The Estranged Heart

EP: 140 - The GOOD Son, My SONshine - How favoritism can prohibit any chance of reconciliation


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This episode explores the topic of favoritism within families and how it can hinder reconciliation between estranged parents and adult children. Kreed shares personal and professional experiences and discusses the emotional impact of favoritism on the estranged child. The episode highlights the importance of listening to the child's perspective and the damaging effects of labeling one child as the 'good' child. It also explores the reasons why parents engage in favoritism, such as seeking validation, avoiding guilt, and coping with fear and loss. The episode emphasizes the need for reflection, accountability, and understanding in order to facilitate healing and reconciliation.

Takeaways

Favoritism within families can hinder reconciliation between estranged parents and adult children.

Labeling one child as the 'good' child can have a negative impact on the self-esteem of the estranged child.

Parents engage in favoritism for various reasons, such as seeking validation and avoiding guilt.

Reflection, accountability, and understanding are necessary for healing and reconciliation.

Listening to the child's perspective is crucial in addressing the damaging effects of favoritism.


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