What is the first image, that comes to your mind, when you hear the word “Trauma”?

A car crash? Violence in a family? War?

These are severe and traumatizing events, for sure.

But, what if I’m telling you, that instead silent trauma causes many challenges we deal with, such as attachment & relationship-problems, constant shame and heavy emotional outbreaks?

What if I’m telling you, that your wounds from the past are not a result of the severe events, but of the things that didn’t happen, that should have?

Today, you will attain clarity what emotional neglect is

You will understand how emotional neglect from the past shapes our present and future and which challenges this means to us

And you will learn a process how to break free and relearn proper emotional processing in the here and now.

► Links and Resources:

Video - Cycle of Toxic Shame: https://youtu.be/e0W9c_1lSHU?si=FyQz6wGeaGLTobOS

Video - Emotional Dysregulation: https://youtu.be/Q0iGqa7y6BA?si=AY-HwgqoU-YMxmL5

Video - Infatuation: https://youtu.be/Uk27yW1ZXMA?si=0dTj98d3O9sODHK7

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► Episode Timestamps:

0:00 Overview Emotional Neglect

1:56 Trauma: The Definition Behind

6:00 Consequences of Early Emotional Neglect

9:17 Trauma vs. Emotional Neglect

11:15 Why are Emotions so Important?

14:15 How Does Emotional Neglect Shame Our Emotional World?

18:33 Mismatch: Inner Perception & Outer Perception

27:35 Adulthood Challenges Caused by Emotional Neglect (CEN)

35:00 5 Steps to Heal from Emotional Neglect (CEN)

43:50 Final Thoughts

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