FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

How to Know If Your Partner Has Truly Changed After Infidelity – And How You Can Heal Too


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How Your Cheating Partner Really Changed? Here are some key indicators of growth: How do you know your partner won’t cheat again? In this episode, we dive into what causes infidelity, and how to determine if your partner has changed.

Next, we take some time for a little coaching and self-reflection, moving into what’s possible for you after infidelity. Through personal growth, embodying the best version of yourself, and recognizing your partner's strides in emotional maturity and self-awareness, together, you can navigate the tumultuous path of healing. Remember, it's about consistent, observable changes and supporting each other’s self-care and emotional expressions.

Top Three Takeaways:

  1. How to Identify Genuine Change in a Partner: Growth is seen in consistent, small shifts—like improved emotional regulation, self-reflection, and the adoption of healthier coping mechanisms. Keeping track of past behaviors versus current progress is vital.
  2. Preventing Repeat Betrayal: While there are no guarantees, fostering emotional awareness and equipping partners with effective tools like therapy, communication, and mindfulness reduces the likelihood of relapse into maladaptive behaviors.
  3. Empowering Personal Transformation: Healing from betrayal is not about blame but about leveraging the experience as a catalyst for personal growth. Reflecting on what you want to stop, start, and become helps you rise into the highest version of yourself, reclaiming your life with strength and clarity.
  4. Four Coaching Questions to Ask Yourself: (You must listen for more details on these questions!)

    1. What do I want to stop?
    2. What do I want to start?
    3. Who do I want to become?
    4. How do I want to feel and show up?
    5. This podcast explores the complex journey of healing and transformation following betrayal, focusing on both partners' roles in rebuilding trust and evolving into their best selves.

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      Lora’s mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions.

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      About Lora

      Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy.

      She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.

       

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