Let's expand the definition of investment. [05:20]
• Gender investment gap revealed in a BlackRock survey. [06:40]
• The opportunity cost of holding cash if you earn $100k [07:38]
• Finding value past the expense dilemma of self-care. [13:06]
• Consider experiences as investments. [16:03]
• How confident are you when allocating money to investments? [20:18]

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We probably all carry a little fear around money conversations… but when it comes to asking for more, it feels easier to budget (than ask for the income we deserve). When we cut back on spending or look at downsizing, we only end up thinking smaller. And when we think smaller, we will always feel limited. There will be no financial opportunities to seize or places to grow. In this episode, you'll learn the 3 ways of maximizing your income (without having to pinch pennies along the way). Show highlights include:

• The power of breaking into a higher income level. [01:34]
• Constriction in reducing expenses vs. expansion in increasing income. [03:13]
• Why do you want to level up your income? [05:55]
• Clear steps to negotiate your worth with confidence. [07:23]
• Strategies for reaching your next career level. [12:04]
• Discover the limitless possibilities of side hustles. [16:19]
• How to convert your secondary income into an IRA. [19:48]

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Financial management is not a topic everyone wants to talk about. In fact, most people go out of their way to avoid money talk. Whether it's a credit score that needs work or a budget that needs focus, finances aren't always the easiest to discuss.

But why do these conversations feel impossible to have? And how can we have a better relationship with money?

When you refuse to discuss money, it might mean you are operating as a financial child. You don't want to be bothered by bills, budgets, or credit scores. You just want to have fun.

In this episode, you'll learn the 3 ways a financial child operates (and 7 ways to work that money into adulthood). Show highlights include:

• How to ditch the permission slip and create more comfortability in sharing finances. (6:33)
• Why carrying nothing but 'fun money' cuts the power dynamic in your house and molds a financial child. (9:15)
• How to have the most important conversations about money (before a crisis occurs). (14:30)
• The Seven Ways to work towards financial adulthood and make the money you want. (17:54)

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A lot of us have anxiety around money. We don't like looking at our bank account, thinking about retirement or reviewing our expenses.

But being afraid of finances costs you—and not just financially.

In this episode, you'll discover how to defeat financial fear and be more confident around money to have less stress and more balance.

Want to remove your fear of finances and live a more balanced life? Listen now!

Show highlights include:

• How to get rid of a scarcity mindset and replace it with a profound feeling of abundance. (5:48)
• Why financial fear can trap you in your comfort zone (and how to escape it) (8:10)
• How to tell yourself a better story about money that empowers you to take responsibility (11:51)
• The "Agency Mindset" that helps you take ownership of your life (16:10)
• 3 big issues caused by financial fear that take your life off-balance. (23:15)

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Today, I'm sharing what happens when you step away from the everyday routine for a rejuvenating retreat experience! Picture yourself surrounded by towering redwoods, embracing misty mornings, and basking in the luxury of having a little extra time just for you.

I'll take you inside my recent retreat at Canyon Ranch in Woodside, California, where I tried my hand at hiking, meditating, drumming circles, watercolor painting, and rediscovering joy in the little things. We'll explore how embracing nature can shift your perspective and why letting yourself receive care is a game-changer.

Whether you're looking to reignite your passion or savor the simplicity of quiet luxury, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical ideas to create your own moments of brilliance. Join me, and let's design a life that feels as good as it looks!

Show Highlights:

• The importance of retreats and other time away for renewal. [00:49]
• Reset your circadian rhythms. [04:30]
• Rediscover the joy of the beginner's mindset. [07:54]
• Finding renewed perspective in nature. [11:12]
• How the forest can heal you with shinrin-yoku. [13:35]
• The power of reframing disliked elements. [15:14]
• Discover the effortless luxury of simplicity. [17:53]
• Are you a selfless giver who finds it hard to accept care? [20:58]
• When did you last build new joyful connections? [22:49]
• Don't miss this Canyon Ranch Retreat discount. [25:57]

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Today, we're shaking up what it really means to be successful. Let's rethink the myth of "perfect planning" and recognize where true momentum comes from.

I'll show you why taking bold, imperfect action is your ticket to progress instead of waiting for flawless conditions. Plus, discover the power of surrounding yourself with a vibrant network of ambitious doers to accelerate your journey.

This is your chance to escape analysis paralysis, find your groove, embrace those adrenaline-pumping moments and keep pushing forward on your terms in ways that truly count. Tune in, and let's savor the exhilaration of the climb together!

Show Highlights:

• Where do you think perfect success comes from? [01:30]
• How analysis paralysis occurs. [06:24]
• Newton's law of motion and igniting momentum. [08:07]
• The power of collective insight. [11:39]
• Let go of the pride of going it alone. [14:47]
• Understand the Pygmalion effect. [15:26]
• Embracing rapid experimentation. [17:07]
• Are you an overplanner? [17:28]
• Ready, fire, steer to win at iteration. [20:26]
• Brilliant Balance support community. [22:19]

"Use code "CHERYLANNE" for 10% off your stay at any Canyon Ranch property!

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Imagine moving through life with the full freedom to be yourself, no matter where you are or what you're doing. Today, I'll talk about navigating the complexities of staying true to yourself in different environments.

Let's explore the art of integrating your true essence into every part of your life for a richer, more fulfilling experience. I'll highlight a transformative three-step progression—knowing yourself, liking yourself, and being yourself.

Picture the liberation and creativity that come with living authentically. For all the ambitious women out there, this is your invitation to step into your brilliance with confidence and joy.

Show Highlights:

• How do you define alignment? [01:20]
• Authenticity as the key to genuine connections. [01:58]
• Why real conversations on taboo topics matter. [04:47]
• Find your safe environment for an integrated self. [07:52]
• Know yourself. [10:25]
• Take steps towards liking yourself. [14:17]
• How to cultivate balanced self-expression. [18:01]
• Embrace the freedom of authenticity. [19:53]
• The value of supportive communities like BOLD. [21:07]

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I'm excited to chat with you about something close to my heart today—the path from cynicism to curiosity. Are you someone who might be closing off opportunities without even realizing it? Let's explore how our default reactions can shape our paths and how a mindset of curiosity can open up a world of possibilities.

In this episode, we'll discuss how to ask the right questions and listen to our instincts, all while balancing discernment and enthusiasm for growth. Join me as we embrace the chance to design a future full of promise and opportunity!

Show Highlights:

• Are you a 'default yes' or a 'default no' person? [01:07]
• What is cynicism? [03:30]
• The costs of cynicism's protective cage. [05:35]
• Cynicism's closed door vs. skepticism's guarded door. [10:39]
• Balancing healthy skepticism. [13:18]
• Retain the power of first mover advantage. [15:19]
• Develop intuitive decision-making. [16:12]
• How to lead with curiosity with discernment. [20:32]
• Explore curiosity and decision-making. [22:13]
• Overcome the two barriers to healthy curiosity. [25:19]

Link to the previous Brilliant Balance episode with Todd Herman where he shares the alter ego concept that Cherylanne references: https://brilliant-balance.com/podcast/episode-177-channel-your-inner-superhero-with-author-todd-herman/

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Today's episode is about a topic that resonates with many of us - I'm calling it the perception gap. You might think of it as why we don't always see ourselves the way others do.

I'll explain what causes this phenomenon, including our past identities, perfectionism, and blind spots arising from our inside-out perspective, and reveal powerful strategies to overcome self-critical patterns, channel your inner brilliance and step boldly into the future you deserve.

This episode will help you align your self-perception with reality so that you can shift confidently into your next chapter. Let's jump into this enlightening topic!

Show Highlights:

• A new Brilliant Balance intro after seven years. [00:57]
• What is a perception gap? [04:43]
• Body dysmorphia and other indicators of perception gaps. [05:26]
• Are you stuck in an old identity? [10:25]
• How perfectionism distorts reality. [14:31]
• Explore the Johari window model. [17:40]
• The self-criticism and self-punishment cycle. [19:26]
• The power of practicing self-compassion. [20:20]
• Define your vision for success. [22:52]
• How to leverage an alter ego. [25:05]

Link to the episode with Todd Herman and the Alter Ego that Cherylanne References: https://brilliant-balance.com/podcast/episode-177-channel-your-inner-superhero-with-author-todd-herman/

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