FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

How to Reignite Your Sexual Vitality After Betrayal


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How to Heal After Betrayal & Reignite Your Sexual Vitality with Susan Bratton, “Intimacy Expert to Millions💋”

“Sex isn’t something you’re supposed to just know—it’s something you learn. And when you do, it changes everything.” – Susan Bratton

 

Betrayal can rupture more than trust—it can sever our connection to pleasure, to our bodies, and to our sense of self. But what if the path to healing included more joy, more intimacy, and the best sex of your life?

In this groundbreaking episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Susan Bratton, bestselling author, sexual biohacker, and intimacy expert to millions, to explore what it really takes to heal after betrayal and reignite your desire—not just with a partner, but within yourself.

From Susan’s raw and personal story of infidelity, open marriage, and reclaiming her marriage and sexual sovereignty, to practical tools for somatic healing, bedroom communication, and extending your “sex span” as you age—this episode will change the way you think about sex, healing, and what’s truly possible.

Top Three Takeaways

  1. Healing Is a Mind-Body Journey
  2. Healing from betrayal requires somatic integration, emotional processing, and relational repair. It’s not about “getting over it,” but about expanding through it.
    1. Sexual Vitality is the Fourth Health Factor
    2. Great sex isn’t a bonus—it’s essential. Just like sleep, nutrition, and exercise, regular intimate pleasure enhances immunity, cardiovascular health, emotional resilience, and brain function.
    3. Communication Is the Cornerstone of Intimacy
    4. From the Soulmate Embrace to the Magic Pill Method, Susan shares actionable tools that couples can use to restore trust, reawaken desire, and co-regulate nervous systems after betrayal.

      Mentioned Resources & Free Downloads from Susan Bratton:

      • 💌 BetterLover.com – Sign up for Susan’s free newsletter packed with pleasuring techniques, communication skills, libido tips, and more.
      • Magic Pill Method – A free 5-step guide to talk through sexual shutdowns and reignite intimacy.
      • Soulmate Embrace – Learn how to reconnect emotionally and physically through this grounding, oxytocin-boosting practice.
      • The20 Store – Shop DESIRE and FLOW, Susan’s libido-enhancing and nitric oxide-boosting supplements for men and women.
      • Better Lover YouTube Channel – Watch 400+ videos on lovemaking, healing after betrayal, intimacy techniques, and more.
      • 📖 Susan’s Books & Programs – Including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, and Revive Her Drive: PersonalLifeMedia.com
      • Longevity Tips & Biohacking for Sex Span: Longevity Wins Substack
      • Susan on Instagram: @SusanBratton
      • Threads: @susanbratton
      • LinkedIn: Susan Bratton
      • 🌐 More Info: SusanBratton.com
      • Who This Episode is For:

        • Women healing from infidelity or betrayal
        • Couples wanting to reignite intimacy and passion
        • Anyone curious about sex as a tool for healing, empowerment, and longevity
        • Professionals interested in sexual biohacking and regenerative intimacy
        • Favorite Quote:

          “Why let cheating cheat you of the pleasure that will extend your health span? When you extend your sex span, you extend your life.”

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          About Susan:

          Susan Bratton is the “Intimacy Expert to Millions💋,” a globally recognized sexual biohacker, bestselling author of 44 books, and CEO of Personal Life Media and The 20. With over 300,000 readers across her BetterLover.com and LongevityWins.com newsletters, Susan teaches the art of connected, regenerative intimacy and helps people of all ages extend their sex span to match their healthspan. She’s been featured on ABC, CBS, NBC, and over 1,000 podcasts, offering science-backed, pleasure-forward guidance on everything from orgasmic mastery to sexual healing after betrayal.

          📚 SusanBratton.com | 💌 BetterLover.com | 📺 YouTube | 📸 @SusanBratton

           

          About Lora:

          Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.

          After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.

          A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.

          ✨ Learn more at www.LoraCheadle.com

           

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            betrayal recovery, sexual biohacking, intimacy after infidelity, Susan Bratton interview, healing from cheating, somatic healing, libido after betrayal, open marriage, orgasm tips, yoni massage, soulmate embrace, nervous system regulation, desire, relationship communication, extending your sex span, sex over 50, polyamory healing

             

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