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Do you have an abandonment wound? Or are you questioning if you have one? An abandonment wound can affect your daily life in very subtle ways. An abandonment wound is usually the result of past experiences and it can hugely impact your life today, as an adult. The question is, how does your abandonment wound show up in your daily life? Seeing these patterns improve your wellbeing, choices, and relationships. Let's dive into the different ways your abandonment wound might show up at work, in relationships, and other areas of your life. You will hear what a recap of what an abandonment wound is, and key signs of how it shows up. I will also share the details of my CBT course, Becoming Secure. As always, at the end of the video I give you big value - one shift you can make when your abandonment wound is triggered. I would love to hear from you in the comments, what is the main takeaway that can help you live happier?

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This workshop is sponsored by my signature 6-week course, Becoming Secure. It does exactly what it says on the tin... it helps you move from feeling insecure, lost, or anxious, to feeling grounded, confident, and secure. It’s six weeks to rediscovering yourself..and right now there’s a special early bird offer available.

Join Becoming Secure with Early Bird Pricing until Wed 3rd: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/becoming-secure-course

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Part 5:
If you struggle with anxiety, anxious attachment, and your mood - it is very possible you are living by hidden rules and inner guidelines without even realising it. Rules like “I must always please others” “I need to be chosen” or “I have to get it right or I’ll be on my own” can leave you feeling anxious, self-critical, and stuck in the same old patterns. They quietly fuel overthinking, low self-esteem, and the constant worry that you're not enough... in life, in love, and in how you show up for yourself

In part 5, I teach you to be able to tell if your rules are helpful or unhelpful, and how to start changing your own inner guidelines for better self-worth and happiness.

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Part 4
If you’ve ever noticed that your anxiety or low mood is tangled up with self-esteem, this episode is a must-listen (or must-watch).
There are sneaky thoughts and beliefs holding you back, keeping you stuck in self-criticism, stopping you from feeling confident, and blocking you from being your true self.

This, mini episode (4) is here to give you the motivation and reminders to start breaking free, building healthier self-esteem, and inviting more happiness into your life.

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Today's bitesize episode is for those of you that prefer a real exercise compared to theory and ideas.

Rules for Living help you live a life where you feel OK, so long as those rules are met. The second they are not, that's when you spiral.

E.G. If you believe you should make everyone happy, you will lose yourself the second you think you might have upset someone.

In this mini episode, I am delivering a somatic exercise combined with music, affirmation, and visualisation. A great way to regulate yourself and cut ties with old rules that are not serving you.

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PART 2: Rules That Lead to ANXIETY

In today's bitesize episode I am sharing with you a key reason why you fall into panic, worry, & obsessing at certain times in your life. There is something that triggers this cycle and knowing about it has truly changed my life and how I manage my mood and thoughts.

If you care what others thinking, or notice yourself doing things you think you SHOULD or MUST do rather than what you WANT), this one is for you!

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In this mini episode Carly Ann introduces a popular concept (Rules for Living) that is discussed in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. 
Rules for living are influenced by your own negative core beliefs and they actually maintain low self-esteem, anxiety, low mood, and self doubt

It is when your rule for living is broken that you spiral into worry and feeling bad

If you can begin to understand this psychological concept, you can begin to change your life

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Have you heard of limerence? The longing, obsessing, and thinking about someone you like.

In this episode Carly Ann talk about what limerence is, what keeps you hooked on them (why you can't let go).

What makes this different to any other episode? I talk about the fact that logically you do know better.

You have read the books and you're doing the inner work, yet you still hold on

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These are not your usual affirmations. In this video, you won’t just repeat words, you’ll be guided to see, feel, and imagine the outcome as if it’s already real. This combination of affirmations and guided imagery creates a powerful shift in your mind and body, making it easier to attract what you desire and rewire old patterns that hold you back.

If you’ve ever felt like affirmations don’t “work” for you, this practice is different. By engaging your imagination, emotions, and senses, you’ll activate the part of your brain that doesn’t just hear the affirmation - it believes it.

Listen daily and watch how your thoughts, energy, and reality begin to align with what you truly want.

Say it | Visualise it | Become it

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You know the logic. You know what you should do. And yet… you keep repeating the same patterns. Why?

In this video, I break down what’s really going on beneath the surface when logic and self-awareness aren’t enough to create change. You've read the books, done the work, and yet you keep defaulting to old patterns.

You chase people, you over-give, you self-criticise - even though you know better.

Let's get clear on what is going on, plus you will receive your practice of the week!

If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why do I keep doing this even though I know better?” - this episode will explain what is happening

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