BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

How to Stop Trying So Hard Because You’re Scared They’ll Stop Loving You


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Welcome back to the Be That Healing Girl podcast! 🧠💘

Today’s episode is for the girlies who are exhausted from being the emotional project manager of their relationship. You know the one: the planner, the fixer, the emotional laborer, the one Googling “how to stop being anxious but still be lovable.”

If your brain tells you, “If I stop trying, nothing will happen,” and you're scared your relationship will crumble unless you give 200% every second… this episode will hit. hard. 👀

We’re talking:

- The lie anxious attachment tells you about effort = love

- How overfunctioning is killing your vibe and your connection

- What it actually means to feel safe and loved without working overtime

- And why letting your partner choose you requires you to chill (even if it makes you twitchy)

Plus... an update from my hysterectomy recovery era and how Head Nurse Craig is thriving, and I am deeply humbled and deeply moisturized.

🎧 And don’t forget: if you’re tired of the spiral, the resentment, and the fake chill girl act, the Healing Girl Gang is where we turn information into actual transformation. It’s not just “awareness,” babe. It’s reps, it’s nervous system work, it’s receipts. Come do the work and feel good doing it!

🦋 Ready for the deeper work? 

🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥 

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