The recent Barbie movie brought to light the impossible situation that many women face when dealing with a patriarchal society. Namely, the system is rigged and there’s no way women can win. Unless they stop playing the old game, and create a new one instead!
Dealing with people who are bound and determined to create conflict and misunderstand or hurt you is maddening! It brings up a sense of self-righteous, yet totally justified, anger leading us to defend ourselves and our position, explain why their toxic behavior is hurtful, and work ourselves into even more frustration because we are never able to get our needs met. The sad truth is, some people are so wounded they will protect themselves at any cost, and you can never win. Here’s how to respond to the madness in a way that allows you to reclaim your power, set boundaries, and prioritize your peace of mind.
 
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Learn effective communication strategies by using "I" statements and setting boundaries. This will help you navigate challenging conversations and protect your emotional wellbeing.
Recognize the importance of acknowledging and processing emotions. By taking time to validate your feelings, you can unhook from the drama and take action that has the potential to create lasting change.
Discover the power of disengaging from negative situations and creating a new game for yourself in situations where you know you can’t otherwise win.
How to let go of the pressure women face to please, perform, and conform, challenge societal norms, and focus on personal fulfillment instead.
 
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again.
 
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.

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Intrusive thoughts are the number one complaint of those facing infidelity and betrayal. Here’s how to prevent intrusive thoughts, manage them in the moment, and prevent them long-term. If you want to learn what your obsessive thoughts are trying to tell you, and reclaim your sanity and peace after betrayal, then listen up, this is the show for you.
Top Take-a-Ways:
Identifying what intrusive thoughts are, why they happen, and preventing them before they begin.
Strategies to prevent intrusive thoughts when they occur, including grounding techniques, visualization, meditation, and breathwork.
Managing intrusive thoughts for long-term wellness and health.
Join Lora’s 90-Day Affair Recovery Program – Clarity, Confidence, & Peace Along the Way and learn to manage your obsessive thoughts. FLAUNT! listeners get a money-back guarantee! Must complete all modules of this 90-day program, within 90 days. https://loracheadle.com/affair-recovery-for-women-programs/
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.
 
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
 
Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
 
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Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!

Intrusive Thoughts After Infidelity – Reclaim Your Brain & Feel Better Fast

Betrayal hurts. But what if it was the medicine your heart needed to transform into the fullness and beauty of who you were meant to be? Today’s guest is the inspiring and creative Alana Fairchild, who will share her divine wisdom on healing the heart after the storm of betrayal. We’ll discuss how to come home to your true self, embrace your divine feminine, and discern between intuition and wishful thinking. Together, we’ll explore the importance of forgiveness, not as a means of condoning, but as a pathway to closure and compassion. Alana will share insights on the divine feminine as heart medicine, a transformative force that fuels our rebirth and personal evolution. We’ll also tackle the tough emotions—anger, grief, bitterness—and how to use them as stepping stones towards a greater, more authentic version of ourselves. Join us as we unpack the complexities of transformation, self-discovery, and the power of embracing all facets of your identity, reinforced through personal stories and profound truths. Whether you’re dealing with the aftermath of infidelity or simply striving for deeper self-awareness, this episode is a guide to fostering patience, self-compassion, and an unshakeable connection with your inner wisdom. Get ready to be inspired, to heal, and to FLAUNT all that you are, because who you are is always more than enough!
Top Take-a-Ways:
Coming Home to Yourself: Understand the importance of creating spaciousness and introversion as methods of self-nurture. Discover your personal ways to refuel spiritually and emotionally.
Navigating Change and Growth: Learn how forgiveness and self-compassion are key in evolving from past betrayals. Alana and Lora discuss the non-linear path of healing, emphasizing the courage needed to embrace authenticity.
Harnessing Your Divine Feminine: Alana shares her insights on the transformative power of the divine feminine. Engage with different goddess energies to explore facets of your identity and expand your self-awareness.
Special offer from Alana Fairchild! Check out Alana’s monthly program, Community of the Sacred, as well as her open enrollment program, Rose of Venus.
About Alana Fairchild
An artist of a different kind, Alana Fairchild is a visionary powerhouse with a gift for soul-nurturing communication. With a loving sense of humor and open nature, Alana weaves magic into the world to uplift, vitalize and comfort. She is a rare and nourishing channel who stimulates spiritual awakening and healing through her very presence. Her energy is a consciousness catalyst for transformation with a gentleness, purity and potency that sets her apart. Alana’s insights promote freedom rather than doctrine in a language of the soul and the heart. Her works are thoughtfully guided for effectiveness and evolution, and are accessible to all individuals, regardless of religious or other beliefs. Alana has devoted her life to creating unique works that deeply heal and encourage wholeness. To explore her special offerings, including online programs, unique in-person experiences and more, you are warmly welcome to visit www.alanafairchild.com
Schedule your Couple’s Strategy Session Here: www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com For only $198 you and your partner can get the roadmap you need to recover more quickly, and with fewer mistakes!
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Get the understanding, clarity, & support you deserve today!
Schedule your one-hour breakthrough Zoom session with Lora today. Together we will figure out where you are at, what’s blocking you from being where you want to be and design a clear strategy for how to get you there.
*BONUS!* This session includes 30 minutes of follow-up support. Schedule and pay here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically fo

Betrayal as Divine Feminine Heart Medicine – with Alana Fairchild

Feeling stuck after infidelity or betrayal is common, but what does it mean to “move on?” Are you subconsciously “pushing away” love and healing or do you need more time or more tools to heal? In this episode, you will learn what it means to move on, how to move on, especially when you are stuck, and what to do when others (especially your cheating partner) are telling you that you should move on, even when you aren’t ready.
Top Take-a-Ways:
**Understanding Betrayal Blindness**: We will explore the concept of betrayal blindness, where you might ignore the realities that don’t fit your desired narrative. Recognizing this can be a pivotal step in accepting the need for change and can empower you to make decisions based on truth rather than convenience or fear.
**The Importance of Slowing Down**: Tools and techniques that encourage you to slow down and assess your situation thoughtfully. It’s crucial to determine if you’re stuck in denial or if you’re procrastinating on taking the necessary steps towards healing. This part of the episode will help you identify whether your reasons for not moving forward are internal, requiring personal work, or external, requiring changes in your environment or relationships.
**Resistance and Its Role in Healing**: Finally, we’ll discuss the role of resistance in the healing journey. Understanding how internal resistance can manifest as self-sabotage or an inability to complete healing exercises will provide insights into how changing deep-seated beliefs can lead to significant behavioral changes.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clearer understanding of where you stand, what’s holding you back, and how to embrace change with an open heart. So, let’s get started and take these first pivotal steps toward healing and creating a life filled with joy and authenticity. Remember, you deserve to live a life that not only feels good but also true to who you are.
Schedule your Couple’s Strategy Session Here: www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com For only $198 you and your partner can get the roadmap you need to recover more quickly, and with fewer mistakes!
Need Help Now?
Get the understanding, clarity, & support you deserve today!
Schedule your one-hour breakthrough Zoom session with Lora today. Together we will figure out where you are at, what’s blocking you from being where you want to be and design a clear strategy for how to get you there.
*BONUS!* This session includes 30 minutes of follow-up support. Schedule and pay here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session
 
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.
 
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
 
Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
 
The most comfortable shoes you will ever wear! Available in seven heel heights, these shoes will keep you comfortably on your feet for 12 hours. Made with cork, many styles are available including heels, wedges, and boots. www.EuropeanHeels.com $25 off with Discount Code Flaunt
 
SOLAWAVE Reduce the appearance of wrinkles, fine lines, dark circles, blemishes, and dark spots while de-puffing and energizing your skin. This 7x Award-Winning Skincare Wand combines Red Light Therapy, Galvanic Current, Therapeutic Warmth, and Facial Massage for an easy-to-use and eff

Moving On After Infidelity & Betrayal – What to do When You’re Stuck

Do you feel broken after infidelity or betrayal? What if you aren’t “broken” and need to be fixed, but have been “broken open” for good, and called to evolve? Like a seed, your evolution begins by being broken open, and depending on your perspective and choices, you can either flourish and thrive, or wither and die. Learn the pivotal difference between being broken and being broken open, and how to gently nurture yourself, and strategically plant “seeds” for your future growth.
 
Top Take-a-Ways:
**Transformation Through Trauma**: Discover how to convert painful experiences into opportunities for personal expansion and deeper self-understanding.
**Power of Perspective**: Learn techniques to reframe challenges, emphasizing the importance of choosing thoughts and actions that foster positivity and resilience.
**Embracing Growth**: Understand the metaphor of the seed — breaking to grow — and how this applies to personal development stages following betrayal or hardship.
Schedule your Couple’s Strategy Session Here: www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com For only $198 you and your partner can get the roadmap you need to recover more quickly, and with fewer mistakes!
 
Need Help Now?
Get the understanding, clarity, & support you deserve today!
Schedule your one-hour breakthrough Zoom session with Lora today. Together we will figure out where you are at, what’s blocking you from being where you want to be and design a clear strategy for how to get you there.
*BONUS!* This session includes 30 minutes of follow-up support. Schedule and pay here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.
 
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
 
Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
 
The most comfortable shoes you will ever wear! Available in seven heel heights, these shoes will keep you comfortably on your feet for 12 hours. Made with cork, many styles are available including heels, wedges, and boots. www.EuropeanHeels.com $25 off with Discount Code Flaunt
 
SOLAWAVE Reduce the appearance of wrinkles, fine lines, dark circles, blemishes, and dark spots while de-puffing and energizing your skin. This 7x Award-Winning Skincare Wand combines Red Light Therapy, Galvanic Current, Therapeutic Warmth, and Facial Massage for an easy-to-use and effective treatment. https://www.pjtra.com/t/2-574028-273174-269792

From Broken to Broken Open – Embracing Growth After Betrayal

Do you ever get frustrated that your partner just won’t listen? If you are anything like me, you see your partner, and all of his flaws, pretty darned clearly. You’ve said (or at least thought) things like, “If he would just _____, then things would be so much easier!” And it’s true. If your partner would just take responsibility for their actions, atone for their mistakes, admit what they did, show you their phone, cut it off with the other woman, get on the same page as you, value the same things that you value, and do what you know they need to do, things would be easier!
Here’s how to do that: Get your partner a map. Show them the path to recovery. Create a proven affair-recovery strategy and work your plan. Men love instructions. They love to be successful, solve problems, and see results. You already know that men stop trying because they won’t stop and ask for directions! They would sometimes rather quit than fail. Don’t let them fail. Give them a proven strategy they can follow and let them fight for a successful resolution to the problem that they created!
Top Take-a-Ways:
Deciding how you want to clean up this affair mess that you are in, through no fault of your own.
Getting your partner on the same page as you, so you can relax because you know what progress is being made.
Why having an Affair Recovery Strategy is the number one most important step you can take to heal after infidelity and betrayal.
Schedule your Couple’s Strategy Session Here: www.BetrayalRecoveryCoach.com For only $198 you and your partner can get the roadmap you need to recover more quickly, and with fewer mistakes!
Need Help Now?
Get the understanding, clarity, & support you deserve today!
Schedule your one-hour breakthrough Zoom session with Lora today. Together we will figure out where you are at, what’s blocking you from being where you want to be and design a clear strategy for how to get you there.
*BONUS!* This session includes 30 minutes of follow-up support. Schedule and pay here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session
About Lora:
Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after.
 
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
 
Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
 
The most comfortable shoes you will ever wear! Available in seven heel heights, these shoes will keep you comfortably on your feet for 12 hours. Made with cork, many styles are available including heels, wedges, and boots. www.EuropeanHeels.com $25 off with Discount Code Flaunt
 
SOLAWAVE Reduce the appearance of wrinkles, fine lines, dark circles, blemishes, and dark spots while de-puffing and energizing your skin. This 7x Award-Winning Skincare Wand combines Red Light Therapy, Galvanic Current, Therapeutic Warmth, and Facial Massage for an easy-to-use and effective treatment. https://www.pjtra.com/t/2-574028-273174-269792

How to Face Your Toxic Partner (or the Whole Darned Patriarchy) & Win Every Time

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