In this conversation, Kreed explores the complex emotional landscape of estrangement between parents and adult children. She emphasizes that estrangement is often not the result of a single event but rather a culmination of unmet emotional needs and communication patterns. She encourages parents to shift their perspective from self-blame to compassionate curiosity, fostering understanding and healing in their relationships. She also highlights the importance of recognizing personal patterns and seeking guidance to navigate the complexities of estrangement.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

Summary

In this conversation, Kreed explores the concepts of radical acceptance and radical responsibility, particularly in the context of estrangement and healing. She critiques the notion of radical acceptance as potentially dismissive and emphasizes the importance of taking radical responsibility for one's healing and personal growth. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, she guides listeners on how to embrace their healing journey and take control of their emotional well-being.

Takeaways

- Radical acceptance can feel dismissive and may lead to resignation.

- Radical responsibility empowers individuals to take charge of their healing.

- Acknowledging reality is the first step, but action is necessary for transformation.

- You are not responsible for the harm done to you, but for your healing.

- Practical steps include identifying wounds and claiming your healing.

- Radical responsibility can lead to healthier relationships and personal peace.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this conversation, Kreed shares the journey of starting her podcast, 'The Estranged Heart,' which aims to support families experiencing estrangement. She discusses her motivations, the importance of authenticity in her storytelling, and how her personal growth reflects in the evolution of the podcast. Kreed emphasizes the significance of creating a genuine connection with her audience and the heartfelt intention behind her work.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this episode, Kreed discusses the complexities of estrangement between mothers and their adult children. She emphasizes the importance of naming the issues at hand to reclaim personal power and foster healing. Through a pathway of curiosity, awareness, and acceptance, mothers can confront uncomfortable truths about their parenting and relationships. The conversation highlights that acknowledging one's role in estrangement does not equate to blame but opens the door to growth and potential reconnection.

TAKEAWAYS

• Naming issues moves us out of victimhood.

• Fear of vulnerability can hinder reconnection efforts.

• Naming truths is the first step towards healing.

• Compassion is essential in navigating estrangement.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this conversation, Kreed reflects on the evolution of her podcast and community, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and healing in the context of estrangement. She discusses her journey from a place of pain to a more empathetic understanding of both estranged parents and adult children. Kreed highlights the ongoing nature of healing, the significance of community support, and the need for compassion and curiosity in navigating difficult emotions.

Takeaways

• The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and transformative.

• Personal healing can shift perspectives on estrangement.

• Healing is not a destination but a continuous process.

• Change in perspective does not diminish past experiences.

• The podcast will continue to evolve alongside Kreed's journey.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this episode, Kreed delves into the generational shifts in curiosity and parenting, exploring how past conditioning impacts present relationships. Kreed shares insights on how older generations, often taught to suppress curiosity, can embrace it to heal and connect with their children. Through personal stories and professional experiences, we uncover the power of curiosity in breaking cycles of estrangement and fostering deeper connections. Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenting across generations and learn how curiosity can transform relationships.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this conversation, Kreed Revere addresses the emotional turmoil experienced by estranged parents, emphasizing the distinction between punishment and protection in parent-child relationships. He explores the complexities of healing, boundaries, and the importance of mutual consent in relationships. Revere encourages parents to reframe their understanding of their children's behaviors and to recognize their own emotional pain while validating their children's need for space and healing.

Takeaways

• A belief of being punished by the adult child can keep parents stuck in pain.

• Adult children are often protecting themselves, not punishing their parents.

• Understanding the difference between punishment and protection can shift perspectives.

• Boundaries set by children are not acts of cruelty but necessary for their healing.

• Both parents' grief and children's need for protection can coexist.

• Self-compassion is essential for growth during estrangement.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

The Heart Collective: https://theestrangedheart.com/membership

Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms (facilitated by Kreed)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this episode, Kreed Revere discusses the illusion of control in relationships, particularly between estranged parents and their adult children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between control and care, and how surrendering to the unpredictability of relationships can lead to personal growth and healing. Kreed offers practical advice for listeners on how to navigate their emotions and foster healthier connections with their loved ones.

Takeaways

• Releasing control can be the most loving action for both parents and children.

• Control often stems from fear and a desire to avoid pain.

• Surrendering is not about giving up, but about choosing presence over pressure.

• Letting them be does not mean you stop caring; it means you respect autonomy.

  
  

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

THE HEART COLLECTIVE

Estranged Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-moms

Reconciled Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-heart-members

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this episode, host Kreed Revere discusses the phenomenon of 'othering' in relationships, particularly within parent-adult child relationships. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions and wounds that drive behaviors, rather than making others the villain. The conversation explores how public criticism can damage connections and highlights the ripple effects of our actions on relationships. Kreed encourages listeners to practice curiosity and compassion, leading with love to foster healing and connection.

Takeaways

• Othering strips away humanity and creates division.

• The urge to correct often comes from unhealed wounds.

• Understanding the pain behind behaviors is crucial.

• The path to connection starts with curiosity.

  
  

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

THE HEART COLLECTIVE

Estranged Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-moms

Reconciled Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-heart-members

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

In this episode, Kreed Revere discusses the complexities of estrangement, focusing on the collision between generational conditioning and the emotional needs of children. The conversation explores how different generations perceive emotional safety and vulnerability, the impact of parenting styles on relationships, and the importance of understanding and compassion in navigating these dynamics. Kreed emphasizes the need for both parents and adult children to recognize their conditioning and the effects it has on their relationships, advocating for a more empathetic approach to healing and reconciliation.

Takeaways

- Generational conditioning affects how parents and children communicate.

- Emotional expression was a luxury for previous generations.

- Understanding patterns can help bridge generational gaps.

- Compassion is essential in navigating family dynamics.

- Curiosity about different experiences fosters healing.

www.TheEstrangedHeart.com

Email: [email protected]

Work with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services

(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)

THE HEART COLLECTIVE

Estranged Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-moms

Reconciled Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-heart-members

To support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere