How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

If you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.

Episode Highlights:

02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)

05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love

09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet

14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date

17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say

21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone

26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First Kiss

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You see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.

Episode Highlights:

04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief

13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)

16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark

21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence

23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)

28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching

31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream Girlfriend

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If you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.


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Do you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.

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Things seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.

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There are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. So what’s your flirting level? And how do you level up? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett brings the 6 Levels of Flirting to life through real-life stories. It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.

Episode Highlights:

02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest

06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment

11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone

15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates

18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca

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Being creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.

Episode Highlights:

01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me

04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”

07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent

12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away

19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew It

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If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.

Episode Highlights:

01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough

05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking

08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers

11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio

14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates

20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love

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Online dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches

14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios Ever

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Fifteen years ago, he was ready to quit approaching for good. He hated it. Nothing worked. Then a night in Miami changed everything. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett talks about this fateful evening. He also shares inspiring success stories from his clients Ken, Jason, and Ray. If you freeze up around beautiful women, this episode is for you.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

01:59: The Night in Miami that Changed Connell’s Dating Life

17:01: How Ken Went from Shy Virgin to Getting His First Kiss and First Girlfriend

30:08: The Moment Ray Stopped Freezing Up and Started Confidently Meeting WomenB

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