We’re independent women and we don’t need men to validate us—but we do still care what our partners think. But there’s definitely a balance that needs to be struck between changing your appearance whenever you want and asking your partner for permission to change. We want to be attracted to them, and for them to be attracted to us, so it’s not a bad idea to check in before you go cutting off all your hair or getting a boob job. But at the end of the day, it is your body, and you should be able to look how you want, no permission necessary. The only permission you should care about is ours, and we say go for it, Bestie.

Asking permission before changing your looks [4:44]

Caring about your partner’s preferences [6:07]

Hair loss fucks with your self-esteem [10:41]

Making drastic changes without consulting your partner [13:19]

Changes behind your partner’s back [15:48]

Is your partner being controlling or is it normal? [17:33]

What if your partner changed their looks? [19:55]

The things we’re attracted to change over time [22:58]

Piercings we hate [25:43]

At the end of the day, do whatever you want [29:47]

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