I don't believe that making the choice to explore a sexual connection AND enjoy the experience is connected to physical attraction to your spouse in any way (aka, you don't need to be turned on by his body.)  

This also includes you if you DO find him hunky and still don't want and/or enjoy sex with him.  

This doesn't mean anything about you or your marriage.  

Curious to know why?  

I'm choosing to be honest in hopes that it will calm some fears on this hotly debated topic.

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