Be A Better You

Episode 190: The Truth About “Doing the Work” (and Why You’re Still Stuck)


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Have you read all the books, journaled your heart out, listened to the podcasts, and done all the work — yet still wake up anxious, triggered, or doubting your worth? You’re not broken. You’re just trying to heal with the wrong tools.

In this episode, emotional healing coach Allison K. Dagney reveals the real reason survivors stay stuck even after months or years of “doing the work.” You’ll learn why conscious mindset tools don’t always reach the subconscious beliefs that drive your emotional pain — and what to do differently to finally feel free.

Allison shares powerful stories of women who were exhausted from trying harder and still feeling the same — and how everything changed once they began rewiring their subconscious mind.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • Why knowledge isn’t the same as healing
  • The subconscious patterns that block your progress
  • How to tell if you’re managing pain instead of transforming it
  • What “doing the work” actually means for lasting change
  • The real path to peace, confidence, and emotional freedom

If you’ve been wondering “Why am I still stuck?” this conversation will give you the clarity — and hope — you’ve been missing.

Ready to go deeper?

  • Book your Free Root Cause Call with Allison to uncover the subconscious blocks keeping you stuck.
  • Join the Radiate & Rise Community for live coaching, emotional healing tools, and support from other survivors who truly get it.

Healing after emotional abuse isn’t about trying harder. It’s about finally working with your subconscious mind — not against it.

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