On this episode, we meet Viveca (not her real name) who explains how she had a four year affair with a married man whose wife paid Viveca to do work in their home, and also asked her to babysit the couples’ daughter.

It sounds astounding, but it was a Viveca’s ability to hide in plain sight that helped her keep her passionate affair going. How did she do this? How could she do this? Join me to find out.

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About two years ago, a guy friend said to me “I know my best friend and he would never cheat on his wife. He just wouldn’t do it.” Because of this podcast I’m sworn to secrecy, so I couldn’t tell him that his best buddy was a flagrant philanderer who had cheated many times with many different women in both emotional and sexual affairs. As wives, husbands, partners, family members, and best friends, we can’t imagine that someone we know would ever have an emotional or physical affair. This is why it is not uncommon that I hear from betrayed partners, “I was blindsided when I found out!” This is what happened to my guest Shea.

Shea is her real name because with the support of Shea’s husband, they decided together that appearing on Cheating: When Love Lies would be a part of Shea’s healing. Beth Miller, relationship coach and owner of Soulifywellness is back to share her relationship expertise.

Do you think that your partner would never ever cheat on you? Well, so did Shea.

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You catch your husband

red-handed with the person you least suspect. How do you react?

Do you break down in tears, or get angry and verbally attack your husband or his lover? My guest whom we’ll call Avery, faced this very situation when she caught her husband with another woman. Her husband was cheating with the one person Avery never thought would interfere in her marriage. How Avery reacted to what she saw was surprising and unexpected. Join relationship expect Beth Miller and me to find out what one wife did when she caught her husband pants down.

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You meet the man of your dreams and you fall madly in love. He’s from another country, and his homeland is far from yours. One day he gets his dream job abroad and you agree to follow him to a foreign country, then back to his homeland to start a family. Years later the relationship starts to fall apart and he winds up having an affair. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Susan.

When Susan decides she wants to leave her cheating husband, she soon finds out that the worst part about following him wasn’t leaving her homeland, her parents or giving up her own career, but something far, far worse than she ever could have imagined.

Joining Susan and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness.

Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Lee and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership.

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The man you’ve fallen in love with is another woman’s husband. As much as you try to resist the lure of his flirtation, eventually you succumb to his charm and start an affair. Your relationship with this married man feels deeply emotional, sexy and passionate. But when his wife finds out about you, the affair turns into a tumultuous saga involving you, your affair partner, his wife, his children, and your family. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Nicole.

The affair starts to spiral out of control and you’re going down with it. Then one day you and your affair partner’s wife uncover a painful truth that bonds you as confidantes and allies.

As a wife, could you ever befriend your husband’s lover?

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I discovered this week’s guest, best selling international author Christopher K. Lopez on Medium, where he publishes his top-rated articles about relationships.

According to Christopher, what does love have to do with cheating?He says successful men like him can have women as either the main event, options, or back ups. But he also says that there is a way for women to earn what he calls the privilege of exclusivity.

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Your husband has an affair which leads you to ask for a divorce. But it’s what you discover after you file for divorce that shocks you and has you facing a moral dilemma. Your husband’s been unfaithful and now you’re divorcing him, so what’s the use in trying to learn even more about his philandering ways - why torture yourself? My guest whom we’ll call Gail uncovered disturbing facts about her husband after his affair destroyed their marriage. Now Gail is facing a dilemma: should she warn her husband’s new girlfriend about his abusive and toxic behavior? Once you file for divorce are the effects of infidelity really over?Answer this episode’s listener question on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies.

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As we wrap up vacation we bring you another favorite episode from the past. Look forward to new episodes coming soon. Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know when and if it was happening to you? ??For those who don't know what gaslighting is, it's when someone tries to convince you that something they said or did never occurred. The gaslighter denies the reality of what you know happened, then makes you question yourself and what you know to be true.?? My guest today whom we'll call Wende (that's not her real name) was gaslighted throughout her nine year relationship, so she never really knew for sure if her partner cheated on her. I have my own point of view as to whether or not Wende's partner cheated, but I'll let you listen and decide what you think was really going on behind all that gaslighting.?? It will amaze you to learn what Wende's job is. It reminded me that love can sometimes obscure the most obvious of truths.

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We are still on vacation so please enjoy one of our favorite past episodes.

On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It's not about an addiction to porn, it's something else. A whole new world of fantasy that many men are addicted to despite the disastrous impact it has on marriages and partnerships. In my conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Jennifer Guttman we explore a whole new genre of cheating, that prior to social media, just did not exist.

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We are on vacation this week, so we are revisiting one of my favorite episodes from last summer.

A mature married man who's been with his wife for 20 odd years decides to go off and have an affair with a hot young 20 or 30- year-old. Nothing newsworthy there. In fact, some more cynical types might say it's commonplace. But what about a mature married woman in her 40s or 50s having an affair with a married 20 or 30 something? It feels like she'd be tarred and feathered on Twitter. There's a double standard for women. On this episode we're going to talk to a mature married woman (we'll call Lisa) about her torrid affair with her married, much younger, hottie neighbor. Was it all she expected it to be? Lisa is not her real name is and her voice has been altered.

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