Dimming The Gaslight: Our Healing Journey From Narcissistic Abuse

Episode 77 is a solo episode. I talk about my recent 3rd clearance from DCPP, my upcoming motion hearing next week, and the future of this podcast.

Chelsey Brooke Cole is a psychotherapist and is fresh off her recent interview with USA Today to come speak with us about the spectrum of narcissism. We cover characteristics, comorbidities, and even personal stories with each category.

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We had another Case Management conference for the martial case. The judge expands my parenting time, rejects my NEx’s demand to take the children on vacation during my parenting time, and even opens back up communication between me and my NEx.

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Episode 74 welcomes in an awesome guest - @five0.fierce.and.fit ! Monica is an active police officer who explains to us the overlaps between narcissism and taking testimonies regarding DV! She goes into detail about how the police respond to a DV call, the kind of things they look for, and even how they know sometimes they’re taking a false testimony!

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I’m joined this week by Lexi, who has an absolutely triumphant story she shares about overcoming real domestic violence. Lexi tells us about her NEx’s popularity and what made her fall for him, the ways she had to cover up her shame and regret, and her BIG plans to help survivors like you!

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Episode 72 is a recap of Day 6 of my DV Trial! My NEx admits, on the stand, under oath, that she is not acting in the best interest of the children, that she has physically assaulted me, and that she has tried to keep the kids away from me for money!

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A major miscalculation on my part blows my cover, and reveals the name Dimming The Gaslight to my NEx!

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Episode 70 welcomes back my lawyer to recap my court date with me! FINALLY we got some good movement on my cross exam. For the first time ever, I will read evidence I have on the air, talk about my NEx’s broken logic during testimony, and the absolutely IDIOTIC things my NEx says while she’s on the stand!


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Enjoy Episode 70!

DISCLAIMER: Our lawyers say we need this disclaimer. So, Dimming The Gaslight is based entirely on true events, except for the shit we totally made up. Names, locations, and other identifying characteristics have been altered. If you think we’re talking about you in this podcast, newsflash: you are the narcissist.

Episode 69 features a new friend of mine - @rdaveashley! Dave is here to tell us about his story, drop some great quotes on us, and even an emotional story about how he almost didn’t make it through the abuse!

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Enjoy Dave's Episode!

DISCLAIMER: Our lawyers say we need this disclaimer. So, Dimming The Gaslight is based entirely on true events, except for the shit we totally made up. Names, locations, and other identifying characteristics have been altered. If you think we’re talking about you in this podcast, newsflash: you are the narcissist. 

Episode 68 is one I've been wanting to do for over a year with Jon from @MaleVictimsOfFemaleNarcissists on IG. Jon was the married to his narcissist for 27 years. He goes in depth about their experience with marriage counseling, how his sanity was tested at every turn, and even how his narc wouldn't give him any sympathy when he revealed to her that he had a potentially life threatening illness!

If you’d like to be part of the show, please email me at [email protected].

To find all of my links and content, click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠! And please donate to my GoFundMe if you can.

Enjoy Jon's Episode!

DISCLAIMER: Our lawyers say we need this disclaimer. So, Dimming The Gaslight is based entirely on true events, except for the shit we totally made up. Names, locations, and other identifying characteristics have been altered. If you think we’re talking about you in this podcast, newsflash: you are the narcissist.