Parenting Across Two Homes: Strategies for Success After Divorce

In this installment of our Your Divorce Case series, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright continue the conversation about parenting plans by exploring the realities of co-parenting children across two households after divorce. They are joined by Leanne Tran, a registered psychologist who specializes in working with children and families dealing with autism, ADHD, and learning disorders. Building upon the previous episode about crafting effective parenting plans, Seth and Pete dive deeper into the impacts of divorce on children and strategies for successful co-parenting, with a special focus on the unique considerations for neurodivergent kids.

Leanne shares valuable insights on the key factors that influence how children cope with the changes brought by divorce, such as the level of parental conflict, disruption to routines and sense of identity, and the emotional and behavioral signs of distress parents should watch out for. The discussion also touches on the additional challenges faced by neurodivergent children, who may struggle more with transitions, need for sameness, and sensory sensitivities. Leanne emphasizes the importance of parents being on the same page, providing consistency across households, and being mindful of the impact on siblings as well.

Questions we answer in this episode:

• What signs indicate a child is struggling emotionally with divorce?
• How can parents best support neurodivergent children across two homes?
• What should be considered when introducing a new partner to the family dynamic?

Key Takeaways:

• Changes in behavior, emotions, sleep, appetite, and interests can signal distress.
• Consistency, predictability, and catering to sensory needs are crucial for neurodivergent kids.
• Clear communication and gradual introductions help children adjust to new partners.

Through the lens of her expertise, Leanne provides valuable guidance for parents navigating the complexities of co-parenting, both for neurotypical and neurodivergent children. This episode offers practical tips and compassionate advice to help families thrive after divorce, building upon the foundation of a well-crafted parenting plan discussed in the previous episode. Tune in for insights that can make a real difference in your post-divorce parenting journey.

Links & Notes

• Find Leanne on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and her website
• Listen to Leanne’s podcast Parent Like a Psychologist
• Schedule a consult with Seth
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