You've cheated. You've done the deed. Whether that's sleeping with, having oral sex with, or hiding an emotional affair with a person outside of your relationship, you've done it: you've created the time and space to have an affair. Now you lie incessantly to cover it up. Your conscience is telling you that you've got a decision to make. Do you come clean, or do you deny, deny, deny the affair at all costs? On this episode I welcome Marie Murphy who is a relationship coach with a PhD in the sociology of sexuality. Dr. Murphy uses a unique, individualized and non - judgmental approach to help her clients answer the question: Should you tell your partner if you've cheated on them?

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What if you’re often the side piece - time after time the other woman. First you have an affair with your husband’s work colleague. Then you cheat on your husband with someone you meet in an alcohol recovery group. Next you find yourself sleeping with the husband of a couple that hosting you in their home as a guest. And on and on. What’s going on here? My guest whom we’ll call Jen has actually lived through all of this. Jen shares her long history as an affair partner whether she was cheating on her own husband or (when divorced) with someone else’s. It an adult life spent as the other woman. Join me to hear Jen’s story. Be a guest on the show:

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Can Oral Sex With Your Partner Make Affairs Less Tempting? What does this very intimate act say about the level of masterful communication you share or don’t with your partner? My guest, holistic life and relationship coach Alby James says giving and receiving oral sex is a clue into how much and your partner respect each other. Alby talks about oral sex, intimacy and how to achieve masterful communication based on his 16 year experience as a physical and emotional healer. Staying faithful- what’s oral sex got to do with it? Be a guest on the show:

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We all took the week off to celebrate Thanksgiving with our families and friends, so we’ve brought back a favorite episode from the early days of CWLL.

Imagine a lavish life with a wealthy husband where you feel secure that you and your children will be taken care of forever. Imagine the thrill of first-class vacations to your family's luxurious homes in the most exotic places. Imagine your husband spoiling you with expensive jewels and clothes. Imagine all this with a husband you're only mildly attracted to. On the other hand, what if you're a single mom, struggling financially to make ends meet - wondering from month to month how you're going to survive. Would you accept the proverbial man on a white horse coming to rescue you financially and emotionally? Even if that man is married? Even if you don't love him, or can barely bring yourself to have sex with him? Most women (at least publicly) say they would never find themselves in either circumstance, but given either situation what would you do? Lisa, my guest on this episode experienced not one, but both of these circumstances. Find out what she did to make it through.

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Tony and Nicole were secret lovers who became a couple after they cheated on and eventually left their spouses. They have that super passionate kind of love that takes you over, and you cannot deny. But what does an affair cost your children and the spouse you’ve left behind? They say, “he’ll never leave his wife” or “she’ll never leave her husband” but Tony did and Nicole did - right before Thanksgiving.

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This week we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes. When I was growing up a "hall pass" was the thing you needed in middle school in order to leave class and go to the bathroom. That's not what a "hall pass" is anymore. Today's definition is a lot sexier. According to my guest, a "hall pass" let's you cheat without begin called a cheater. Lets you explore without having to explain. Lets you have sex with someone else without exiting your relationship. It's time to get schooled on the "hall pass" with my guest relationship coach and top selling author Stacey Herrera. You can find Stacey at: https://twitter.com/StaceyNHerrera https://medium.com/@staceyherrera https://staceyherrera.com

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Finding your soulmate. Isn’t that the holy grail of love and relationships? It’s when you find the person who just gets you and wildly turns you on. Once we’re convinced that they’re the ONE, we marry them, or build a committed partnership with them, then swear nothing will ever tear us apart. Well — not so fast says my guest, author John P. Weiss. John is a celebrated writer and has a sizable following for his blog posts and essays about life and love. Combine that with John’s experience as a former police chief who witnessed firsthand some of the ugliest displays of cheating and affairs, and you’ve got John’s unique, eye-opening perspective on love and fidelity.

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I remember once a famous LA doctor said to me, Jillian everything seems so important until you get sick, then once you’re sick the only thing that matters is getting better.

This was the situation for my guest and her husband who was so ill, he was often hospitalized. His wife believed he was receiving the best possible care, but something happened at the hospital that threatened to end their decades long marriage and broke her trust in him. I have the upmost respect for so many in the medical profession that keep us healthy and alive. So when I heard this story of deceit and misconduct inside the hospital —I just couldn’t believe it.

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A woman comes into your husband’s life and captures his heart. Your husband and his new lover share emotional and physical intimacy and he can’t seem to leave this other woman’s side. His affair threatens your marriage, family, peace and serenity. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Karen, whose hated for the other woman became enormous.

How would you handle that hatred? Would you seek revenge, become depressed, or find a way to forgive? Join me to find out why Karen couldn’t live in hatred one day longer, and what she did to turn it all around. Follow me on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies.

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This week due to technical difficulties we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes. We’ve got lots of new guests and topics coming up!

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Imagine you're a bride, and your fiancé invites a woman you barely know to your wedding under the guise that they're "just friends." He and his "friend" disappear from the reception for almost 2 hours and no one knows where they are. It's not surprising that shortly after the wedding this bride's marriage ends. According to John, my guest today, his girlfriend (this former bride and divorcee) became a cheater: an emotional cheater. John claims she was never a truly present and giving partner because everything she went through made her too guarded. John says that instead of nurturing their relationship, his girlfriend poured her affection, cuddles and kisses in another direction. She was so consumed with this "other" that John felt neglected and emotionally cheated on. What's surprising is that this "other" who stole the couples' intimacy away was his girlfriend's ... dog? On this episode my guest John and I discuss his unique perspective on emotional cheating. John also tells an incredible story of how a bride was forced to live out a cheating nightmare on her wedding day.

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