Emotional Longevity

Equanimity: How to Stay Steady Without Shutting Down


Listen Later


In this deeply insightful conversation, Dr. Elisha Goldstein welcomes psychotherapist, meditation teacher, and Quiet Strength author Margaret Cullen to explore one of emotional health’s most essential — yet under-discussed — qualities: equanimity.


Margaret shares how equanimity is not detachment or indifference, but rather the capacity to remain open, grounded, and emotionally balanced amid life’s inevitable turbulence.


In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • Why equanimity may be one of the most critical emotional skills of our time
  • How outrage culture and social media intensify nervous system dysregulation
  • Why suppressing emotions often masquerades as “regulation”
  • The dangers of toxic positivity
  • How mindfulness and equanimity overlap
  • Why emotional wellness depends on expanding our capacity for discomfort
  • Practical strategies for recovering more quickly from emotional hijacking


Memorable Insights:

  • “Equanimity is recovery, not perfection.”
  • “The full emotional range is part of being human.”
  • “Seeking only positivity can make us more fragile.”


Resources Mentioned:

Therapeutic Coaching Program (Free Consult):
https://bit.ly/UPWFreeCall 

Newsletter & Free Emotional Health Guide:
https://bit.ly/DrGoldsteinNewsletter 
Free Tools for Emotional Resilience:
https://elishagoldstein.com 


📕Get the tools I mention — all in one place:
https://tinyshiftsbundle.elishagoldstein.com/

Connect with Dr. Elisha Goldstein:


Instagram: https://bit.ly/ElishaGoldsteinIG
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/ElishaGoldsteinLI
YouTube: https://youtube.com/elishagoldsteinphd


📖 View Full Blog for This Episode:
https://elishagoldstein.com/articles/ai-loneliness/


Emotional health is the foundation for longevity, connection, and resilience in a rapidly changing world.



...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Emotional LongevityBy Elisha Goldstein

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

55 ratings


More shows like Emotional Longevity

View all
This American Life by This American Life

This American Life

91,297 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,730 Listeners

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

2,528 Listeners

Change Your Brain Every Day by Dr Daniel & Tana Amen

Change Your Brain Every Day

2,061 Listeners

The Daily by The New York Times

The Daily

113,121 Listeners

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone by Kara Loewentheil

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

5,138 Listeners

Life Unscripted with Julie Lauren by julielauren

Life Unscripted with Julie Lauren

123 Listeners

Interesting Times with Ross Douthat by New York Times Opinion

Interesting Times with Ross Douthat

7,244 Listeners

Conversations at Basecamp by Kahilla, Inc.

Conversations at Basecamp

13 Listeners

Live Your Best Life by Liz Brunner

Live Your Best Life

31 Listeners

The Seam Podcast by The Seam, Lynne Cohen Foundation

The Seam Podcast

6 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,272 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,512 Listeners

Thinking to Being by Mary Spirito

Thinking to Being

80 Listeners

Beyond Beauty Project: The Podcast by Bridgett Burrick Brown

Beyond Beauty Project: The Podcast

61 Listeners

This Is So Awkward by Peoples Media, This Is So Awkward

This Is So Awkward

320 Listeners

Grandmother by Peoples Media

Grandmother

23 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,222 Listeners

The ADHD Parenting Podcast by The ADHD Parenting Podcast

The ADHD Parenting Podcast

373 Listeners

We Are More Than Moms by Peoples Media

We Are More Than Moms

72 Listeners

World’s Your Oysta by Peoples Media, Paula Sanders

World’s Your Oysta

48 Listeners

Blind Justice by Peoples Media, Monroe College

Blind Justice

11 Listeners

Grace For Impact by Peoples Media

Grace For Impact

12 Listeners

NewAtlantis Ocean Podcast by Peoples Media, JJ Ramberg

NewAtlantis Ocean Podcast

2 Listeners

The Second Shift by Peoples Media

The Second Shift

45 Listeners

What's The Point by Peoples Media

What's The Point

55 Listeners

Why Did I Like It by Peoples Media, Mike A Simms

Why Did I Like It

13 Listeners

Higher Education with Dr. B Fran by Dr. Brittney Francis

Higher Education with Dr. B Fran

16 Listeners

How I Destroyed This by Peoples Media

How I Destroyed This

12 Listeners

Good Hang with Amy Poehler by The Ringer

Good Hang with Amy Poehler

12,559 Listeners

Her Workplace Unfiltered by Marilynn Joyner

Her Workplace Unfiltered

5 Listeners