Be A Better You

Episode 138: You Can't Love People Harder Into Loving You


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In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional trap of believing that if you just love someone harder, they’ll finally love you back the way you deserve. Whether it’s over-giving, trying to fix someone, or sacrificing your needs to keep the peace, we unpack the patterns of codependency that often leave us feeling drained, unappreciated, and stuck in unbalanced relationships.

Through relatable stories and real-life examples, we’ll explore:

  • Why loving harder doesn’t create the connection you’re seeking.
  • How codependency shows up in romantic relationships and why it’s so common.
  • The steps to reclaim your worth and build healthier, mutual relationships.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted from giving too much or wondered why your love isn’t being reciprocated, this episode is for you. Remember, love flows naturally—it’s not something to be earned.

Need help figuring out the next step in your healing journey?
Contact me directly, and I’ll help you decide which of my resources or programs is the right fit for you. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Let me point you toward the tools that can help you the most.

Tune in and start shifting from over-giving to thriving in love and life.

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