In this episode Kristin explores how healing from trauma transforms attraction patterns, relationships, and self-awareness. Ultimately making the tiktok saying "what you are attracted to when you are "unhealed" will disgust you once you've healed." She shares personal stories, insights on red flags, and practical steps for healing and growth.

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In this episode, Kristin discusses the concept of dopamine detoxes, exploring their purpose, benefits, and her personal experiences. She emphasizes the importance of reducing instant gratification from high-stimulation activities to improve mental health and emotional well-being. Kristin shares practical steps for implementing a dopamine detox and encourages listeners to customize their approach based on individual needs.

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dopamine detox, mental health, coping mechanisms, instant gratification, self-care, mindfulness, emotional well-being, healthy habits, social media detox, personal growth

In this episode, Kristin discusses the book 'Women Don't Owe You Pretty' by Florence Given, exploring themes of feminism, patriarchy, and self-worth. She shares her personal journey of deconstructing societal norms and beauty standards, emphasizing the importance of women's empowerment and the need to challenge internalized misogyny. The conversation highlights the significance of boundaries, consent, and raising awareness in the next generation, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their authenticity and prioritize their well-being over societal expectations.

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Link to simulation game: https://playspent.org/html/

In this Episode, Rachel Wilford, of the Traumedy Show, joins Kristin and shares her harrowing journey through a toxic relationship with a narcissistic partner, referred to as 'the wolf.' Over the course of ten years, she navigates infidelity, manipulation, and emotional turmoil, ultimately finding the strength to leave and rebuild her life.

Through therapy, community support, and self-discovery, Rachel emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself and the possibility of finding true happiness after trauma. Her story serves as a powerful reminder of resilience and empowerment for those in similar situations.

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In this episode of "Let's Grow Through It," Kristin dives into the controversial aspects of co-parenting, sharing her personal experiences and insights. She outlines 6 key practices that she employs, ranging from her flexible approach to custody arrangements to her decision to maintain civility with her co-parent and his partner (AKA the man who cheated in her marriage and the woman he cheated with.)

Kristin emphasizes the importance of treating co-parenting as a business relationship, focusing solely on their child’s well-being while leaving personal grievances aside. She also discusses the challenges and rewards of sharing her healing journey online, highlighting how it can empower others while sometimes ruffling feathers among those who may not understand her perspective.

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Have you ever told someone an idea of yours and then heard the phrase "that's not realistic" ? Or have you ever let the thought "that's not realistic" hold you back from going after something you want in life? If so, this episode is for you. Kristin shares personal stories about how she navigated societal expectations and the advice of others that often led her away from her true desires. She emphasizes the power of self-belief and the necessity of defining one's own reality, encouraging listeners to pursue their dreams despite external doubts.

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In this episode Kristin shares "miracle questions" and the different ways to use them, their purpose, and how they can help individuals identify their goals and desired changes in life. She shares personal experiences and reflections while using the miracle question technique to work through a challenge in her life right now and how she would have used the question on her journey through divorce and betrayal in the past, to start her healing journey.

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Welcome to Season 4 of Let's Grow Through it! This season the show is introducing 'Book Club" Where at least once a month Kristin will share books she has read that have helped her on her healing and growth journey, or just brought her joy and entertainment.

This episode centers around 'The Miracle Morning' by Hal Elrod, discussing its transformative impact on Kristin's life and how morning routines can enhance personal growth and success. Kristin shares practical tips for implementing the Miracle Morning and emphasizes the importance of aligning with one's future self through daily practices.

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In this conversation, Kristin discusses the concept of radical acceptance and how it can alleviate suffering by encouraging individuals to embrace reality as it is. She emphasizes that suffering often stems from rejecting reality and wishing for different circumstances. By accepting reality, individuals can redirect their energy towards constructive actions and personal growth. She shares personal extreme examples where radical acceptance helped her and everyday examples where radical acceptance can help you. 

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In this episode, Kristin discusses her personal experiences with anxiety and shares five effective hacks for reducing anxiety. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing anxiety, understanding its impact, and implementing practical strategies such as reducing screen time, cutting caffeine, and engaging in physical movement. Kristin also highlights the significance of communication and support in managing anxiety, along with grounding techniques to help regain focus and calmness. 

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Key Words: Anxiety, grounding techniques, five senses game, mental health, mindfulness, stress relief, coping strategies, self-care, breathing exercises