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Anxious Attachment often goes hand in hand with the comparison trap! You compare yourself to their friends, their ex, their family. You compare your relationship to other people's or the ones in the movie. You compare them to your ex... it's endless.

In this episode, Carly Ann talks about why you compare. And I know, you want to know what to do about it too, that's coming in the next episode :)

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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In Conversation with a Break-Up Coach!

Going through a break up and having your heart broken is by far one of the hardest things we face. Whether you want your ex back or feel ready to get you life back, this podcast episode is for you. Carly Ann is joined by Holly Jaskolka. 

In this episode, we discuss common break-up themes such as unhelpful thoughts, losing our dream future, healing mistakes, not getting closure, whether to block your ex, and coping if they move on quickly. We also share practical tips to help you navigate these challenges. Don't miss out on this comprehensive guide to break-up recovery!

Learn More About Holly: www.breakupsandlove.com

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• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Do you have an anxious attachment style? If so, you might struggle with distance and time apart in relationships. People in this community often talk about struggling with no plans in the diary or not knowing where their attachment figure is. Carly Ann has struggled with this herself so this really is an episode of experience. Tune in as Carly Ann discusses six signs that could indicate separation anxiety, including excessive reliance on contact and worrying about your loved one.

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Have you been working hard on healing your anxious attachment and have recently had an episode where it feels like you are back at square one or rock bottom?

It can be one of the most challenging times because you know so much about attachment styles and you're patterns. In this episode, Carly Ann talks through why this happens and gives some gems & ideas on how to help you reset.

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Welcome to Lessons in Attachment. Do you have an anxious attachment & find yourself doubting your relationship, constantly questioning if this is the right person for you? In this episode, Carly Ann offers valuable tips for managing relationship doubts and worries. 

Did you know that feeling uncertain about your relationship leads to 

• jealousy
• hypervigilence
• overthinking

In this epsiode of Lessons in Attachment, Carly Ann addresses the age old quote "when you know you know".


Curiously Triggered: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-Triggered

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• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
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In this week's episode of Lessons in Attachment, we are joined by our guest Kat Taiberg. It's a different episode for you this week if you have an anxious attachment, we are really expanding our horizons when it comes to your healing and happiness.
Kat is talking to us about how your mentrual cycle can support your attachments, day to day life, and lifestyle. This concept blew my mind when I first heard it!

Kat is a Hypnotherapist & Mindset Coach on a mission to guide you to reconnect with your most empowered & liberated self. She believes in bringing the unconscious to the conscious to do the deeper healing work & allow you to build the life of your dreams & drop the cookie cutter approach of how you think you need to live your life.

Kat's Instagram 

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• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Do you have an anxious attachment wiith codependent tendencies? Perhaps you get too attached too qucikly, rely on their validation, worry when you're not together, lose yourself in love, and become the "fixer" or "people pleaser".

In this episode Carly Ann shares 5 truths about detachment, which is essentially the art of being able to love without losing yourself and giving too much.

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Do you have an anxious attachment style? Curious about co-dependency? In this episode, Carly Ann not only talks about co-dependency and how it can develop, she lists 10 clear signs of co-dependency. Listen to this episode if you neglect your own needs, put your happiness in their hands, seek validation, and lose yourself in love. Ready to rediscover yourself?

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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Do you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style and keep finding yourself in the anxious-avoidant trap? Painful isn't it? In this episode of Lessons in Attachment, Carly Ann talks about the different types of avoidant partner you might attract, or the dynamic you find yourself in. 

E.g. do they always come back? Do they always have a wife? Let's get real in this episode and move you towards a secure relationship instead.

We discuss:
> Outline of anxious-avoidant trap
> What they all tend to have in common (that triggers your anxiety)
> Your role in this dynamic
> Different styles of avoidant partners/dynamics
> The hardest avointant get over (IMO)

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

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This week we are joined by Jenelle Annette. Full of wisdom, she supports you to consider practical ways you can live a more secure lifestyle. The conversation ranges from looking at your friendships to your addiction to unavailable relationships.

Including:

• How to deal when you are growing and others aren't
• Where to start when you no longer want to live how you have been
• Dealing with feelings of stuckness
• Nervous system of anxious and avoidant attachment
• Healing practices
• How to get into your body when you're a chronic overthinker
• Creating new pathways and a regulated nervous system
• Can you work on having a conscious relationship when you're single
• Tips for a conscious relationship

Honestly, we discussed ALL of that in one hour - don't miss it. Sooooo many gems for you today.

Other useful links:

• The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN)
• Becoming Secure (Starting Summer 2025)
• FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE
• Follow Carly Ann on Instagram