What do control, perfectionism, and money have in common? 

For many of us, they’re deeply rooted in childhood wounds, and they’re the very blocks standing between us and our manifestations.

In this heartfelt Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica respond to powerful community questions that crack open the real energetics behind love, money, motherhood, and glass ceilings. Whether you’re navigating burnout, trying to call in more income, or craving peace while juggling life’s many demands, this conversation offers guidance, tools, and expansion to help you move forward. You’ll hear personal revelations from Lacy and Jessica about their own inner child programming around control; how it shows up in work, relationships, and even wedding planning. And they offer expansive, grounded advice to two listeners: one manifesting full-time motherhood and another trying to break through a financial glass ceiling while living paycheck to paycheck.

This episode is for anyone working through the TBM Money Challenge, or anyone asking: “Why do I still feel stuck?” Because often, the block isn’t what you think—it’s what you’ve normalized. So tune in for deep permission to slow down, reassess, and come back into alignment with what’s truly authentic for you. The abundance you’re calling in might just require a little less effort—and a little more letting go. 

Stay tuned for Part 2 in a few weeks!

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In This Episode We Talk About:

• How perfectionism and control are rooted in childhood trauma and old patterning
• The connection between love and money
• The inner child belief: "If I let go, it will all collapse"
• Defining your authentic “why” for abundance
• Reframing beauty as spiritual and energetic nourishment
• The abundance found in nature and somatic peace
• Connecting to sensory environments that regulate and ground
• Revisiting authentic code to reflect internal expansion
• Navigating motherhood, generational trauma, and money energetics
• Breaking consumerist hypnosis to create true financial freedom
• Using “the opposite is the medicine” for financial and personal growth

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
 – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
 – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
 – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
 – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self

With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

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