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Are you wondering about Attachment Styles? Perhaps you are aware of anxious and/or avoidant attachment tendencies and need more clarity around your own patterns. 

In this episode, Carly Ann (Somatic Attachment Coach) is joined by Jessica Da Silva where we discuss:

• Description of each attachment styles
• What helped our guest say HELL NO to an unhealthy relationship
• How to change and move towards secure attachment
• Actionable steps you can take to change attachment patterns
• How to trust in your healing and change
• Reprogramming your inner experience

Links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

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Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

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Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Are you wondering about abandonment wounds? Perhaps you are aware of anxious and/or avoidant attachment tendencies and need more clarity around your own fear of abandonment, rejection, and being left. In this episode, Carly Ann (Somatic Attachment Coach) shares 8 signs you may have abandonment wounds, plus there is a special commitment to help you begin a process of breaking free from your abandonment wounds.

Links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style?

 If yes, it is possible you know what it feels like to lose yourself in love. 

> You likely want to stop losing yourself in love. Right?

Losing yourself and giving up your own needs is common for anxious & disorganised attachment styles especially. 

In this episode, Carly Ann address key signs of losing yourself in love and gives a top tip on how you can rediscover and stay connected to yourself. This is a key skill for developing a secure attachment style.


Links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? 

If yes, you need this today. I am bringing you a gift in this episode... Although I say it is for Christmas Day, this can in fact be used any time you need to shift states or boost your energy. 

More: Carly Ann delivers a meditation combined with somatic practice, compassion, & intuitive movement. Get comfortable and allow yourself to reconnect and feel alive. You can use this for a bad day, to shift energy, or to create more energy, or because you want to feel even better.


Links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Do you ever lose yourself in love? When you are so focused on relationships or other people's needs, it often means you neglect your own Self - your dreams, your purpose, your passion. This episode fully supports the idea that being yourself will have a positive influence on your relationship and who you attract into your life (not sure you agree? Have a listen)

 I am joined by Fiona Moss and in this episode and we discuss:

• How Cultivating your own happiness can support you to feel more secure
• Why it is time to live your life according  to your purpose and your passion
• Tips on dealing with triggers
• Fiona shares how her own life significant life events impact her to live with purpose
• That it is time to expand your vision beyond your relationships

Links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  
• Follow Fiona on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/fionamoss_/ 

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Instagram: www.instagram.com/atchmusic  

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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In this episode, Carly Ann shares four common triggers for avoidant attachment. These are 4 honest ways we might trigger someone with a primarily dismissive avoidant attachment style.

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Instagram: www.instagram.com/atchmusic  

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Do you ever feel so overwhelmed and highjacked by your feelings? Despite this you are still over giving, burning out, and just trying to keep up.

In this episode I am joined by Wendy, known as The Completion Coach. We discuss:

- Signs you are avoiding feelings & emotions (e.g. burn-out & overworking)
- Coping mechanisms we use to cope with intense emotions
- Regulating & Managing Emotions tips 
- Specific questions you can use when you are facing challenging times and intense emotions
- Communication and undoing years of patterns

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Instagram: www.instagram.com/atchmusic  

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Do you have an anxious attachment? If so it's possible when you are triggered, it is hard to remember everything you have been learning. It is a common theme that all your self-soothing tools & knowledge flee your mind. In this episode, Carly Ann offers three KEY reminders that you need to write down for next time you are activated & losing yourself.

• The Attachment Recovery Gym:  https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym 
• FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Lessons in Love is the Podcast that helps you breakthrough relationship struggles so many of us face. Using personal experiences & inspiring lessons to show you that you can change a break free from anxious &/or avoidant patterns in love. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? You can work with my on a 1:1 basis (on zoom) or you can join the Attachment Recovery Gym (an online membership for people doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming secure).

Music by Atch

SoundCloud: bit.ly/AtchSoundCloud

Spotify: bit.ly/AtchSpotify

Instagram: www.instagram.com/atchmusic  

 

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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In conversation with TWO attachment experts. If you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style, this episode is definitely what you are looking for. In this episode of Lessons in Love, we dive deep into Attachment and I ask some of the most asked questions on this topic.

We discuss:

> Is it Ok to lead or should we lean back
> How to let things unfold naturally in dating when you struggle with control
> What does it mean to "go Inwards" when healing anxious and avoidant attachment?
> How to manage uncomfortable feelings you will experience on this journey
> How long does it take to heal and become secure?
> Should you tell your partner that you have a coach/therapist to support your attachment?

If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

 FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered

• Check out Follow Your Fire - A Membership for Women Who Lose Themselves in Love: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com   
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

More about today's Guest:
Elizabeth Gillette, LCSW, is an attachment specialist. In her therapy and coaching practices, she supports her clients in developing secure ways of relating and improving their relationships by breaking old patterns and establishing healthy connections with integrity. Elizabeth believes in the healing power of connection, community, long walks, and warm cups of tea. She lives in Asheville, North Carolina with her family. You can connect with Elizabeth on Instagram @elizabeth.gillette. You can also visit her website ElizabethGillette.com for more information about attachment healing and healthy relationships.

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]

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Ever wondered what it's like to date someone anxious when the other person is avoidant? Or what it's like to date an avoidant when the other is secure? What about avoidant and avoidant?

- Secure & Secure Relationship
- Anxious & Anxious Relationship
- Avoidant & Avoidant Relationship
- Secure & Anxious Relationship
- Secure & Avoidant Relationship

Lessons in Love is Your Podcast for Healing Relationship Patterns & Rediscovering Yourself. If you have a deepening interest in Attachment Styles, you are in the right place with Carly Ann (Follow Carly Ann: @carly.ann_)  

 FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered

• Check out Follow Your Fire - A Membership for Women Who Lose Themselves in Love: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com   
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_  

Support the show

Other useful links:

• Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles
• Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching)
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

• To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: [email protected]