In this conversation, Karleen Savage, a former hostage negotiator and conflict resolution expert, shares her journey from crisis negotiation to family dynamics. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, curiosity, and empathy in parenting, particularly in raising confident teens. Karleen discusses practical strategies for conflict resolution and the cost of fostering confidence in children, highlighting the need for parents to allow their teens to face challenges independently. The conversation also touches on the significance of humor and honesty in family interactions, as well as the overarching philosophies that guide effective parenting.

Takeaways

✅ Curiosity and empathy can transform conflict situations.

✅ Building confidence in teens requires allowing them to face challenges.

✅ Parents should model the behavior they want to see in their children.

✅ Establishing overarching philosophies helps guide parenting decisions.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Conflict Resolution and Personal Journey

02:58 The Transition from Hostage Negotiation to Family Mediation

05:57 Understanding Teen Development and Parenting Strategies

08:54 Modeling Behavior: The Key to Effective Parenting

11:54 Curiosity and Empathy in Conflict Resolution

14:52 Navigating Power Struggles with Teens

18:04 The Role of Curiosity in Hostage Negotiation and Parenting

26:41 Managing the Room in Conflicts

34:01 The Price of Confidence in Teens

42:10 Strategies for Building Confident Teens