Coaching for Leaders

By Dave StachowiakBusiness Careers Management

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March 02 772: How to Measure Your Meeting’s Success, with Rebecca Hinds
Rebecca Hinds: Your Best Meeting Ever
Rebecca Hinds is a leading expert on organizational behavior and the future of work. She founded and led the Work Innovation Lab at Asana and the Work AI Institute at Glean, where she partners with leading experts to help organizations transform their work with AI. She is the author of Your Best Meeting Ever: 7 Principles for Designing Meetings That Get Things Done (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
Considering the amount of time we all spend in meetings, it’s odd that most organizations do so little to measure meeting results. If that’s sounding familiar, this conversation between Rebecca and me will show you exactly how to get started.
Key Points
Metrics that only measure the costs of meetings (dollars and time) can be useful, but rarely capture the full picture.
Use Return on Time Invested (ROTI) anonymously to survey attendees to determine if a meeting was a good use of time. Also ask, “What would it take for you to improve your rating by one point?”
Survey sparingly to avoid survey fatigue. Bringing in a survey 10% of the time is a benchmark to start from.
If the amount of time in meetings vastly exceeds 10 hours a week, there’s likely an opportunity to scale back or redefine the work before or after meetings to use time better.
Equal speaking time in meetings is a key indicator of team performance. Be transparent with employees about any technology you use to capture data.
Punctuality and attendance rate are indicators of how valued meetings are for people.
Resources Mentioned
Your Best Meeting Ever: 7 Principles for Designing Meetings That Get Things Done by Rebecca Hinds (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
How to Lead Meetings That Get Results, with Mamie Kanfer Stewart (episode 358)
Moving Towards Meetings of Significance, with Seth Godin (episode 632)
How to Lead Engaging Meetings, with Jess Britt (episode 721)
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40 min
February 23 771: Fixing Fairness in the Workplace, with Lily Zheng
Lily Zheng, Fixing Fairness
Lily Zheng is a sought-after speaker, strategist, and organizational consultant who specializes in hands-on systemic change to turn positive intentions into positive outcomes for workplaces and everyone in them. A dedicated changemaker and advocate, Lily has had their work published in the Harvard Business Review, New York Times, and NPR. They are the author of Fixing Fairness: 4 Tenets to Transform Diversity Backlash into Progress for All (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
When it comes to fairness in the workplace, our society is quick to zero in on what divides us. Yet, there is broad agreement across all demographics on many key principles. In this conversation, Lily and I explore how leaders can influence the system to better work for everyone.
Key Points
Many of us assume that fewer people support the value of diversity than actually do. When asked, 82% of people support pro-diversity statements.
The most popular/traditional approaches to fixing fairness in the workplace tend to be the least effective.
Our tendency is to focus on the behavior of individuals, when in fact organizational systems have the most significant impact on fairness.
When considering a fairness initiative or intervention, begin with the practice of understanding and storytelling, just like many change initiatives.
Resist the temptation to check boxes with “quick fixes” such as simply bringing in a speaker or hosting a one-time event. This rarely helps in any sustainable way and sometimes worsens existing dynamics.
If you have a seat at the leadership table, make the case for thoughtful design and involvement of stakeholders at all points in the process, just as many effective organizations do on any strategic change initiative.
Resources Mentioned
Fixing Fairness: 4 Tenets to Transform Diversity Backlash into Progress for All by Lily Zheng (Amazon, Bookshop)*
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Related Episodes
Supporting Return to Work After Maternity Leave, with Danna Greenberg (episode 639)
The Power of Unlearning Silence, with Elaine Lin Hering (episode 678)
How to Lead a Meaningful Cultural Shift, with David Hutchens (episode 755)
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39 min
February 16 770: How to Make Change Irresistible, with Phil Gilbert
Phil Gilbert: Irresistible Change
Phil Gilbert is best known for leading IBM's 21st-century transformation as their General Manager of Design. The transformation became the subject of a Harvard Business School case study, the documentary film The Loop, and feature articles in the New York Times and Fortune Magazine. He is the author of Irresistible Change: A Blueprint for Earning Buy-In and Breakout Success (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
We’ve all been through mandated change initiatives more times than we can count. But what if change wasn’t a mandate, but an offer – or even an invitation? In this conversation, Phil and I explore how to make change irresistible.
Key Points
Change should be regarded as a high-value-add product.
Don’t mandate change. Offer change.
Your goal is sustained cultural adoption, not improving immediate competency.
Start small, but cover all your bases on a reduced scale. Make a great cupcake instead of a mediocre wedding cake.
People buy brands, not products. Branding change allows you to define the values and message that goes with it.
Resources Mentioned
Irresistible Change: A Blueprint for Earning Buy-In and Breakout Success by Phil Gilbert (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
Engaging People Through Change, with Cassandra Worthy (episode 571)
Where Senior Leaders Can Better Support Middle Managers, with Emily Field (episode 650)
How to Lead Organizational Change, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 740)
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37 min
February 09 769: How to Connect Better with Remote Colleagues, with Charles Duhigg
Charles Duhigg: Supercommunicators
Charles Duhigg is a Pulitzer Prize–winning investigative journalist and the author of The Power of Habit and Smarter Faster Better. He is a winner of the National Academies of Sciences, National Journalism, and George Polk awards. He writes for The New Yorker and other publications and is the author of Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
A lot of us grew up in a world where most of our relationships started in person. That means many of us are beautifully equipped for a world that no longer exists. In this conversation, Charles and I discuss how to get better at connecting in a remote-first world.
Key Points
When the telephone first became popular, people had to learn how to communicate with it. We’re at a similar inflection point with digital communication.
We all have three kinds of conversations: (1) What’s this really about? (practical/decision-making), (2) How do we feel? (emotional), and (3) Who are we? (identity).
Many of us tend to default to practical/decision-making conversations online and miss conversations about emotion and identity.
Ask questions that invite an emotional or identity response. Instead of, “Where do you live?” consider a shift like, “What do you love about where you live?”
Notice when people bring elements into a conversation that aren’t related to the topic. These clues, especially online, can point to entry points for emotional connection.
Supercommunicators pay just a bit more attention to how people communicate than the rest of us. A slight shift can make a big difference.
Resources Mentioned
Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection by Charles Duhigg (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
The Way to Get People Talking, with Andrew Warner (episode 560)
How to Lead Engaging Meetings, with Jess Britt (episode 721)
How to Show Up Authentically in Tough Situations, with Andrew Brodsky (episode 727)
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39 min
February 02 768: Evolving from Business Partner to Value Creator, with JP Elliott
JP Elliott: Future of HR
JP Elliott has decades of experience as a Talent and HR executive at companies like DICK'S Sporting Goods, McAfee, and Lenovo. He’s seen the challenges HR professionals face in growing their careers and increasing their impact. He is the host of the Future of HR podcast and on a mission to help HR professionals increase their business impact and accelerate their careers.
Leadership looks a little different if you head up a support role: human resources, IT, marketing, or finance. Often, we hear the term “business partner” used to describe what these leaders should be aiming for. In this conversation, JP and I explore how to shift from simply a “business partner” to a value creator.
Key Points
You're not just an HR leader. You're a business leader with HR expertise.
Think like a CEO even if you’re in HR. Do this to be moving beyond an execution-only mindset.
Design talent strategies based on the future, not on the past.
Build systems that reward outcomes, not bureaucracy.
Build talent strategies that differentiate your business.
Forecast leadership needs 3-5 years out and build a pipeline for critical roles.
Four questions that CEOs are asking:
Are we focused on the right strategic imperatives?
Are we operating effectively and efficiently?
Are we optimizing our business model to create competitive advantage?
Do we have a plan for sustainable and profitable growth?
Resources Mentioned
Future of HR podcast by JP Elliott
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
How to Start Managing Up, with Tom Henschel (episode 433)
How to Solve the Toughest Problems, with Wendy Smith (episode 612)
The Mindset to Help Your Organization Grow, with Tiffani Bova (episode 633)
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40 min
January 26 767: Being Nice May Not Be Kind, with Graham Allcott
Graham Allcott: KIND
Graham Allcott is an author, speaker, entrepreneur, and the founder of Think Productive, a leading provider of training and consultancy. He is the author of multiple books, including the bestseller How to Be a Productivity Ninja and his latest book, KIND: The Quiet Power of Kindness at Work (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
“Nice” means telling people what they want to hear. “Kind” means telling them what they need to hear. The best leaders are kind. In this conversation, Graham and I explore how we can do a better job of following through.
Key Points
“Nice” means telling people what they want to hear, whereas “kind” means telling them what they need to hear.
Kindness is both concern for others and concern for self. Just like with salted caramel, it’s best with the right balance.
Leaders often do better articulating vision and values than they do with getting clear on expectations of value each person should provide.
Being clear is an act of kindness in itself because it drives psychological safety.
Use a personal mantra as a concise and powerful way to consistently remind people about what’s most important.
Invite others to “give the last 20%” in feedback to uncover areas where clarity would help.
Resources Mentioned
KIND: The Quiet Power of Kindness at Work by Graham Allcott (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Rev Up for the Week (Graham’s newsletter)
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
Five Steps to Hold People Accountable, with Jonathan Raymond (episode 306)
How to Build Psychological Safety, with Amy Edmondson (episode 404)
How to Give Feedback, with Russ Laraway (episode 583)
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38 min
January 19 766: Using AI to Make Networking Easier, with Ruth Gotian
Ruth Gotian: Networking in the Age of AI
Ruth Gotian is the former Chief Learning Officer and Associate Professor of Education in Anaesthesiology at Weill Cornell Medicine. Thinkers50 has ranked her the #1 emerging management thinker in the world, and she's a top LinkedIn voice in mentoring. She's the author of The Success Factor and, with Andy Lopata, The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring.
Most of us recognize the value of building a better network, but we also know the time and dedication it takes. In this conversation, Ruth and I explore how we can use AI tools to do some of the administrative legwork so that we can spend more time on the real relationship-building.
Key Points
McKinsey reports that since the pandemic, most people’s networks have shrunk or stalled.
Consider the 90/9/1 rule: 90% of people lurk in online communities, 9% interact somewhat regularly, 1% post and lead the conversation.
Use AI to enhance, not replace, your communications. Invite AI to do the administrative legwork (i.e. brainstorming, proofreading) so you focus on the human aspects.
Ask AI to analyze speaker and attendee lists in advance at conferences in the context of your goals.
Consider being the person that puts together an in-person dinner or gathering at a conference. Use AI to help you prep questions and discover the best people to invite.
Ask AI to help complete your LinkedIn profile. An All-Star LinkedIn profile makes it substantially more likely that you’ll get surfaced to others.
Resources Mentioned
Networking in the Age of AI by Ruth Gotian
Related Episodes
How to Grow Your Professional Network, with Tom Henschel* (episode 279)
How to Build a Network While Still Doing Everything Else, with Ruth Gotian* (episode 591)
The Key Elements of a Powerful Personal Brand, with Goldie Chan* (episode 757)
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40 min
January 12 765: How to See What’s Holding You Back, with Marty Dubin
Marty Dubin: Blindspotting
Martin Dubin is a clinical psychologist, serial entrepreneur, business coach, and adviser to C-suite executives and Silicon Valley entrepreneurs. He has founded several companies, including a multimillion-dollar health-care company where he also served as CEO. He is the author of Blindspotting: How to See What’s Holding You Back as a Leader (Amazon, Bookshop)*.
Whenever I ask leaders, “What’s getting in the way of you moving forward?” the most common answer I hear is, “Myself.” In this episode, Marty and I explore what’s likely holding you back and how you can take the first steps to get traction.
Key Points
Many leaders don’t recognize the need for change and succumb to an identity blindspot.
You don’t have to change your identity, but there’s a mismatch between role and identity, that’s a major problem.
Shifting your identity is not changing who you are. Identities help us to sort through people and situations so we know who we are in relation to them.
An identity that many have worked before can get in the way today. Common ones are: imposter, independent thinker, rule follower, unworthy, entitled, rebel, and peacemaker.
Look back through your calendar over the past three months and determine how well your activities match up with the identity your role demands.
Embody the new identity you are aiming to shift to, even if you’re not yet feeling it.
Resources Mentioned
Blindspotting: How to See What’s Holding You Back as a Leader by Marty Dubin (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Interview Notes
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Related Episodes
Six Questions Every Leader Should Ask Themselves, with Margaret Andrews (episode 750)
How to See What Others Miss, with Kirstin Ferguson (episode 758)
Show Up Better, Faster, with Claude Silver (episode 762)
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37 min
January 05 764: Stop Solving Your Team’s Problems, with Elizabeth Lotardo
Elizabeth Lotardo: Stop Solving Your Team’s Problems for Them
Elizabeth Lotardo is a consultant, writer, and online instructor who helps organizations drive emotional engagement. Elizabeth writes for Harvard Business Review, is a Top Voice on LinkedIn, and the author of Leading Yourself: Find More Joy, Meaning, and Opportunities in the Job You Already Have. She’s also the author of the Harvard Business Review article, Stop Solving Your Team’s Problems for Them.
Jumping in to solve problems feels like we’re doing important work. The issue is that leaders need to be enabling work – both for scale and to grow the skills of others. In this conversation, Elizabeth and I detailed how to get out of the trap of solving your team’s problems for them.
Key Points
Jumping in to solve a problem feels good in the moment for both parties, but creates long-term obstacles.
The other extreme, asking people to only come with solutions, often shuts down learning for both parties.
Shifting a habit of solving your team’s problems will feel awkward at first – both for your team and you.
Rather than solving the problem for them, help remove the obstacle.
Support doesn’t just have to come from the manager. Often, looking at the situation together will help surface what kind of support would actually help.
We often assume that people are coming to us for answers. Sometimes, they just need to be heard.
Five questions that will help your team step up:
What have you tried?
What–or who–is getting in the way of tackling this?
What support do you need?
What would you do if you were in my seat?
Is there anything else I should know?
Resources Mentioned
Stop Solving Your Team’s Problems for Them by Elizabeth Lotardo
Leading Yourself: Find More Joy, Meaning, and Opportunities in the Job You Already Have by Elizabeth Lotardo (Amazon, Bookshop)*
Related Episodes
The Way to Stop Rescuing People From Their Problems, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 284)
Where Senior Leaders Can Better Support Middle Managers, with Emily Field (episode 650)
The Key Norm of a High-Performing Team, with Vanessa Druskat (episode 753)
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31 min
December 29, 2025585R: How Top Leaders Influence Great Teamwork, with Scott Keller
Scott Keller: CEO Excellence
Scott is a senior partner in McKinsey’s Southern California office. He co-leads the firm’s global CEO Excellence service line and is the author of six books, including the bestseller Beyond Performance. Scott spent his early consulting years working on business strategy and operational topics until his life was turned upside down when his second child was born with profound special needs.
After taking time off to attend to his family, Scott returned to McKinsey with the desire to bring the best of psychology, social science, and the study of human potential into the workplace. He is a cofounder of Digital Divide Data and one of a few hundred people in history known to have traveled to every country in the world. His most recent book written with Carolyn Dewar and Vikram Malhotra is titled CEO Excellence: The Six Mindsets That Distinguish the Best Leaders from the Rest.
In this conversation, Scott and I examine McKinsey’s research on what the top CEOs do (and avoid) when building great teams. We look at a few of the key mindsets that the best CEOs bring to their organizations — and how teamwork plays into this. Plus, we explore some of the key questions top leaders should ask when determining if it’s time to exit someone from the team.
Key Points
Top leaders staff for both aptitude and attitude. The have an eye to both the short and long term.
The most successful CEOs have a mindset of “first team” and expect leaders in the organization to prioritize serving the whole team/organization over any functional area.
New CEOs are often known for acting quickly on staffing, but the most successful leaders also temper this with fairness. They use the four questions below to act with both fairness and speed.
Top leaders stay connected with people throughout the organization, but also keep some distance. There’s a key distinction between being friendly and making friends.
The best CEO’s ensure that have positively addressed all four questions below before removing somebody:
Does the team member know exactly what’s expected of them: i.e., what the agenda is and what jobs need to be done to drive that agenda?
Have they been given the needed tools and resources, and a chance to build the necessary skills and confidence to use them effectively?
Are they surrounded by others (including the CEO) who are aligned on a common direction and who display the desired mindsets and behaviors?
Is it clear what the consequences are if they don’t get on board and deliver?
Resources Mentioned
CEO Excellence: The Six Mindsets That Distinguish the Best Leaders from the Rest by Carolyn Dewar, Scott Keller, and Vikram Malhotra
The Hidden Life of Trees: What They Feel, How They Communicate – Discoveries from a Secret World by Peter Wohlleben
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39 min

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