Feeling disconnected in relationships is a theme that's been surfacing a lot lately in my coaching sessions, and I think it’s something that many of us can relate to. In this episode, I dive into the common struggles women face in long-term partnerships, particularly the sense of not being heard or satisfied.

We explore the importance of owning our part in relationship dynamics while also recognising when our emotional needs aren’t being met. I share insights on how to navigate those tough conversations that can feel daunting but are essential for connection. Ultimately, we discuss the deeper emotional issues behind surface-level complaints and how reconnecting with a shared vision for the future can reignite the spark in a relationship.

So, if you're feeling a bit lost or disconnected, this episode just might offer some helpful perspectives.Takeaways:

• Feeling disconnected in relationships is a common theme that many women experience, especially in long-term partnerships, and it's important to address this.
• To improve your relationship, it's crucial to understand your own emotional patterns and responsibilities without self-judgement or blame.
• Effective communication requires clarity about what you want to achieve from difficult conversations, focusing on positive intentions rather than complaints.
• Deep emotional needs often underlie surface complaints about behaviour; recognising and expressing these needs is essential for resolving relationship issues.

You might also want to check out these episodes:

Cracking the Code on Relationships with Dr Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples
https://www.crappytohappypod.com/cracking-the-code-on-relationships-with-dr-sue-johnson/

The Key to Successful Relationships with Dr Ann Kelley
https://www.crappytohappypod.com/the-key-to-successful-relationships-with-dr-ann-kelley/



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We're kicking off our brand new series for paid subscribers, "Mindfulness... and then what?", where we'll dive deep into how to truly incorporate mindfulness into your life for real benefits. I know, I know—mindfulness is one of those buzzwords that can make people roll their eyes, but stay with me! This month, we’re all about getting practical and relevant with mindfulness, addressing the stress, overwhelm, and uncertainty we face daily. Together, we'll explore what’s not working and set intentions for change. Whether it’s sleep issues, irritability, or just feeling off-balance, we're here to figure out what you want to be different by the end of the month, while I share tools to help you navigate your emotions and experiences. There'll be audio lessons, guided meditations and practical processes all designed to help you emerge with more clarity and calm, despite what's happening in your life.So, grab your journal, and let’s get started.If you're not a paid subscriber and would like to join in - upgrade to paid in the Apple podcasts app or on Spotify (which will link you to Substack). Or sign up directly on Substack: https://cassdunn.substack.comConnect with Cass:www.cassdunn.comwww.instagram.com/cassdunn_xoContact Crappy to Happy:Email: [email protected]www.crappytohappypod.comwww.instagram.com/crappytohappypodwww.tiktok.com/@crappytohappypodWant more?Upgrade to Paid in the Spotify or Apple podcasts App to get immediate access to "Beyond Happy", the subscriber only podcast featuring bonus content, meditations and more!To get invitations to live calls and chats with Cass, subscribe via Spotify or Substack:cassdunn.substack.comYour feedback is important!To receive a FREE subscription to Beyond Happy, the subscriber only podcast and community, please take a minute to fill in our listener survey so we can keep making the show the best it can be. Note: Updated link (this is a Google form where your email address is optional).https://forms.gle/tmmuaKgn82c8TKjZA

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Today’s episode dives deep into a crucial question: who are you when you’re at your best? I’m inviting you to explore the qualities that make you shine and how to create the conditions in your life that allow you to be at your best more of the time. We discuss the importance of understanding both our best selves and our not-so-great moments, drawing connections between our moods, circumstances, and overall well-being. This episode is all about setting yourself up for success and identifying what conditions allow you to flourish. Takeaways:

• Knowing who you are at your best means identifying the unique qualities that truly shine when you are living optimally.
• Listeners are encouraged to consider the conditions that allow for optimal functioning, such as sleep, downtime, and mindful practices to enhance your overall well-being.
• We touch on the challenges of managing time and energy in a busy life, reminding ourselves to prioritise what truly matters for our mental health.

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Hi from my mum's wardrobe. I'm on holiday in Australia and taking a break from my packing to share a personal update that highlights how unpredictable life can be. My family has recently faced some unexpected challenges, including my husband’s work being impacted by significant global events and unexpected health issues with his father.

Meanwhile, we live in another country with no clear end date, which makes everything feel a little tenuous.I wanted to take the opportunity to mention the importance of "psychological flexibility", a key concept from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which encourages us to stay adaptable and resilient by focusing on what we can control, staying connected to the present moment, finding meaning in our values, and taking the action that's necessary even if it's hard.

Join me for a super quick chat from the wardrobe about how we can remain present and connected to what truly matters, even when life feels overwhelming. Takeaways:

• Life is unpredictable, and being prepared for unexpected challenges is essential for resilience.
• Psychological flexibility helps us adapt and remain centered amid difficulties and uncertainties.
• Focusing on present moments and values can guide us through life's challenges and changes.
• Quality social connections play a crucial role in maintaining our happiness and overall well-being.
• It's important to recognise that our thoughts and feelings are passing experiences, not our identity.
• Taking committed action aligned with our values is key to navigating tough times effectively.

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Carli McConkey was a naive 21yr old seeking self-improvement when she was recruited into a new age cult where she spent over 13yrs trapped and enslaved. Carli bravely shares her experience of being manipulated, coerced, and abused, explaining the psychological tactics employed by cult leaders to maintain control.

After finally escaping, Carli’s struggles continued when she fought and won a defamation lawsuit brought upon her by her former cult leader. She also shares her frustration that her cult leader is currently a registered psychologist in Australia and the UK, despite regulatory bodies in both countries being made aware of the judges' rulings in this case.Carli sheds light on the complexities of recovery from cult abuse.

Through sharing her story, she educates us about the red flags of cults, and highlights the importance of professionals being equipped to support cult survivors in the aftermath of their experience.

For support and websites referenced in this episode:

Cult Information and Family Support (CIFS) Australia
https://www.cifs.org.au/
Cult Education Institute (Rick Ross)
https://culteducation.com/
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www.carlimcconkey.com

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The recent World Happiness Report highlights a striking link between social trust and voting preferences, revealing that individuals with low social trust are more prone to supporting right-wing political parties. In this episode, I dive into this fascinating finding, which highlights how our personal dissatisfaction with life often translates into political choices that can influence societal outcomes. It’s a wake-up call for all of us to reflect on our role in fostering social connections and trust within our communities. Despite our natural pessimism about kindness, studies show that people generally underestimate the empathy and support available around them. We have the power to change this narrative—by actively nurturing trust and connection, we can improve not only our own well-being but also the fabric of our society.Takeaways:

• The World Happiness Report indicates that low social trust correlates with voting for right-wing parties.
• Individuals with lower satisfaction in life tend to reject traditional political systems and seek alternatives.
• Social connection is vital for our happiness, health, and longevity, and we must prioritise it.
• Many young adults feel they lack social support, often underestimating the kindness of others around them.
• Our perceptions of others' empathy significantly influence our willingness to connect and engage socially.
• Rebuilding social trust requires individual responsibility in recognising the goodness in others and fostering connections.

Links:World Happiness Report 2025Connect with Cass:www.cassdunn.comwww.instagram.com/cassdunn_xoContact Crappy to Happy:Email: [email protected]www.crappytohappypod.comwww.instagram.com/crappytohappypodwww.tiktok.com/@crappytohappypodWant more?Upgrade to Paid in the Spotify or Apple podcasts App to get immediate access to "Beyond Happy", the subscriber only podcast featuring bonus content, meditations and more!To get invitations to live calls and chats with Cass, subscribe via Spotify or Substack:cassdunn.substack.comYour feedback is important!To receive a FREE subscription to Beyond Happy, the subscriber only podcast and community, please take a minute to fill in our listener survey so we can keep making the show the best it can be. Note: Updated link (this is a Google form where your email address is optional).https://forms.gle/tmmuaKgn82c8TKjZA

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Amie McNee joins me in the studio to share her insights on the transformative power of creativity and the importance of claiming your artistic voice. Her new book, "We Need Your Art", is a rallying cry for those who feel they aren't "real" artists and encourages everyone to embrace their creative impulses. Amie passionately argues that art is not just for the privileged few; it's an essential part of the human experience that everyone can and should engage in. Throughout our conversation, we delve into how creativity can heal both individuals and communities, and the vital role it plays in our overall well-being. If you’ve ever hesitated to share your art or doubted your creativity, this episode is a must-listen for you—because trust us, we need your art!Takeaways:

• Everyone should embrace their creativity and express themselves artistically, regardless of their perceived talent.
• Art is not merely a hobby but a vital part of the human experience that fosters connection and change.
• The act of creating can be a powerful tool for personal healing and community building, challenging societal norms that dismiss its importance.
• Overcoming perfectionism and sharing 'shitty art' can help individuals reclaim their creative power and confidence in their abilities.

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Today, I'm celebrating a huge milestone: 100 days alcohol-free! It feels amazing, and I want to share my journey with you—from the challenges to the triumphs. I also dive deep into the reasons behind my decision, including some personal revelations about ADHD and how it has shaped my relationship with alcohol. It’s not just about quitting drinking but understanding why we turn to these habits in the first place. Plus, I’m inviting you to complete a listener survey to help us grow and improve the show. (I'm willing to bribe you. I have no shame. Tune in to hear more.)Takeaways:

• Achieving 100 days alcohol-free is a significant milestone that leads to amazing personal growth.
• It's important to reflect on moments when quitting feels easy and to cherish that success.
• Recognising the role of ADHD in alcohol consumption can help in understanding personal habits.
• Subscribing to the paid version of the podcast offers exclusive content to enhance your well-being journey.

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Dr. Michelle McQuaid joins me in this episode to dive deep into the concept of "good girl conditioning" and how it impacts women's mental health and well-being. We explore the societal expectations that shape our beliefs from a young age, often leading to exhaustion and a sense of emptiness, despite achieving external markers of success.

Dr. McQuaid shares her personal journey of discovering these patterns and the research that highlights how they manifest in our lives, particularly for women. Together, we discuss practical strategies for breaking free from these constraints.

This conversation is not just enlightening; it’s a call to action for all of us to step into our authentic selves and support each other in that journey.

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www.thegoodgirlgamechangers.com
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This week, we're diving into parts work, with an introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and how you can apply it as a tool for self-healing. We'll explore how recognising and connecting with different parts of yourself - like your inner child or your inner perfectionist - can lead to greater self-awareness, self-compassion and personal growth. The episode highlights the importance of curiosity and kindness as you navigate your emotional landscape, encouraging you to accept all the parts of you.Takeaways:

• Understanding Internal Family Systems therapy can help us connect with different parts of ourselves.
• Parts work encourages self-compassion by acknowledging the motivations behind our behaviours and emotions.
• Embracing our wounded parts allows for healing and a healthier relationship with our inner selves.

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