Confidence

I'm not going to lie (no pun intended); this week is a vulnerable look into a serious conflict that erupted over the past week with long-distance situation. How would you feel if you found out your partner deleted text messages? Would you leave the relationship? Are they really a bad person, or did they have a reason? I discuss a character trait that has destroyed a lot of my past relationships. I also answer, "How do I attract a stable man?" Bring your ice cubes because the tea is piping hot.

Chapters:

00:00 Long Distance Situation Deleted Texts Story

49:15 How to Find a Stable Man

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It's time to get down and dirty. This week, I will answer your questions: what is considered bad s*x from a man's perspective, how do I move on from or detach from them quickly (especially when I know it's not the right thing for me), and why do men are scared to make the first move. Before we get to that, I share a personal story about the tricky trials of the talking stage and posting your relationship on social media. It's time to shoot your shot, break free from their bullshit, and throw it down in the sheets.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

26:14 Men Being Scared to Make First Move

41:24 What's Bad S*x from a Man's POV

55:18 How to Get Over Them Quick

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It's the week of Valentine's Day, which means I have an exciting announcement (listen for details). This week, I tackle where to find good men (or people in general), how to navigate the "how are you" guys on dating apps, and when is the appropriate time to go over a guy's house when you first start dating. I also share the top gift ideas for your man, did someone say BJ?? I also deliver the cold hard truth about expressing what you need, go over how men process their feelings, and let you know if good D is only reserved for the bad boys.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

25:22 Valentine's Day What to Get Him

34:27 Navigating the "how are you" men on dating apps

40:36 When to Go to Guys House for First Time

51:33 Where to Find Good Men

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Ready to take your situationship and turn it into a relationship well here is the MF blueprint! We explore how a man thinks when it comes to Instagram dating and why he only likes and comments but never follows through. We also look at how to handle someone talking shit when things don't work out the way we want it to. This episode is jam-packed with so many dating nuggets you don't want to miss it.

Chapters:

00:00 Intro and Personal Update

20:26 Instagram Dating Question

34:22 Rejected By the Casual Dating Guy

43:39 How to Turn Your Situationship to a Relationship

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Well, it's time to get your sh*t together. This week's episode is a massive wake-up call for you and me. I discuss my recently victimish and selfish ways that have caused a stir in my relationships. The only way out is to go back in.

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After a few week-long hiatus, I figured it was time to come back to tell my story. In this episode, I face the paradox of detachment: I give some guidance on how women can best combat their attachment to the wrong men while facing my own problems trying to detach from work. Speaking of work, have you ever dated someone who does the same thing as you? Also, it seems like this long-distance situation really has a chokehold on me, but is there enough to close the gap?

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Have you ever been in a piss-poor mood, and you just can’t shake the feeling? Woof, well, here you go, an episode where I am sarcastically battling my whirlwind of shitty emotions. I explore how even those who “have it all together” can easily find their way into a victim mentality and a negative mindset. I’ll discuss why I feel this way and my attempts to work out of it. I’ll even touch on how my childhood patterns start reappearing when I am not feeling my best and how I project MY bullshit, especially onto those closest to me. Here’s your reminder to check yourself: Are you actually doing the things that make YOU happy?

It’s been a while since the last podcast. It feels good to be back! Boy, a lot has happened, from a crisis averted to meeting a girl with all green flags (team wholesome?) and evaluating some serious life choices. Can a major roadblock lead to a better path forward? Maybe so, but change is uncomfortable as a mother fucker, and can have you feeling more stuck than you've ever been before. To get out of your rut, you must remind yourself of the things that truly light you up, what really matters, and take action. Let’s explore how your obsession with possession can push you further away from the things you so deeply desire.

Disclaimer, feeling a little raunchy this week and it might be because of my celibacy update. As I dive into this episode starting off with a bang (literally) and quickly I’m reminded to always trust my intuition. I talk about the big question everyone asks, “Is being intimate on the first date really an issue” and how mental and sexual connections can differ amongst partners. I then tackle signs you’re just not into them, which might make you realize they actually aren’t into you.

I hope you have some thick skin because this week, I react blindly to all the reasons you have gotten bullied. From extraordinary boob sizes to unappealing features and clever verbal attacks, I will help you relive your trauma one last time. Before we get into that, I tell a story about how I approached a girl at Circle K, why I am going to stop giving out my Instagram, and how a girl roasting me turned into a dispute about the right reasons to get bullied.

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