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October 02, 2025 What’s REALLY Stopping Women From Fully Enjoying Pleasure with Dr. Jenn Kennedy
What if women’s pleasure has been misunderstood all along, and what if hidden beliefs and cultural conditioning are the real reasons so many women struggle to fully enjoy it? In this episode, we dive into the unique nature of female pleasure and unpack the stories, shame, and limiting beliefs that hold women back from experiencing the intimacy, joy, and freedom they deserve. From guilt and disconnection to not knowing what you truly want, we explore what needs to shift so you can reclaim your body, your desire, and your confidence. If you’ve ever felt out of touch with your own pleasure, this conversation will guide you back to yourself, with more ease, playfulness, and self-trust.
About the Guest:
Dr. Jenn Kennedy
Expertise: Dr. Jenn Kennedy is a clinical sexologist and licensed marriage and family therapist based in Santa Barbara. She specializes in the areas of relationships, sex, addiction and LGBT. In 2023, Dr. Jenn launched The Pleasure Project, which is dedicated to helping us all have a better sex life. Through this venture, she hosts a podcast called Pleasure Project: Sex & Relationships and offers small group intensives for women and couples. She recently launched a self-guided course and is coming out with a Pleasure Circle workbook in 2025. ?Dr. Jenn has been quoted in Redbook, Reader’s Digest, Forbes Health, DailyOm, Shondaland, Parade, Allure, Yahoo!life and others. She is often tapped to discuss intimacy and sexuality for therapists and physicians.
PleasureProject.Us
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction and Dr. Jenn Kennedy's background
(1:20) Harvard study on relationships and health
(3:08) Influence of beliefs on sex and intimacy
(6:18) Uncovering subconscious beliefs
(9:44) The role of sex toys in therapy and common beliefs
(12:00) Introducing sex toys to couples and their impact on intimacy
(15:41) Challenges in sexual wellness for women
(19:16) Unique challenges for queer women and broader definitions of sex
(23:30) Power play dynamics in queer relationships
(27:37) Attachment styles, eroticism, and healing in relationships
(33:04) Using quizzes to determine attachment styles
(35:05) Final thoughts and encouragement
(35:23) Sponsor: Pleasure Circle course
(36:08) Closing remarks and social media handles
37 min
September 25, 2025 Why Being a Nice Guy Isn’t Helping You | Jason Lange Explains the Truth
Are you struggling with Nice Guy Syndrome? Always putting others first, avoiding conflict, and trying to please everyone, yet still feeling stuck in love, relationships, or your career? In this episode, I’m joined by Jason Lange, men’s embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, to explore the dark side of being the so-called “nice guy.” We dive into why being kind isn’t the problem, but rather the hidden patterns of people-pleasing, neglecting your own needs, and suppressing your true desires. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing everything right, so why am I still not getting the results I want in love and life?” this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you need to stop living on autopilot and start showing up with real power, presence, and connection.
About the Guest:
Jason Lange
Expertise: Jason is a men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men's group for the growth and support opportunities they provide.??Jason is a certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, and has trained and studied with leaders such as John Wineland, Dr. Robert Glover, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, and Ken Wilber.
Grab a free discovery session with Jason at evolutionary.men/apply
Join Jason's Men's Group: https://evolutionary.men/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction of Jason Lange and his background
(1:18) Sponsor: Dr. Diane Mueller's book promotion
(2:20) Welcome and introduction of today's topic
(3:25) Defining nice guy syndrome and its effects
(6:52) Cultural factors influencing nice guy syndrome
(9:47) Exploring characteristics and impacts of nice guy syndrome
(20:20) Link between nice guy syndrome and sexual dysfunction
(23:17) Creating safety and authenticity in sexual relationships
(25:25) Addressing the impact of porn and cultural sex norms
(27:13) Rebooting male mindset and societal stories about sex
(28:08) Jason Lange's free discovery calls and personal story sharing
(29:03) Encouraging open conversations about sex
(29:21) Closing remarks and resources
30 min
September 18, 2025 Why Mediocre Relationships Don’t Work | Honest Talk with Matt and Sheri Salis
Many couples don’t even notice when their relationship starts slipping into routine and mediocrity, until the spark feels completely gone. In this conversation with Matt and Sheri Salis, we uncover the subtle ways partners drift apart, how comfort can quietly turn into disconnection, and why ignoring the small warning signs can put intimacy and passion at risk. You’ll learn what patterns to watch for, why “settling” can feel safe but damaging, and most importantly, how to rekindle excitement, curiosity, and closeness before it’s too late. Whether you’ve been together for years or are simply committed to keeping your relationship strong, this video will inspire you to break free from autopilot and build a deeper, more intentional love with your partner.
About the Guest:
Matt Salis and Sheri Salis
Expertise: Matt Salis is a behavioral health researcher and writer with a masters in sexual health, and Sheri Salis is the star of the Untoxicated Podcast. Together, they have recovered individually, and grown their relationship, from Matt's ten years of active alcoholism. Sheri loves her kids and her cats more than Matt, but Matt is gaining on the cats.
https://un-toxicated.com/
https://soberandunashamed.com/books/
https://thestigma.org/echoes-of-recovery/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction to mediocrity and desire discrepancy in relationships
(0:18) Introduction of Matt and Sherry Salis
(0:38) Emotional safety, playfulness, and doing the work
(1:25) Sponsor: Preorder Dr. Diane Mueller's book for bonuses
(2:28) Impact of alcoholism on relationships and Matt and Sherry's journey
(6:33) Sobriety, intimacy challenges, and obligatory sex perspectives
(12:25) Repairing intimacy and rebuilding trust
(19:08) Deep dive into emotional safety and intimacy
(23:42) The role of fun and playfulness in relationships
(25:41) Part two topics and libidocode.com quiz
(26:34) Sherry and Matt's podcast mention
(27:04) Final thoughts from Matt Salis
(28:10) Closing remarks and outro
29 min
September 11, 2025 Why Secure Lovers Thrive (and Others Struggle in Silence) With Aubrey Aust
Some couples seem to grow stronger and more connected over time, while others quietly drift apart and struggle without ever addressing the issues. In this conversation, we explore why emotional security is the key difference between thriving partnerships and those that suffer in silence. You’ll discover how secure attachment fosters trust, open communication, and lasting intimacy, and why insecure patterns like avoidance or anxiety often lead to conflict and disconnection. We will also share practical insights for breaking unhealthy cycles, building deeper emotional safety, and creating a relationship where both partners feel seen, valued, and supported. If you want to understand what truly makes love last, this discussion will give you the tools and clarity to strengthen your bond.
About the Guest:
**Aubrey Aust **
Expertise: Aubrey Aust is a researcher, writer, and master’s candidate at NYU, where she studies relational psychology and philosophy. Her work explores how we build emotional safety, experience intimacy, and reconnect with desire. Drawing on attachment theory, somatic psychology, and the ethics of care, Aubrey focuses on the concept of erotic intelligence: the emotional and embodied wisdom that helps us feel alive in our relationships and in our own skin.
Website: www.aubreyaust.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aubrey__aust/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Aubrey Aust's background and research in relational psychology
(1:04) Sponsor: Preorder bonuses for Dr. Diane Mueller's book
(2:06) Introduction and overview of today's episode topics
(3:34) Why does desire change over time and defining its evolution
(7:06) Understanding changes in needs, preferences, and attachment patterns
(15:29) Sponsor: Preorder bonuses for Dr. Diane Mueller's book
(16:09) Relational safety and communicating needs in intimate relationships
(21:09) Sponsor: Quickie Kit by Phoria
(21:46) Authenticity, building a nondemanding relationship, and tuning into your body’s needs
(25:14) Preview of part two: Safety and disconnection in intimacy
(26:20) Closing remarks, thank yous, and social media handles
27 min
September 04, 2025 The Hidden Link Between Pelvic Pain and ED (And How to Fix It) with Dr. Reshma Salvi
Learn how to fix pelvic pain and erectile dysfunction naturally with this one simple yet powerful technique! Pelvic pain and erectile dysfunction can be debilitating and affect many aspects of your life. But what if you could overcome these issues with one simple solution? In this video, we'll explore the surprising connection between pelvic pain and erectile dysfunction, and how addressing one key area can bring relief and improvement to both. Say goodbye to pelvic pain and hello to a healthier, happier you!
About the Guest:
Dr. Reshma Salvi
Expertise: Dr. Reshma Salvi is a Doctor of Physical Therapy with over 15 years of experience practicing in Michigan. A certified pelvic floor specialist through the APTA, Dr. Reshma Salvi also holds advanced training in pregnancy and postpartum care. Drawing on a strong clinical background, treatment plans are thoughtfully tailored to each client’s individual needs and goals, ensuring a personalized and effective approach to care.
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Here is how you get ahold of Dr. Reshma: www.coreandbeyond.com and at Instagram : core.beyond_pelvicpt
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Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction to pelvic floor health and its impact on intimacy
(1:15) Book preorder announcement with bonuses
(4:17) Anatomy and dysfunction of the pelvic floor
(10:59) Addressing pain during sex related to pelvic floor issues
(14:20) Debunking misconceptions and myths about pelvic floor health
(22:09) The role of professional assessment in treating pelvic floor dysfunction
(26:12) Preview of part two with Dr. Reshma Salvi and contact information
(29:29) Encouragement to share the podcast and closing remarks
31 min
August 28, 2025 Unsexy Habits That Quietly Ruin Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea
Are you unintentionally sabotaging your relationship or losing your libido without knowing why? In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Emily Jamea to talk about the subtle, unsexy habits that can quietly destroy emotional and physical intimacy in long-term relationships. These aren’t dramatic blow-ups or obvious red flags but small, everyday behaviors that slowly build walls between you and your partner. We unpacked why these habits form, how they affect your connection over time, and what you can do to turn things around. If you’ve been feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck in a rut, this conversation offers real, practical ways to reignite desire and rebuild closeness. Whether you’re in a committed relationship or just want to better understand how to keep love and passion alive, this video is a powerful starting point.
About the Guest:
Dr. Emily Jamea
Expertise: award-winning sex and relationship therapist and the USA Today best-selling author of Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion. ?Emily speaks nationally and internationally to a diverse range of audiences including educators, health and mental health professionals, executive and corporate groups, and the general public. Her expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, and more. She offers online workshops as part of her mission to make her knowledge accessible to everyone. Dr. Jamea is an award-winning columnist for Healthy Women. She hosts the Love and Libido podcast and writes for Psychology Today. She posts across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. ?In her free time, Emily enjoys spending time with her husband and children, traveling as much as possible, and salsa dancing and painting when she gets the chance.
Receive hundreds of dollars worth of bonus material, including access to my Anatomy of Desire Masterclass, The Intimacy Building Discussion Deck, and the 30-Day Intimacy Challenge with qualified book purchases. Visit emilyjamea.com and click Anatomy of Desire to learn more.
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Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Impact of multitasking on sexual focus and enhancing sensory experiences
(1:13) Sponsor: Preorder Dr. Diane Mueller's book for free bonuses
(2:16) Introduction of guest Dr. Emily Jamea and discussing disembodiment
(3:35) Exploring the prevalence and historical context of distraction in sexual experiences
(8:35) Tips for practicing embodiment and recognizing lack of embodiment
(13:15) Sponsor: Preorder Dr. Diane Mueller's book for free bonuses
(14:10) Slowing down for better sexual experiences and non-sexual activities as foreplay
(18:03) Flow state science, setting intentions, and understanding transient hypofrontality in sex
(24:48) Vulnerability in relationships, accessing Dr. Emily Jamea’s book and resources
(26:38) Closing remarks and subscription reminder
27 min
August 21, 2025 Why Great Sex Dies When You Stop Talking To Your Partner with Blair Dunkley
Are you feeling disconnected from your partner, and is it affecting your physical intimacy? Emotional disconnection is a silent killer of relationships, and it can lead to a decline in physical intimacy. In this video, we'll explore the reasons why emotional disconnection destroys your physical intimacy and what you can do to prevent it. From lack of communication to unresolved conflicts, we'll dive into the common causes of emotional disconnection and provide you with practical tips to strengthen your emotional bond with your partner. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, this video will help you understand the importance of emotional connection in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling physical intimacy. So, watch until the end to learn how to reignite the spark in your relationship and build a deeper emotional connection with your partner
About the Guest:
Blair Dunkley
Expertise: Blair is one of the world's leading Psychological Profilers. In minutes, he is able to tell a person a great deal about themselves with a high degree of specificity and accuracy. In his decades as the co-founder, head of behavioral research, and master trainer at Life Skills College, Blair developed Mind Models and counseling methodologies that have proven highly effective for overcoming even treatment resistant depression, phobias, and anxiety and he has worked extensively with couples and individuals on intimacy, communication, and self-confidence within relationships.
Free gift: https://go.mindmodelmentor.com/3e-gift
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blairdunkley1/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theblairdunkleyexperience
Free Masterclass on the "3 E's": A Mind Model Stack that will enable you to dramatically improve your communication and self-confidence in hours rather than years: https://go.mindmodelmentor.com/3e-gift
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction to language based profiling
(0:38) Applying BHAG to relationships
(1:14) Sponsor: Dr. Diane Mueller's book and bonuses
(2:16) Introduction of guest Blair Dunkley
(3:12) Explanation of language based profiling concepts
(5:47) Impact of "why" questions and self-perception
(11:33) Practical applications in relationships
(18:52) Sponsor: Dr. Diane Mueller's book and bonuses
(19:21) Specific compliments and communication in intimacy
(28:10) Corporate communication methods' impact on personal relationships
(32:43) The importance of curiosity and asking the right questions
(34:18) Critique of "Why" concept and framing questions for better intimacy
(36:33) Blair Dunkley's free masterclass on mind models
(37:57) Evaluation versus judgment in self-improvement
(39:40) Accessing Blair Dunkley's resources
(40:12) Closing remarks
41 min
August 14, 2025 What Every Woman Should Know About Her Desire Levels with Dr. Iris Crawford
Are you struggling with low libido and wondering if hormones could be the answer? In this video, we're diving into the world of hormone regulation and how it can impact your sex drive. From understanding the role of testosterone and estrogen to exploring natural ways to boost your libido, we're covering it all. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or simply feel more confident in your own skin, this video is for you. So sit back, relax, and let's dive into the world of hormones and libido.
About the Guest:
Dr. Iris Crawford
Expertise: Is a naturopathic physician, national women’s health and hormone expert, author, and speaker, widely known as The Hormone Boss. She earned her medical degree from the National University of Natural Medicine in Portland, Oregon, and holds a Bachelor of Science in Holistic Nutrition from Bastyr University in Kenmore, Washington.?As the Founder and CEO of her practice, Dr. Crawford is a national leader in women’s health. She understands firsthand the ambition, sacrifice, and stress that come with being a high-achieving professional woman. With her expertise in hormone health, she also recognizes the profound impact that stress has on hormonal balance—particularly during mid-life.?Dr. Crawford is dedicated to helping professional women leaders in perimenopause and menopause double their energy and sharpen their focus by transforming their hormone health. Her goal is to help them reclaim their passion, stamina, and drive so they can continue making a powerful impact in their fields.?She developed a signature approach that targets the root causes of hormone symptoms—one that goes far beyond traditional hormone replacement therapy.?In pursuit of her mission to revolutionize the way women receive healthcare, Dr. Crawford founded The Empowered Women’s Health Project—a movement committed to leveling the playing field for women leaders and advancing a more effective, empowering model of care.
Free Consultation with Dr. Crawford, referred by Dr. Mueller: https://go.hormone-boss.com/referrals-3661-2957
Main website: https://www.hormone-boss.com/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Impact of stress on hormone production and its effects on libido
(3:45) Hormonal health, stress recognition, and adrenal fatigue symptoms
(10:03) Stress management, resilience, and hormone myths
(16:56) Hormone health in aging and perimenopause
(20:19) Hormone replacement therapy approaches and physiological dosing
(27:24) Preview of part two, free consultation, and global services
(28:51) Closing remarks and outro
30 min
August 07, 2025 Can Kink Improve Your Relationship? | Real Talk with Amanda Dames
What if exploring kink could actually improve your relationship? In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Diane Mueller and Amanda Dames unpack the surprising ways that kink can deepen emotional connection, enhance communication, and build stronger trust between partners. Whether you're completely new to kink or simply curious about how it fits into a long-term relationship, this video offers valuable insights from the powerful role of boundaries and consent to practical tips for introducing kink in a safe, respectful way. You’ll also discover how embracing your authentic desires can spark more passion, satisfaction, and a deeper sense of intimacy. It’s a must-watch for anyone ready to rethink what a healthy, adventurous love life can truly look like.
About the Guest:
Amanda Dames -Kink Consultant & Relationship Coach
Known as The Kink Consultant, she offers guidance rooted in her personal journey of embracing sexuality and self-acceptance. By exploring the origins of her own kinks and core desires, she developed a transformative approach that now helps individuals and couples connect with their authentic erotic selves.
A Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, she supports clients in cultivating holistic, shame-free relationships with intimacy. Her consulting method is uniquely tailored—rejecting one-size-fits-all solutions in favor of personalized, consent-driven exploration.
Through compassionate, judgment-free coaching, she empowers others to discover their own paths to fulfillment in love, intimacy, and kink.
Get Amanda's Goodies: Speaking your desires with confidence (a worksheet to help couples introduce kink and explore their fantasies together) can be found at https://www.amandadames.com/
Our Advocacy:
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Timestamps:
(0:00) Understanding and communicating about kink in relationships
(1:14) Sponsor: My Libido Doc
(1:57) Introduction of Amanda Dames and defining kink and fetishes
(4:27) The emotional and psychological aspects of kink
(8:03) Normalizing kink and exploring new sexual interests
(12:30) Stigma, media influence and starting conversations about kink
(14:33) Sponsor message
(15:26) Discussing sex with vulnerability and hiring a coach for nuanced resistance
(18:52) Fantasy vs reality in kink and practical steps for planning fantasies
(21:54) The importance of post-experience care and general misconceptions about kink
(27:12) Amanda's parting advice and closing remarks
30 min
July 31, 2025 What's REALLY Killing Intimacy in Our Relationships Today? with Laura How
In today's society, we often hear that intimacy is dying in relationships, but what's really behind this decline? Is it the rise of social media, the increase in screen time, or something much deeper? In this video, we'll explore the often-overlooked reasons why intimacy is fading in modern relationships and what we can do to revive it. From communication breakdowns to unrealistic expectations, we'll dive into the real factors eroding intimacy and provide practical tips on how to strengthen your connection with your partner. If you're ready to reignite the spark in your relationship, watch until the end to discover the surprising truth about what's really undermining intimacy.
About the Guest:
Laura How
Expertise: Laura is a relationship counsellor and content creator from the UK. She also coaches couples all over the world and believes that fulfilling relationships come as a result of both partners being willing to prioritise their relationship and routinely extend themselves to meet the other’s needs. It is this spirit of mutual generosity along with a fearless dedication to truth and transparency that keeps couples together.
Website: https://laurahow.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/
Our Advocacy:
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
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Timestamps:
(0:00) The foundations of healthy societies and our role as sexual beings
(1:05) Sponsor: My Libido Doc
(1:41) Relationship insights with Laura Howe
(2:42) Lifelong marriage happiness strategies
(6:12) Understanding long-term love and success
(10:12) Visualizing relationship dynamics with a pie chart
(12:22) Sponsor Message: Women's orgasm statistics
(13:20) Prioritizing for a fulfilling relationship
(18:47) Reigniting your sex life and building intimacy
(24:05) Balancing comfort and motivation in relationships
(26:23) Connecting with Laura Howe
28 min

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If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening…