In this episode of Asking for a Friend, we’re getting real about what’s happening inside your body in midlife—far beyond diet culture, quick fixes, or another “Motivation Monday.”

I’m joined by Christa Tyler, functional nutritionist, founder of Your Gut Goddess, and breast cancer survivor whose near-fatal sepsis and reconstructive surgery complications sent her on a mission to rebuild health from the inside out. From a hospital bed to a thriving practice, Christa’s story is a powerful example of why midlife women can’t afford to ignore their gut, hormones, and metabolism any longer.

We dig into:

• The blood tests every woman should be asking for in midlife: fasting insulin, A1C, vitamin D, hs-CRP, homocysteine, lipids, B12, and more
• Why “normal range” on labs isn’t always optimal—and how to track trends over time
• The difference between a short-term diet and a sustainable wellness lifestyle (and why 95% of diets fail)
• How gut health, fiber, and the microbiome influence cravings, weight regulation, mood, and long-term disease risk
• The real impact of alcohol on gut health and hormones
• How to help your 20- and 30-something kids build a foundation for longevity now
• Movement, steps, and simple daily habits to nursing-home-proof your future

If you’re a midlife woman navigating perimenopause or menopause, confused about your labs, or wondering where to start with gut health, this conversation will give you the questions, tools, and mindset to become your own best health advocate.

You can find Christa Tyler at https://www.instagram.com/yourgutgoddess/

To get a FREE Food, Mood, Poop Journal, go to https://christa-tyler.com/

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Urinary (and yes, bowel) leakage isn’t “just part of getting older”—it’s a signal from your core and pelvic floor. In this straight-talk episode, physical therapist Christina Walsh, co-founder of Tighten Your Tinkler, joins me to dismantle the shame around pelvic health and lay out a functional path forward that goes far beyond “just do more Kegels.” 

We cover what’s really driving leaks, pressure, prolapse, urgency, and painful sex in midlife; how breath, posture, fascia, and daily toileting habits influence symptoms; when conservative care is enough—and when devices, pessaries, or surgery may be appropriate. Christina also shares practical first steps you can start today (hello, decompression and diaphragmatic breathing), plus how to talk with your partner without pushing through pain.

What you’ll learn

• Why leaking is common—but not normal—and what it’s trying to tell you
• The limits of isolated Kegels and what a functional approach looks like
• How breathing, posture, sitting, and constipation ramp up pelvic pressure
• Staging prolapse (1–4), what’s realistic to “functionally heal,” and red-flags
• Painful sex in midlife: estrogen, lubrication, tone, and boundaries that help
• Fascia’s surprising role (yes, your bladder “talks” to your neck)

Links & resources

https://www.tightenyourtinkler.com/  (listener code Michele for $50 off)

https://www.instagram.com/tighten.your.tinkler/ 

Tighten Your Tinkler free quiz https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/tinklerquiz

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

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Your bones, brain, and muscles are having the same conversation—and nutrition is the translator. Duke orthopedic surgeon Dr. Jocelyn Wittstein breaks down how midlife hormone shifts accelerate bone loss, cartilage wear, and muscle decline, and why training + food choices can improve all three at once. 

We cover earlier DEXA timing, the bone–brain crosstalk (osteocalcin, agility, balance), and a practical plan: progressive strength, safe impact/jump options (step drops, heel drops, rebounders), grip and toe work for fall prevention, and weighted vests/rucking basics. 

On the nutrition side, we get specific: prioritize protein, aim for food-first calcium, and use targeted support where appropriate—vitamin D, omega-3s, magnesium glycinate, collagen, and turmeric—to lower inflammation, protect joints, and support cognition. 

Expect clear modifications for cranky knees/shoulders, plus why consistent movement is linked to reduced dementia risk. This episode is your integrated blueprint to build bone, protect your brain, and keep muscle on your frame—so you stay strong, steady, and independent for decades. 

Actionable, hopeful, and BS-free—use this episode to build stronger bones, happier joints, and real confidence for the next 20 years.

Follow Dr. Jocelyn Wittstein at https://www.instagram.com/jocelyn_wittstein_md/

Her book, The Complete Bone and Joint Health Plan, is available at booksellers.

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Want to feel stronger, steadier, and more capable for the next 30 years? In this episode, I sit down with strength coach Megan Dahlman to map out a clear, science-backed path for women 50+ to build real-world strength—without injury, confusion, or intimidation.

We bust common fitness myths (“just lift heavy,” “bash your bones,” “jump every day”) and replace them with smarter, safer strategies that protect joints, support bone density, and build lasting confidence. Megan shares how to train around arthritis, osteopenia, or joint replacements, use bodyweight and posture work to create balance, and why core control and rotation are key for mobility and pain relief.

From pickleball prep and agility drills to simple movement snacks you can do anywhere, this conversation gives you practical tools to move through life’s decades with strength and ease—so you can keep traveling, playing, and living fully without limits.

Website where you can find Megan's masterclasses, group training, and podcast.
https://www.vigeofit.com/about

https://www.instagram.com/megandahlman/

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.

Hitting a metabolic wall in midlife? You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. In this episode, Michele Folan, midlife health coach and former diabetes industry insider, breaks down the science (and the truth) behind microdosed GLP-1 and peptide therapy for women 40+.

Drawing on many years in diabetes and cardiovascular health, Michele explains how incretin hormones like GLP-1 and GIP regulate appetite, satiety, and insulin sensitivity — and why they’ve become game-changers for both metabolic and weight health. You’ll hear:

• The wild origin story of GLP-1 (hint: it starts with the Gila monster)
• Why early GLP-1 drugs revolutionized diabetes care
• How microdosing protocols now support fat loss while protecting lean muscle
• The real goals: improved A1C, fasting insulin, lipids, inflammation, and energy

This isn’t about shortcuts — it’s about layering science-backed tools onto strong habits:
✅ Lifting heavy
✅ Eating enough protein
✅ Prioritizing recovery
✅ Partnering with trusted, physician-led telehealth and vetted compounding pharmacies

Michele also dives into other longevity peptides that support sleep, recovery, cognition, skin, and hair health — plus the role of NAD+ in cellular repair and energy.

If you’ve been “doing everything right” and still feel stuck, this episode connects the dots between modern peptide therapy and midlife metabolism — with zero hype and total transparency.

🎙️ Listen now to understand who’s a good candidate, what results really look like, and how to protect your muscle while improving metabolic flexibility.
👉 Subscribe, share with a friend who’s curious about GLP-1s, and leave a review to help other midlife women find the show.

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.

Ever feel like you’re doing everything for everyone—and slowly disappearing from your own life?

In this raw and relatable episode, host Michele Folan sits down with writer and coach Jen Butler, author of the forthcoming memoir Mom Rediscovered, to talk about the messy, brave work of finding yourself again—after kids, after moves, and after the coping habits that promised relief but delivered fog.

Jen opens up about her seven-year alcohol-free journey, her decisive breakup with diet culture, and the “soft rock bottom” that sparked it all. We unpack:

• How sobriety led to radical self-compassion
• The dopamine “easy buttons” women often turn to—and how to replace them
• What curating your social media inputs can do for your inner weather
• How strength training, protein, and bone health became part of her midlife healing
• The simple life-circle exercise to spot what’s not working

Therapy threads through Jen’s story as a practical, stigma-free tool for connecting the dots between motherhood, partnership, and identity. She shares how writing the hardest scenes—hangovers, shame, and all—became deeply healing.

If you’re curious about gray-area drinking, breaking up with diet culture, or building a midlife you actually want to live, this conversation will meet you where you are and gently nudge you forward.

👉 Preorder Mom Rediscovered, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more women find this space.

https://jenbutlerwrites.com/
https://www.instagram.com/jenbutlerwrites/

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.

Reigniting Desire in Midlife with Dr. Diane Mueller: Stress, Hormones & Real-World Intimacy Fixes

Desire doesn’t vanish in midlife—it evolves. In this episode of Asking for a Friend, certified sexologist Dr. Diane Mueller joins host Michele Folan to unpack what really happens to libido, intimacy, and connection as hormones shift, stress piles up, and long-term relationships get comfortable.

We explore the science of midlife desire, from how oxytocin calms cortisol and improves sleep to how vibration therapy and pelvic floor health can ease pain and increase pleasure. You’ll learn the difference between “wanting to want” and true arousal, how testosterone fits into the libido puzzle, and why body image and tissue health deserve as much attention as hormones.

Dr. Mueller introduces her concept of “erotic repair”—a framework that moves intimacy beyond penetration and toward curiosity, communication, and play. Together, we tackle mismatched desire, dopamine boredom, and the single most important habit separating happy couples from disconnected ones: talking specifically about what feels good.

Expect evidence-based tools and real-world scripts you can try tonight—like the Yes/No/Maybe exercise that makes awkward conversations easier. Whether you’re navigating menopause, rebuilding intimacy after stress, or simply craving more connection, this episode delivers honest, science-backed guidance with zero fluff.

 Dr. Dian Mueller's book: https://WantToWantIt.com

Free Libido Quiz to get to the root causes of low libido: https://LibidoQuiz.com

Free - Yes, No, Maybe Checklist to bring in novelty: https://MySexDoc.com

Recommended Lubes and products: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products 

IG: https://instagram.com/myromancedoc

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

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What’s the Real Cost of That Evening Glass of Wine? A Sobriety Journey with Kate Vitela

Kate Vitela, a registered nurse, shares her powerful journey from physical alcohol dependence to over seven years of sobriety. Her story isn’t defined by a dramatic rock-bottom moment but by a gradual awakening to how daily drinking eroded her sleep, career, and relationships. Now, Kate offers a hopeful perspective on recovery through neuroplasticity—the brain’s incredible ability to rewire itself and form new neural pathways. “Our brains can reorganize,” she says. “We can completely transform as human beings.” This challenges the outdated notion that addiction is a lifelong disease requiring constant management.

In this candid conversation, we dive into what that evening glass of wine means for midlife women. For many, it’s more than a drink—it’s a rebellious act of self-care, a boundary between meeting others’ needs and claiming a moment for themselves. But Kate reveals the hidden costs: even one drink disrupts REM sleep, circadian rhythm, and hormones, far beyond just calories. Host, Michele Folan, shares a personal experiment, contrasting a sleep score of 62 after bourbon with 91-94 on alcohol-free nights.

Kate doesn’t judge moderation but offers a bold reframe: “Alcohol is ethanol—a poison. Moderation is just microdosing poison.” She argues that midlife is the perfect time to rethink your relationship with alcohol. With greater motivation and a clearer sense of what doesn’t work, midlife women are uniquely positioned to embrace change.

Whether you’re sober-curious, exploring moderation, or questioning alcohol’s role in your life, this episode invites you to uncover what drinking is truly costing you—and what freedom could look like. Through her work with women, Kate shows that true empowerment comes from self-care practices that nourish without requiring recovery.

Listen now to discover how to reclaim your power, improve your sleep, and embrace a life free from alcohol’s grip.

You can find Kate Vitela at https://www.instagram.com/rewiredsober/

Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rewired-sober/id1781739552 or wherever you listen

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.

Unlocking the Oral-Systemic Connection with Dr. Mark Burhenne

Did you know your mouth may be the first place chronic disease, hormone imbalances, poor sleep, and even accelerated aging show up? In this powerful episode of Asking for a Friend, functional dentist and bestselling author Dr. Mark Burhenne explains why oral health is the true gateway to whole-body wellness—and why traditional dentistry often overlooks these critical connections.

From the surprising impact of dry mouth and receding gums during menopause, to how airway health affects sleep, brain function, and longevity, Dr. Burhenne breaks down what midlife women need to know. You’ll learn:

• Why 90% of sleep apnea remains undiagnosed—and why slim, active women are at risk
• The hidden dangers of mouthwash, root canals, and cavitations
• How oral bacteria influence heart health and nitric oxide production
• Simple daily practices like mouth taping and oil pulling that can transform health
• The link between oral health, Alzheimer’s disease, and hormone shifts in midlife

Dr. Burhenne also shares his personal journey with sleep apnea, insights from his book The Eight-Hour Sleep Paradox, and his mission to revolutionize oral care through his “For Your Good Guys” hydroxyapatite product line.

If you care about your smile, your sleep, and your longevity, this conversation will change the way you look in the mirror each morning. Your mouth is talking—are you listening?

https://www.instagram.com/askthedentist/

https://askthedentist.com/

Dr. Mark Burhenne's book, The 8 Hour Sleep Paradox, is available on Amazon and other booksellers.

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.

Steffani LeFevour shares that manifestation isn’t magic—it’s mindset. Learn how to create life on your terms. 

Why do some prayers go unanswered while others manifest with ease? The difference may surprise you. Manifestation mentor and happiness coach Steffani LeFevour joins me on Asking for a Friend to share how women in midlife can stop asking and start becoming—rewriting their stories to create the life they truly desire.

Steffani’s journey is both raw and inspiring. After losing her sister at 11 and growing up with an alcoholic father, she spiraled into self-sabotage before discovering the spiritual tools that helped her climb what she calls “the mountain” toward happiness. Her story reminds us that reinvention isn’t a crisis—it’s an opportunity.

In this episode, you’ll discover:
 ✅ The five power tools—thoughts, words, feelings, beliefs, and stories—that shape your reality
 ✅ Steffani’s four-step manifestation framework for lasting transformation
 ✅ The “New Reality Formula” that aligns your energy, beliefs, and actions
 ✅ Practical routines and self-care practices to shift out of negativity and into possibility

Whether you’re facing a career change, relationship challenges, or simply craving more joy in daily life, Steffani’s perspective will challenge you to take back your power. As she says, “All the peace is available. All the joy is available—if you choose it.”

👉 If you’re a woman in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, this is a must-listen conversation on midlife reinvention, manifestation, and creating life on your terms.

You can find Steffani LeFevour at https://www.instagram.com/coachwithsteff/

Her book You Are a Badass Mom is available on Amazon

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Transcripts are created with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding a medical condition.