Charleen and Ellie are back answering all of your steamy dilemmas.

This month we've got a listener who's worried about her libido and how often you 'should' be having sex with your partner, and a very clever queen who is looking for help with having the STI conversation with a new partner. He doesn't 'like how condoms feel', so you bet the girls have some no nonsense advice along with some scary stats that have us all running out to get tested!

And our sauciest dilemma is about long distance relationships and keeping the spark alive, which has Charleen and Ellie squirming in thinking about what they would do. They talk sexting, nudes and even app controlled sex toys.

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