In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, John shares his story of being married to a demanding emotional abuser. John was quickly smitten with his future wife, bonding over commonalities, including family trauma. However, once they got married, John's wife began to isolate him and tear down his self-esteem. John's wife was all about optics. Suddenly John's job was not good enough, then it was his appearance, followed by their apartment, and it was all John's fault even if he didn't do anything wrong. 

It's a story of demands, putdowns, body shaming, optics, blame, never being good enough, no win situations, financial abuse, isolation, self-esteem, intergenerational trauma, excuses, criticism disguised as jokes, rage, and leaving for good.

If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected]

To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here.

To listen to our abuser types episode - click here.

PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:

Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here

The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here

Something Was Wrong | Click Here

When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here

If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. 

If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.).  To reach them, click here.

Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/

Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse

Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices