FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

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December 31, 2024Resolutions vs. Goals After Betrayal: How to Commit to Personal Change & Achieve Results You Love
Do you know the difference between resolutions and goals? Make 2025 the year that everything shifts for you. Discover how to set meaningful intentions, show up differently, and break down goals into manageable steps that lead to real transformation.
Top Takeaways:
Resolutions
What they are, how to set them, and why they’re especially powerful after experiencing infidelity and betrayal.
Explore the importance of aligning your resolutions with your deeper intentions.
Ask yourself: What is my intention for 2025?
Goal Setting
Learn how to break your resolutions into specific, actionable steps that are measurable and achievable.
Uncover strategies to stay consistent and create lasting change through the synergy of goals and resolutions.
Who Do You Want to Become in 2025?
The way you spend your days is the way you spend your life.
Envision the person you want to be and consciously design your daily habits, mindset, and choices to reflect that vision.
Want More?
Join Lora for a FREE Vision Board Workshop in late January! This workshop is free when you purchase and review a copy of her upcoming book, It’s Not Burnout; It’s Betrayal: 5 Steps to FUEL UP and Thrive, Available for Pre-Order on Amazon..

📚 Special Announcement! 📚
Upcoming Book Release
Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery.
Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.

Stay Connected: Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell for more episodes packed with tools to nurture your spirit and maintain your well-being. Join us in creating a balanced, joyful life beyond the chaos of the holiday season.

Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com
Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!

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#ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal #PersonalGrowthJourney #SelfEmpowerment #DailyHabitsMatter
#MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
#PreOrderNow
57 min
December 29, 2024How to Handle Holiday Burnout & Relationships Strain
Are you burned out after the holidays? Is your relationship feeling strained rather than renewed? In this episode we will take a deep dive into holiday and relationship burnout, giving you strategies and techniques to manage stress and strain and come back home to yourself.
Top Takeaways:
Expression & Release through Somatic Movement:
Learn the profound importance of physically expressing and releasing pent-up emotions, just like a toddler’s tantrum, to maintain emotional balance. Use somatic practices like rolling on the floor, running, or engaging in vigorous physical exercises to release trapped energy.
Stress Relief Tools:
Explore a variety of tools including journaling, mindfulness, and meditation to alleviate stress and enhance resilience during stressful times.
Managing Relationship Burnout:
Uncover strategies to tackle both holiday and relationship burnout by understanding emotional states, setting boundaries, and avoiding codependency.

📚 Special Announcement! 📚
Upcoming Book Release
Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery.
Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.

Stay Connected: Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell for more episodes packed with tools to nurture your spirit and maintain your well-being. Join us in creating a balanced, joyful life beyond the chaos of the holiday season.
✨ Explore More with Lora Cheadle: Follow Lora’s journey and gain exclusive insights by visiting burnoutorbetrayal.com and betrayalrecoveryguide.com. Together, let’s turn burnout into breakthrough!

Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com
Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!

#HolidayBurnout #EmotionalRelease #MetaphysicalHealing #LoraCheadle #SomaticMovement #ChanneledGuidance #StressRelief #Mindfulness #SpiritualWellbeing #BetrayalRecovery

Holiday burnout, Lora Cheadle, stress relief, expression and release, somatic movement, coping skills, maladaptive behaviors, relationship burnout, mindfulness, journaling, meditation, emotional management, boundaries, holiday stress, personal well-being, stress management, therapy, recovery, betrayal, exhaustion, book release, free resources, Flaunt podcast, betrayal recovery toolkit, societal expectations, resilience, prefrontal cortex, rational thinking.
57 min
December 15, 2024How to Know If Your Partner Has Truly Changed After Infidelity – And How You Can Heal Too
How Your Cheating Partner Really Changed? Here are some key indicators of growth: How do you know your partner won’t cheat again? In this episode, we dive into what causes infidelity, and how to determine if your partner has changed.
Next, we take some time for a little coaching and self-reflection, moving into what’s possible for you after infidelity. Through personal growth, embodying the best version of yourself, and recognizing your partner's strides in emotional maturity and self-awareness, together, you can navigate the tumultuous path of healing. Remember, it's about consistent, observable changes and supporting each other’s self-care and emotional expressions.
Top Three Takeaways:
How to Identify Genuine Change in a Partner: Growth is seen in consistent, small shifts—like improved emotional regulation, self-reflection, and the adoption of healthier coping mechanisms. Keeping track of past behaviors versus current progress is vital.
Preventing Repeat Betrayal: While there are no guarantees, fostering emotional awareness and equipping partners with effective tools like therapy, communication, and mindfulness reduces the likelihood of relapse into maladaptive behaviors.
Empowering Personal Transformation: Healing from betrayal is not about blame but about leveraging the experience as a catalyst for personal growth. Reflecting on what you want to stop, start, and become helps you rise into the highest version of yourself, reclaiming your life with strength and clarity.
Four Coaching Questions to Ask Yourself: (You must listen for more details on these questions!)
What do I want to stop?
What do I want to start?
Who do I want to become?
How do I want to feel and show up?
This podcast explores the complex journey of healing and transformation following betrayal, focusing on both partners' roles in rebuilding trust and evolving into their best selves.
#FLAUNT #BetrayalRecovery #HealingAfterInfidelity #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalAwareness #HealthyRelationships #SelfCare #AuthenticLiving

Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love.

Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.
You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs.
Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

📦 Special Offers and Resources

BetterHelp Virtual Therapy for Couples or Individuals:
Tap into the world's largest network of licensed, accredited, and experienced therapists. Explore our tailored mental health solutions in the privacy and convenience of your home or office. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Mindful Souls Subscription Box:
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. Filled with high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your Mindful Box - Spiritual Monthly Crystal Subscription | MindfulSouls
Use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit:
Download now for a free chapter of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self, a journal that will help you re-choreograph the next chapter of life on your terms, and a full-length hypnotic meditation that will help you overcome obsessive thoughts and feel better fast! www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com.

✨ Community and Connection
Join our Facebook group for ongoing support and the chance to hear more inspiring stories. Sharing and connecting with others who understand your pain can be a transformative experience.

🎧 Stay Tuned for Our Next Episode!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, review, and share our podcast to help others on their journey. Your involvement helps destigmatize affair recovery and provides a lifeline to those in need.
Thank you for being part of our FLAUNT! community. Together, we can transform our perspectives and create lives we love, even after betrayal.

#Forgiveness #EmotionalHealth #UnconditionalLove #HealingJourney #FLAUNTPodcast #PersonalGrowth #Spirituality #LifeAfterBetrayal #affairrecovery #infidelity #betrayal #FlauntPodcast #InfidelityRecovery #ChooseJoy #PersonalResurrection #SelfEmpowerment #HealingAfterBetrayal #EnergyHealing #SelfCareTools #TransformationJourney
58 min
December 08, 2024Why Am I Not Over the Infidelity Yet? (and three tips for moving on)
How often have you wondered why you aren’t getting over the infidelity or worried that you are “taking too long” to feel better? You are not alone if you have; contrary to what you might think, you are exactly where you are supposed to be!
The Four Reasons Why You Aren’t Over the Infidelity Yet:
You don’t have a new narrative that makes sense of it all: Humans are meaning-making machines. Until we make sense of what happened and create a narrative that makes sense, we will stay stuck in the trauma and drama of the situation. Worse, we live in a society that doesn’t talk about infidelities, and the narratives that are out there don’t usually fit our situation, leaving us feeling lost and confused.
You haven’t decided what you want yet: Making decisions is scary! Whether it’s fear of judgment, fear of failure, or fear of success, making decisions requires us to publicly put our stake in the ground and claim what we want for all to see. It makes us vulnerable. It exposes us to others. But unless we decide what we want, we keep ourselves in a state of indecision where we can’t heal, we can’t move on, and we can’t get over it. Ironically, this sometimes feels safer than making a decision and moving on.
You are unwilling to let it go: What if you let it go? What happens then? Does it mean the marriage didn’t mean as much as you wanted it to? Does it mean you made a mistake? Does it mean you have to grow up/shift/change in a way that you aren’t quite ready to do? Does it mean you have to take responsibility for something you’re not ready to own or to see? Maybe you don’t want to let HIM off the hook and move on “too quickly” because you don’t want to make things too “easy” for him, and you’d rather punish him by showing him how miserable you are.
Greif takes time. Rebuilding yourself, you life, your identity, and grieving the loss of who you thought your partner was, takes time. We all grieve on our own schedules. New grief has a tendency to open old wounds that perhaps, weren’t completely healed. Infidelity raises mother wounds, father wounds, abandonment wounds, safety wounds, fears of being alone, or too old or too ugly, wounds of not being enough, wounds of insecurity, self-worth, you name it. You aren’t over it, because you aren’t over it, because there is a lot to move through and process. Give yourself grace and space and time.
How to Come to Terms with What Happened:
Plan your work and work your plan: Recovery doesn’t just happen. Time heals a lot, but it won’t heal this. Infidelity is too big and impacts you on too many levels. Make a list of the things you need help with, whether it’s legal, financial, educational, or spiritual. What are the steps you need to do to make progress in each of those areas? Using the 4 areas above, what are the steps you need to do to get through each area? Where do you need support? Who can you ask for help? What else do you need?
Own your strengths and focus on you: You are the only person you can control. When you stop focusing on others, stop wishing things were different, and start owning and using your strengths, you feel stronger and “get better” fast!
Remember to FLAUNT! Facing any kind of trauma or upset causes us to shrink to protect ourselves. That’s fine for the short-run, but don’t let this new, compressed state become your new normal. Remember, you deserve to open back up again, to connect to your heart, your beauty, and your divine soul. FLAUNT! in an acronym that reminds you of what to do. So, always remember to FLAUNT!
Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal.
Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love.

Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.
You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs.
Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

📦 Special Offers and Resources

BetterHelp Virtual Therapy for Couples or Individuals:
Tap into the world's largest network of licensed, accredited, and experienced therapists. Explore our tailored mental health solutions in the privacy and convenience of your home or office. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Mindful Souls Subscription Box:
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. Filled with high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your Mindful Box - Spiritual Monthly Crystal Subscription | MindfulSouls
Use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit:
Download now for a free chapter of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self, a journal that will help you re-choreograph the next chapter of life on your terms, and a full-length hypnotic meditation that will help you overcome obsessive thoughts and feel better fast! www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com.

✨ Community and Connection
Join our Facebook group for ongoing support and the chance to hear more inspiring stories. Sharing and connecting with others who understand your pain can be a transformative experience.

🎧 Stay Tuned for Our Next Episode!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, review, and share our podcast to help others on their journey. Your involvement helps destigmatize affair recovery and provides a lifeline to those in need.
Thank you for being part of our FLAUNT! community. Together, we can transform our perspectives and create lives we love, even after betrayal.

#Forgiveness #EmotionalHealth #UnconditionalLove #HealingJourney #FLAUNTPodcast #PersonalGrowth #Spirituality #LifeAfterBetrayal #affairrecovery #infidelity #betrayal #FlauntPodcast #InfidelityRecovery #ChooseJoy #PersonalResurrection #SelfEmpowerment #HealingAfterBetrayal #EnergyHealing #SelfCareTools #TransformationJourney
58 min
December 01, 2024Forgiving After Betrayal: Accessing Unconditional Love for True Healing With Dara McKinley
What role does forgiveness play in healing from infidelity and betrayal? Today’s guest, Dara McKinley, sheds light on the dynamic and multifaceted process of forgiveness. Dara differentiates between pardoning and true forgiveness, describing forgiveness as the ability to enlist unconditional love amidst life’s most trying moments. She emphasizes that forgiveness is the concluding step in a deep emotional journey, rather than an immediate solution to betrayal. Through practical and empathetic approaches, Dara helps us understand how feeling seen and acknowledging our emotions can facilitate genuine healing. Join us as we delve into the essence of forgiveness and the power of unconditional love, offering profound insights for moving forward after betrayal.

Top Takeaways:
Forgiveness Isn’t Instant: Forgiveness is a multi-layered process that unfolds over time, particularly in long-term relationships or enduring challenges. It’s not about a quick fix but a gradual journey of emotional and spiritual work.
Emotions Need Movement: To maintain emotional health, feelings need to circulate like any system in our body. Recognizing and releasing emotions helps prevent emotional congestion and allows us to experience unconditional love.
Practical Spirituality: Dara emphasizes that spirituality should be practical and beneficial, reducing suffering and enhancing life. Her structured approach to forgiveness begins with an embodied experience of unconditional love and involves using the right brain to prioritize and apply it effectively.
Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal.
Don’t forget to subscribe and share “FLAUNT!” so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love.
Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Dara
Dara McKinley has studied and worked in the realm of spirituality and health for over three decades. In 2012, difficult life circumstances pointed her to forgiveness where she realized that many spoke prolifically about why one should forgive but no one spoke of how. Her background enabled her to successfully create and follow a forgiveness path that worked, but in the years that followed, the experience made her see some significant themes. In particular, she saw how mainstream forgiveness understanding (pardoning, ceasing anger, having compassion, and letting go) was obscuring the forgiveness path. She also saw that people who identified as spiritual-but-not-religious required a forgiveness path that was clear, and logical. This inspired Dara to devote her professional life to understanding forgiveness’ infrastructure and to making forgiveness the practical healing modality it was always meant to be.

About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com

Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!
54 min
November 24, 2024Vulnerability & Rebirth After Betrayal: Episode 4 of Egyptian Odyssey
Post-infidelity, both you and your partner are on heightened alert. You feel threatened and insecure, but so does he. After all, the house of cards he built has come crashing down around him too. Egypt with you. Here’s how to use the medicine of ancient wisdom to move safely yet powerfully into a state of vulnerability with our without your partner, so you can heal fully after your partner’s affair.
Top Three Takeaways:
The Power of Vulnerability: Visiting the Dendera Temple, often called the temple of vulnerability, opened my heart to the power of softness and release in transformation. While we often want to “dig in” and “work harder” to transform, sometimes it’s by softening and embracing our vulnerability that we become stronger and more resilient, shedding our layers of defense and stepping into new, empowered versions of ourselves.
Mystery Enhances Understanding: Egypt is filled with mysteries, from the underground tunnels of the Serapum to the enigmatic Sphinx, with rain erosion that suggests it may be older than believed. But not knowing or understanding everything about these ancient monuments only enhances our enjoyment of them! Just as in life, we don’t always need to understand everything. Imperfection and unknowing add richness to life and embracing the unknown can lead to greater self-acceptance and joy.
Unity and Connection With All: Inside the King’s Chamber of the Giza Pyramid, I was reminded that unity with self, others, and the universe, is what matters most. The past is in the past, and the life of the eternal soul is what matters most. No matter what hardships you face, let the idea of unity be a powerful reminder that you are never alone on your journey.
Join me as I recount these experiences and invite you to reflect on your own journey of healing and personal transformation after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share FLAUNT! with your friends, so we can continue to empower each other to create lives filled with love, connection, and self-embrace. Until next time, always remember to FLAUNT! exactly who you are, because who you are is always more than enough!

Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.
You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs.
Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

📦 Special Offers and Resources

BetterHelp Virtual Therapy for Couples or Individuals:
Tap into the world's largest network of licensed, accredited, and experienced therapists. Explore our tailored mental health solutions in the privacy and convenience of your home or office. Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Mindful Souls Subscription Box:
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1 hr
November 17, 2024From Darkness to Light: Resurrecting Yourself After Betrayal: Egypt Part Three
In this third episode based on Lora’s journey through Ancient Egypt, we'll explore the profound wisdom unearthed through the ancient temples and myths of Egyptian lore. Be prepared for a journey that intertwines personal growth, spiritual awakening, and the deep-seated power of choosing your personal resurrection and joy over the burden of betrayal.
Top Three Takeaways from Today’s Episode:
Choosing Joy and Play: Discover how to choose joy and lean into playfulness even when you’re being faced with life's greatest hardships, such as recovering from infidelity.
Cultivating Personal Resurrection: Learn to cocreating your own resurrection and come back to life again after betrayal, inspired by my powerful experiences in the Luxor and Abydos Temples, facilitated by the energy of the goddess Sekhmet.
Unlocking Your Potential: Dive into the rituals and meditations centered around seven keys and doorways within an ancient temple in Karnak. Be inspired to unlock your own potential and consciousness, despite life’s most challenging circumstances.

Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.
You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs.
Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

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Mindful Souls Subscription Box:
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. Filled with high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your Mindful Box - Spiritual Monthly Crystal Subscription | MindfulSouls
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Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit:
Download now for a free chapter of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self, a journal that will help you re-choreograph the next chapter of life on your terms, and a full-length hypnotic meditation that will help you overcome obsessive thoughts and feel better fast! www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com.

✨ Community and Connection
Join our Facebook group for ongoing support and the chance to hear more inspiring stories. Sharing and connecting with others who understand your pain can be a transformative experience.

🎧 Stay Tuned for Our Next Episode!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, review, and share our podcast to help others on their journey. Your involvement helps destigmatize affair recovery and provides a lifeline to those in need.
Thank you for being part of our FLAUNT! community. Together, we can transform our perspectives and create lives we love, even after betrayal.

#affairrecovery #infidelity #betrayal #FlauntPodcast #InfidelityRecovery #ChooseJoy #PersonalResurrection #SelfEmpowerment #EgyptSeries #TempleJourney #BalanceAndHarmony #VulnerabilityAndRecovery #HealingAfterBetrayal #EnergyHealing #SpiritualConnection #ChakraHealing #LightLanguage #Sekhmet #ResurrectionAndRebirth #MindfulLiving #SelfCareTools #ReclaimingPower #TransformationJourney
55 min
November 10, 2024Embracing Inner Treasures: Ancient Egyptian Wisdom for Modern Healing Welcome to Egypt, Part Two!
In this episode, we unpack the beauty within, that oftentimes gets covered up and hidden. From the Valley of the Kings to Queen Hatshepsut’s temple, Egypt’s vast landscape was a reminder that what we see on the surface does not represent what’s underneath, and what we are experiencing in our life at the moment, does not represent who we are or what our life can become.
Top Takeaways:
Healing From Within: Discover how historical sites like the Valley of the Kings can teach us that wisdom and treasure lies just below the surface. Healing after betrayal is often about reclaiming and uncovering what’s already within us.
Feminine & Masculine Balance: Learn from Queen Hatshepsut’s remarkable reign about integrating both masculine and feminine strengths to become whole, with our without a partner.
Spiritual Reflections: Healing isn’t just a mental journey. Trusting the body’s innate ability to process and release emotions is paramount. Whether through intuitive movement, singing, or dancing, integrating these practices can be powerful.
Self-Advocacy: The journey to reclaiming self-worth includes asking for what you need—whether it’s emotional support, therapy, or personal time.
Join Lora for an Energetic Healing Session on November 15th at 11 AM PST, noon MST, 1 PM CST, 2:00PM EST designed specifically to explore and heal the roots of betrayal via Zoom for only $7! Learn more and sign up at www.stopselfbetrayal.com
Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com
Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!
58 min
November 04, 2024Uncovering the Ancestral Root of Betrayal: Lessons From Egypt
Lora’s recent trip to Egypt serves as the backdrop for this episode, where she delves into the spiritual and energetic dimensions of healing. The journey was not only a physical expedition but also an inward voyage, as Lora explored sacred sites and sought to reconnect with ancestral wisdom. The dual-purpose trip aimed at both personal transformation and the creation of a documentary, promising to share these powerful experiences with a broader audience.
A pivotal part of Lora’s journey involved the exploration of ZepTepi, a concept signifying the origin point. By reflecting on ZepTepi, she encourages listeners to consider their own origin points in life and betrayal. This reflective practice allows for a deeper understanding of personal histories and the steps needed for healing.
Top Takeaways
The Temple of Isis: Unveiling the Feminine Archetypes
A visit to the Temple of Isis provided rich reflections on womanhood and the Divine Feminine. Lora described the roles of maiden, mother, and crone, underscoring how societal pressures often confine women to nurturing roles. Such roles, while valuable, can become limiting if women are prevented from evolving into their full potential.
Emphasizing the crone phase, Lora encourages women to step into their wisdom and power, breaking free from the confines of perpetual service. This transition marks a reclamation of sovereignty, allowing women to embody their full, multifaceted selves.
A Newborn Puppy: A Reflection on Life and Death, Trust and Betrayal
One of the most poignant segments in this episode is Lora’s recounting of an experience involving a newborn puppy. Initially thought to be dead, the puppy was revived, prompting reflections on the balance of life and death. This incident served as a metaphor for the delicate negotiations of trust and betrayal.
Rediscovering Trust and Healing Past Wounds
During meditation, Lora revisited a past life memory or allegorical story, where betrayal played a central role. She envisioned herself as a young healer, entrusted with a precious vial containing life force. A man from her village, under the guise of assistance, betrayed her by taking the vial for personal gain. This experience of trust and subsequent betrayal mirrors many of the listeners’ experiences and serves as a powerful illustration of vulnerability.
Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies: Imbalances and Integration Lora’s exploration of the temples in Egypt also brought forward the theme of balancing
masculine and feminine energies. At the Kombo temple, known for its dual-sided design, she delved into the importance of integrating these energies for holistic healing. The interplay of divine masculine and feminine, as experienced in the symbology of the temples underscores the necessity for both balance and harmony in personal growth.
Lora’s reflections at Abu Simbel further highlight her observations of divine masculine energy characterized by compassion and support. By recognizing these qualities within herself, she underlines the significance of embracing both strength and nurturance.
Embracing Authenticity and Self-Compassion
Beyond the spiritual and symbolic, Lora shares personal insights on authenticity and acceptance. She reveals moments of vulnerability and the realization that appearance is not crucial for meaningful connection. This message resonates deeply with many women who may feel pressured to uphold certain facades.
The Edfu Temple: Symbol of Balance and Immediate Healing
Lora discusses her visit to the Edfu Temple, a symbol of complete balance and healing. Although time-constrained, the experience reinforced her realization that understanding and reclaiming one’s power can propel immediate healing and harmony without dwelling in the past. This serves as a metaphor for listeners to cherish the present moment while embracing their deep-seated power.
Conclusion: A Call to Rediscover and Heal
Lora Cheadle’s powerful recount of her Egyptian odyssey invites listeners to reflect on their personal journeys of healing, encouraging them to reclaim their power through self-awareness and energy work. By drawing from ancient wisdom and personal reflection, she provides a roadmap for women to reclaim their power and rediscover their sovereignty. Whether through guided meditations, energy healing sessions, or personal contemplations, Lora’s insights offer valuable tools for transformation and growth.
Join Lora for an Energetic Healing Session on November 15th at 11 AM PST, noon MST, 1 PM CST, 2:00PM EST designed specifically to explore and heal the roots of betrayal via Zoom for only $7! Learn more and sign up at www.stopselfbetrayal.com
Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora’s expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com
Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
57 min
October 27, 2024Positivity & Personal Growth After Infidelity: Techniques for Grounding, Self-Love, and Independence -With Erica Bennett
Infidelity and betrayal can shatter the foundations of one's life, but these experiences also offer profound opportunities for growth and transformation. Erica Bennett, founder of the Crazy Ex Wives Club shares her journey from heartbreak to empowerment. Her insights provide powerful tools for anyone navigating the painful aftermath of betrayal, guiding listeners towards reclaiming their worth, happiness, and independence.

Top Takeaways:
Visualizing Positive Outcomes
Erica emphasizes the practice of visualizing positive outcomes, regardless of a relationship's fate. Instead of focusing on potential negative scenarios, Erica suggests imagining happiness and fulfillment for oneself and one's partner. This mental shift fosters a healthier headspace and progressively pulls one's reality towards positivity. Whether you choose to stay in the relationship or move on, holding a vision of a happy future helps pave the path to a truly fulfilling life.
Embracing Self-Sufficiency in Relationships
Relying solely on a partner for happiness is a recipe for exhaustion and disappointment. Erica underlines the importance of self-sufficiency, advocating for individuals to meet their own emotional and psychological needs. The key to a strong, healthy relationship lies in two whole individuals coming together, each bringing their best selves. By focusing on personal well-being and independence, both partners can contribute positively to the relationship without depleting each other's energy.
Grounding Techniques to Combat Fear and Anxiety
Confronting fear and anxiety is crucial in the healing process. Erica shares practical grounding techniques, including sensory exercises and deep belly breaths, that can help shift focus and calm the nervous system. Identifying five things you can see, hear, smell, taste, and touch activates a different part of the brain, breaking the cycle of anxiety and grounding you in the present moment. Combining these with deep, intentional breaths and tapping methods can reduce the power of fear-based thoughts, helping you regain control and peace.
Conquering the Fear Monster
Fear often thrives when left unchecked, growing into what Erica describes as a "fear monster." By consciously questioning and countering fear-based beliefs, you can 'shrink' this monster. Erica uses intentional practices to strip away layers of vulnerability, much like a burlesque dancer revealing their true self. Embracing fears and confronting them head-on empowers you to find safety and happiness amidst the chaos.
Setting and Enforcing Healthy Boundaries
Understanding and establishing boundaries is essential for personal well-being and healthy relationships. Erica highlights the difference between boundaries and ultimatums, explaining that true boundaries revolve around actions within your control. Personal boundaries should focus on self-care practices that maintain your well-being, such as needing alone time or engaging in activities that rejuvenate you. Clear, realistic boundaries help in avoiding self-abandonment and maintaining a balanced, fulfilling life.
Rediscovering Identity and Joy Post-Divorce
Erica's post-divorce journey involved rediscovering her identity and passions. By trying new activities she previously avoided, such as camping and different foods, she unraveled layers of societal expectations to find what truly fulfilled her. Breaking free from norms, and even simple acts like choosing not to wear a bra, contributed to her profound sense of self-discovery and joy. Her story highlights that divorce, while painful, also opens doors to immense personal growth and exploration.
Balancing Personal Space in New Relationships
In new relationships, maintaining boundaries and personal space is crucial to prevent self-abandonment. Erica prioritizes her rituals and self-care practices, ensuring she remains true to herself while supporting her partner's fulfillment. This balance allows for a healthy, supportive relationship where both individuals can pursue their passions independently without feeling threatened. Continuous personal growth and respecting each other’s need for independence form the foundation of a strong, lasting bond.
Grieving and Moving Forward
Grief is an intense and convoluted emotion, especially when grieving the unexpected aspects of a marriage. Erica stresses the importance of processing these feelings and understanding that sadness is a natural part of the healing journey, not an indicator of failure. Reflecting on love and loss allows one to make significant decisions from a place of clarity and love rather than emotional turmoil. Embracing these experiences as lessons rather than mistakes fosters resilience and growth.
Erica's insights illuminate the path from betrayal to empowerment. By focusing on personal happiness, grounding techniques, healthy boundaries, and continuous growth, individuals can transform their pain into profound personal development. Embracing fear, setting personal goals, and maintaining independence pave the way for a fulfilling and joyful life after betrayal.

About Erica
Meet Erica, a global training guru and coach, whose unwavering passion lies in helping you break free from the chains of fear that are holding you back. With over two decades of experience in training and coaching, Erica has honed her unique “woo and do” approach, blending the mystical with the practical, to empower you to align with your deepest desires and take confident strides towards success.
As the host of The Crazy Ex Wife's Club podcast, she shares her own divorce journey, offering hope and support to those facing similar challenges. With expertise in behavior training, healing, and personal growth, Erica guides you through separation or divorce, empowering you to transform pain into purpose.
Learn more about Erica, The Crazy Ex Wives Club, and the Crazy Ex Wives Club Podcast here: https://www.thecrazyexwivesclub.com/

Catch Lora's Interview on Erica's show here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/resilience-and-growth-after-betrayal-personal-stories/id1692703087?i=1000674996634

Join Lora for an Energetic Healing Session on November 15th at 11 AM PST, noon MST, 1 PM CST, 2:00PM EST designed specifically to explore and heal the roots of betrayal.
Via Zoom for only $7!
Learn more and sign up at stopselfbetrayal.com.

Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.
You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs.
Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com

About Lora
Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.
She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

📦 Special Offers and Resources

Get Relief Now!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT

Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!

Purchase Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.
Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!
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