We are talking Reddit subreddits about a fearful avoidant attachment's dating struggles and an anxious attachment style person looking at the ex-situationships social media. Fearful avoidants, also known as disorganized attachment struggle with dating. And in this situation the fearful avoidant would prefer to slow things down for all dating. And they want to know how to communicate that. Then we have an anxious person looking at the ex's social media and got replaced quickly. And they used the title girlfriend for the new person, something she never got.