BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

How I Accidentally Rewired My Anxious Attachment Into a Secure One


Listen Later

You're not needy. You're just healing! In this episode, I’m sharing how I accidentally rewired my anxious attachment into a secure one...without forcing it, faking it, or labeling myself as “crazy.”

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering:

“Why am I spiraling when everything is fine?” “Why do I panic when things finally feel safe?” …or “Why can’t I just stay calm in a good relationship?” This one’s for you, bb 🫶

👇Here’s what we’re unpacking today:

✨ Why your brain freaks out when your body finally relaxes

✨ How “self-awareness” can actually be a form of over-control

✨ Why you still feel unsafe in a healthy relationship

✨ What it really means to self-regulate vs. spiral

✨ The power of experiencing consistent love (instead of just talking about it)

✨ And how your partner’s stability can rewire your nervous system—if you let it

PLUS: real wins from the Healing Girl Gang! 💌

If you’re a high-achieving, emotionally intelligent woman who crushes it at work but crumbles inside a text bubble… this one’s for you. 🫶

Whether you’re newly dating, navigating relationship anxiety, or trying to trust your GOOD partner, this episode will give you the real talk, mindset shifts, and embodiment work you didn’t know you needed.

🦋 Ready for the deeper work? 

🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥 

💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖

🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕

FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube

WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

BeThatHealingGirl PodcastBy bethathealinggirl

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

150 ratings


More shows like BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

View all
Love Life With Matthew Hussey by Matthew Hussey

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

2,683 Listeners

What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't by Rhoda Sommer on Relationships

What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't

278 Listeners

Breakups and Relationships With Coach Craig Kenneth M.A. by Coach Craig Kenneth M.A.

Breakups and Relationships With Coach Craig Kenneth M.A.

265 Listeners

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS by Jessica Da Silva, LMFT

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS

274 Listeners

The Thais Gibson Podcast by Thais Gibson

The Thais Gibson Podcast

300 Listeners

How to Get Over Your Ex by Breakup Coach Dorothy

How to Get Over Your Ex

538 Listeners

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

1,130 Listeners

Heal Your Heartbreak by Break Up Bestie

Heal Your Heartbreak

630 Listeners

Unf*ck Your Relationships by Michelle Panning

Unf*ck Your Relationships

229 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,047 Listeners

Jillian on Love by Jillian Turecki | QCODE

Jillian on Love

1,389 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,968 Listeners

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

629 Listeners

Dating Intentionally by Talia Koren

Dating Intentionally

487 Listeners

Healing Anxious Attachment by Johanna Adriaansen

Healing Anxious Attachment

80 Listeners