FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

From Betrayal to Sacred Self-Belonging: Healing the Relationship With Yourself After Infidelity


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“Betrayal ends where Sacred Self-Belonging begins.” Lora Cheadle

After infidelity, the deepest wound isn’t just the loss of your partner’s trust—it’s the loss of your own. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle reframes betrayal recovery as a sacred homecoming to yourself. Learn what Sacred Self-Belonging really means, how it differs from self-care or self-love, and why it’s the ultimate goal of your healing journey. If you’ve ever felt like you abandoned yourself to be chosen, this episode will guide you back to the safety, sovereignty, and wholeness that betrayal tried to take.

Top 3 Takeaways:

  1. Betrayal ruptures your identity and self-trust, not just your relationship—and that’s what makes healing so complex.
  2. Sacred Self-Belonging is deeper than self-love—it’s a somatic, spiritual reunion with the parts of you you once left behind.
  3. Three powerful practices to begin reclaiming your self-worth, safety, and voice—starting now.
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    About Lora:

    Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.

    After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.

    A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.

    She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

     

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    Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.

     

    I’m here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you’ll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.

    Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.

     

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    Books By Lora

    • International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
    • Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019
    • Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?

      FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.

      It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.

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      It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive 

      Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.

      If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.

      Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.

       

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