Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers | Mother Wound Healing After Maternal Narcissism & Family Dysfunction

Have you done a lot of work on yourself and yet intense emotions still show up?
Do you feel like you've been healing forever and yet you still get triggered?
Does that make you feel like you are still broken or there's must be something wrong with you??
First of all, I want you to know that there's nothing wrong with you at all, and if that is indeed what you are experiencing, that is a very natural part of the overall healing journey you are on.
Today I'm sharing with you a very emotional first hand experience I had just a few days ago, when a very intense wave of highly challenging emotions got triggered... And what I did then...
Because, yes, that still happens to me too, despite years of inner work... Listen to the episode to hear the full story!

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"How do I know I'm not repeating the same patterns as my mother with my own child?"
"How can I even become a mum when my mother didn't model anything good for me?"
"Am I going to be the same as my mother??"

These are the questions that can naturally come up when you realise your mother is a narcissist and you start recognising some of the patterns in your own relationship with your child... But what is the key difference between you and your mother?

Listen to the full episode to hear the key difference between your mother's narcissistic behaviour and you. 

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Are you ever feeling crushed and overwhelmed by intense emotions?
Do you ever feel like you've done so much work and yet you still get so much anxiety, sadness, loneliness, frustration and so on?
Do you ever feel like it's too much and there's no way out??
I get it! I felt that way for a long time, and I get days like that still.
None of what you feel is your fault, none of what happened to you s your fault!
And you have the power to turn it all around! 
In this episode I'm sharing all my go to tools to support your system in navigating all the triggers that bring on such waves of intense emotions.

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Are you finding it challenging to maintain no contact during the holiday season?
Does your mother use holidays and special events as an excuse to contact you and you have enough of it?
Maybe you are thinking of going no contact but don't know how to go about it, especially with the upcoming holidays...

In this episode I answer questions I received from some of you amazing women about how to keep a successful active no contact during the holiday season.

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With Love!
 
 

Are you dreading the approaching holiday season, with all the family gatherings, obligations, and so on?
Do you feel a lot of anxiety around it? Or perhaps this feels like an unhappy time because of your mother?
Maybe the sense of loneliness and isolation is stronger for you at this time of the year?
I get that!

In this episode we explore the ways a narcissistic mother can weaponize the holidays, and a few tips to turn this time of the year around.

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Offer ends on November 27th. Limited spaces available so don't miss out!!

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How do you describe yourself when asked to?
How many things do you regularly say about yourself that do not feel so good?
Until now, were you even aware you were using words to describe yourself that feel diminishing, limiting, boxing...?

When did you start feel that way about yourself?
How many of the labels your mother used for you have you made your own?

By slowing down and getting to know who you believe you are, with curiosity, kindness and devotion, you can create true lasting shifts in how you see yourself, which in turns creates true lasting shifts in your life.

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Over my 15 years working with women, and indeed in my own personal experience, I’ve observed how despite all that we go through, despite the pain we feel daily, despite life not going our way at all, despite all the suffering and unhappiness, we still hesitate when it comes to do something for ourselves. 

Do you feel that way? Does that ever happen to you? To know something would truly benefit you and be there anxious and worried it’s not the right decision and so on??

Why do we do that?

There’s a deep wound at the root of it. One that we've carried in our DNA for generations and that it's reopened and reinforced by having grown up with a narcissistic mother...

The wound of "Not Deserving"

In this episode we go deep into the origin of this wound and the impact it has on our lives, as well as the best way to gently shift the pattern. 

For any questions and to be on the waiting list for the next wave of The 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme email Matilde at: 

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With Love!

Do you feel comfortable among people?
Or does interacting with others leave you drained and exhausted??

Would you describe yourself as introverted, shy, not a people person??
Or are you the soul of the party, yet somehow still feeling lonely on the inside??

Growing up with a narcissistic mother truly impacts the way we relate to others, leaving us with the biggest pain yet... The pain of trying to be someone we are not!

In this episode you get to understand what is behind all that pain, and how to shift it, getting to know the real you behind the mask.

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A narcissistic mother imposes her own truths and beliefs, and not empowering ones of course, on her children, as a very effective way to keep them in her control and fill her tank. 

By controlling your beliefs, a narcissistic mother controls you. 

My mother didn’t miss a chance to box me and define me, so I could be more manageable for her, and manageable means easier to control.

Let's look at how that happens and what you can do to break free of those limiting beliefs!

Important!
Registration for the 1:1 10 weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme are open now till Friday October 20th. this is the last opening for 2023.

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With love!

Have you tried everything to keep a relationship with your narcissistic mother but the pain is too much?

Are you thinking about going no contact but you don't know where to start?

Are you no contact already and finding it truly challenging?

In this episode I speak to my experience being no contact with my mother for the past 2 years, all the challenges of this decision and how to go about it in the most effective way.

IMPORTANT:

New spaces opening to join 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme. Registration will open October 16th till the 20th. Limited spaces available. You can email now to be on the waiting list for this wave. There will be no more opening for 2023.
Email at [email protected]

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To contact Matilde with your questions email at

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With Love!