Life Coach BFF Show: Thrive in Midlife for Women Over 50 | Mindset & Wellness

Hi Gorgeous!  In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey welcomes the lively and honest Sam McCoy, known for her Instagram presence 'Carpools and Country Clubs'. They dive into the complexities of making friends as an adult, especially after moving, and the challenges women face in supporting each other both online and in real life.

Sam shares her candid experiences and practical tips for self-care, including her daily non-negotiables, and discusses the importance of maintaining personal hobbies and passions even amidst a busy family life. They also touch upon the unexpected support from strangers versus known friends and explore some of Sam's biggest, wildest dreams for the future.

Thanks for joining the conversation!

Connect with Sam McCoy on Instagram @carpoolsandcountryclubs

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:29 Meet Sam McCoy: Heart and Humor 02:08 Challenges of Making Friends as an Adult

03:42 Navigating Established Friend Groups

08:16 The Birth of Carpools and Country Clubs

09:51 Dealing with Online Criticism and Support

20:20 Sam's Daily Non-Negotiables

25:06 Encouragement for Aspiring Content Creators

27:25 Sam's Vision Board and Big Dreams

30:48 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Navigating Midlife Overreactions: Stories and Strategies

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey shares a personal story about overreacting to her dog Kendal's behavior, highlighting how midlife can change how we react to stress.

Heather discusses hormonal changes, life experiences, changing family roles, and the importance of self-care. She offers practical strategies for managing emotional reactions, such as the STOP technique, self-awareness journaling, physical activity, self-compassion, prioritizing sleep, and seeking support. Heather emphasizes that these changes are part of the journey and encourages listeners to reflect and grow with grace.

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show

00:36 A Scary Incident with Kendall

02:58 Understanding Midlife Reactions

06:45 Strategies to Manage Overreactions

09:52 Reflecting on Personal Growth

10:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Navigating Sleep Challenges and the Benefits of Progesterone in Midlife

In this episode, we explore the common issue of sleep disturbances faced by midlife women, especially in their forties and fifties.

Host Heather Pettey, a certified life coach and mother of four, dives into the complexities of handling sleep issues with guest Dr. Carol Lynn. They discuss practical solutions, including the importance of maintaining good sleep habits, such as keeping a cool and dark bedroom, using cooling pajamas, and avoiding phone screens before bed. The conversation also highlights the benefits of bioidentical progesterone for improving sleep quality and reducing symptoms like brain fog and irritability. Heather and Dr. Lynn share personal anecdotes and emphasize the importance of tailored hormone treatments for well-being in midlife.

Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

Linkedin

Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Introduction to Sleep Issues in Midlife

00:21 Welcome to the Tribe 01:48 Personal Experiences with Sleep Problems

03:11 Tips for Better Sleep 04:34

The Role of Progesterone in Sleep

07:22 Progesterone Dosage and Side Effects

09:57 Progesterone Delivery Methods

10:41 Progesterone and Miscarriages

11:49 Long-term Use of Progesterone

15:23 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement

Hi friends, today we're overcoming guilt and prioritizing self-care in midlife on the Life Coach BFF Show.

In this episode, we explore the challenges midlife women face, especially moms of teens and young adults, in prioritizing self-care.

The host, Heather Pettey,  shares a listener's story about feeling lost and overwhelmed and offers strategies to start putting oneself first, despite years of self-neglect.

The episode includes scientific data on the mental health struggles women face and shares inspiring anecdotes like Susan Lister Locke's journey to a fulfilling second career. Practical tips for self-care, scheduling 'me time', reconnecting with passions, and building supportive networks are discussed.

Listeners are encouraged to take actionable steps towards a more joyful and balanced life. Homework is assigned to prioritize self-care and reach out to support others in the community.

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Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Introduction and Free Mindset Reset Tool

00:40 Welcome to Midlife Moxie Podcast

02:06 Overcoming Guilt and Putting Yourself First

03:30 The Struggles of Prioritizing Self-Care

05:03 Susan's Inspiring Story

06:46 Practical Tips for Self-Care

08:28 Decluttering for a Fresh Start

09:07 Supporting Each Other Through Tough Seasons

10:11 Final Thoughts and Homework

12:13 Upcoming Episode Teaser

Transform Your Life: How to Stop Taking Things Personally In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey, a certified life coach, discusses the transformative power of not taking things personally.

Heather shares a personal story of how she learned this lesson the hard way and offers practical tips for letting go of the weight of others' words and actions.

Key takeaways include breathing before reacting, gaining perspective, focusing on what matters, and practicing self-compassion.

Heather also emphasizes the importance of supportive connections and invites listeners to join her community for further encouragement and guidance. Don't miss this empowering episode filled with encouragement, practical advice, and a bit of laughter.

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show!

00:34 The Power of Not Taking Things Personally

02:02 A Personal Story: Learning the Hard Way

03:59 Why You Shouldn't Take Things Personally

04:51 Practical Tips to Stop Taking Things Personally

07:29 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Avoiding Burnout and Finding Balance in Midlife In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey and menopause expert Dr. Carol Lynn discuss the prevalent issue of burnout, particularly among Gen Xers. They share personal anecdotes, strategies for staying energized, and tips for setting boundaries and managing stress.

The conversation also touches on the importance of restructuring one's day, reframing stress, and maintaining positivity. The episode encourages listeners to set hard boundaries and incorporate stress-relieving activities like meditation, exercise, and hobbies.

Heather and Dr. Carol also mention the impact of gardening and grounding, and the importance of relaxation techniques like massage. The episode wraps up with a call to action to avoid burnout and create a balanced, joyful midlife.

Mentioned in this episode:

Stretch Youtube Video

Book- The Miracle Morning - Hal Elrod

Free 60 Minute Mindset Reset

202 | Overcoming Midlife Burnout: A Conversation with Dr. Eric Recker

Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn

Linkedin

Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Speaker Request Here

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome Back to Life Coach, BFF Show!

00:35 Introduction to Burnout

01:52 Lighthearted Banter and Exercise Talk

04:17 The Importance of Setting Boundaries

10:49 Erasing Negativity and Staying Positive

11:58 Resetting Your Day for Positivity

12:36 Restructuring Your Day for Productivity

14:03 Managing Burnout and Stress

15:37 Reframing Stress and Finding New Hobbies

17:47 The Importance of Grounding and Nature

20:02 Podcast Wrap-Up and Final Thoughts

Welcome back, midlife mavens, to episode 214 of the Life Coach BFF Show! I'm your host, Heather Pettey, and I'm thrilled to be joined by my fabulous co-host, Dr. Carol Lynn. Today, we're in for a treat as we welcome Dr. Amy Ly, a board-certified neurologist and medical acupuncturist who's about to blow our minds with her unique blend of Eastern and Western medicine.

Dr. Ly isn't just any physician – she's a fourth-generation healer in her family's lineage of acupuncturists and Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioners. Imagine growing up learning these ancient healing arts from your grandfather and father! 

Get ready to explore the fascinating intersection of neurology, acupuncture, and midlife wellness. We'll be diving into how Dr. Ly's integrated approach can help with everything from hot flashes to headaches, and maybe even turn back the clock on some of those pesky midlife symptoms.

So grab your favorite cup of tea (or coffee, we won't judge!), get comfy, and prepare to be amazed. Let's dive into this enlightening conversation with Dr. Amy Ly!

Connect with Dr. Amy Ly:

https://www.drly.net/

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Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn

Linkedin

Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

•Revive Menopause Retreats for Midlife Women: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:19 Meet Dr. Amy Ly: A Unique Healer

01:53 Neurological Changes in Midlife

02:19 The Role of Vitamin D

03:11 Neck and Shoulder Tension

03:55 Integrating Neurology and Acupuncture

05:06 The Shift Towards Holistic Medicine

06:56 Acupuncture for Common Ailments

09:16 Acupuncture and Sleep Improvement

11:17 Acupuncture for Hot Flashes

13:07 Acupuncture and Weight Management

14:54 How Acupuncture Works

16:40 Dr. Amy Ly's Daily Routine 1

8:58 The Importance of Whole Foods

21:11 Understanding Chinese Medicine

24:09 The Role of Herbs in Healing

27:06 Integrating Acupuncture and Neurology

28:41 How to Get an Appointment

35:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Joel Bennett's Southern Hospitality: Reinventing Small Town Living in New Albany and

Ripley, Mississippi.

In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosted by Heather Pettey, listeners are invited to explore the charming southern towns of New Albany and Ripley, Mississippi.

Heather shares a unique story about her impromptu phone call to the New Albany Chamber of Commerce, leading to new friendships with Jan Cossitt and Joel Bennett. Jan and Joel share their exciting projects, including Joel's ambitious Henderson Building redevelopment in New Albany, which will feature a restaurant, hotel, spa, and speakeasy.

They also discuss Ripley's Inn on the Square, a boutique hotel in a historic building that Joel owns. Whether you're considering small-town living or seeking midlife inspiration, this episode offers a blend of southern charm, community spirit, and innovative ventures.

Link here to tour the Inn on the Square on Youtube

Follow Joel Bennett on TikToc

Contact Joel:

Phone

(601) 941-7934

Email: [email protected]

Investment Opportunity:

$825,000

Mentioned in this episode:

Revive Menopause Retreats for Midlife Women: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show

00:38 A Day Trip to New Albany

01:26 Meet Jan Coset and Joel Bennett

01:43 Exploring Joel's Ambitious Project

02:02 The Tanglefoot Trail and Small Town Perks

05:04 Lunch at Tallahatchie Gourmet

06:08 Joel's Restaurant and Speakeasy

14:32 Ripley Feed and Seed Inn

21:29 A Change of Lifestyle in Ripley

28:19 Upcoming REVIVE Retreat

29:39 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Hey Friend, welcome back to your tribe! In episode 212 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey provides empowering support for midlife women navigating complex life challenges like wellness, self-development, parenting, menopause, and career transitions.

Heather shares advice on creating consistent daily habits, from exercise to self-care, stress management, and nurturing relationships.

She reads a listener letter from Vicky in California, offering advice on managing interactions with an unpleasant friend’s spouse.

Heather also discusses the importance of supportive systems over willpower for habit formation, drawing insights from studies and expert recommendations.

She emphasizes the role of consistency in achieving long-term success and happiness.

The episode concludes with exciting news about the upcoming Revive Retreat and the Midlife Mindset.

Mentioned in this episode:

Revive Menopause Retreats for Midlife Women: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

Reset. 00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show

01:50 Listener's Letter: Dealing with a Difficult Friend's Spouse

06:05 The Power of Consistency

09:58 Strategies for Building Consistent Habits

18:02 Exciting News: Revive Retreat Announcement

19:33 Wrapping Up: Subscribe and Stay Connected

 Welcome back, friend, to Life Coach BFF Show! In episode 211, Heather Pettey welcomes back Dr. Carol Lynn, a renowned menopause mentor, to discuss the crucial topic of heart health, especially for women experiencing menopause.

The discussion begins with personal anecdotes about Heart Health Month in February and transitions into alarming statistics about heart disease in women. The episode explores the effects of menopause on heart health, emphasizing the protective role of estrogen on cardiovascular function and the importance of regular health screenings.

Heather and Dr. Lynn also discuss symptoms of heart disease that women should be aware of, and stress the importance of lifestyle changes, diet adjustments (like following a Mediterranean diet), and stress management techniques. The conversation touches on practical steps such as regular exercise, the benefits of supplements, and the significance of dental health in preventing heart disease. Finally, they cover the relationship between menopause symptoms and heart health when considering hormone replacement therapy, offering practical and individualized advice for listeners.

Connect with Dr. Lynn:

Linkedin

Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

Revive Retreat: https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/reviveretreatsformidlifewomen

Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

Email: [email protected]

Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

*Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

00:00 Welcome Back to the Show

01:46 Heart Health Awareness Month

02:40 Personal Stories of Heart Health

04:52 Menopause and Heart Health

08:59 Unique Risk Factors for Women

10:40 Stress and Heart Health

17:13 Monitoring Heart Health

21:05 Diet and Supplements for Heart Health

22:32 Generational Eating Habits

23:47 Impact of Stress on Heart Health

26:12 Managing Stress: Techniques and Personal Stories

31:05 Heart Disease Treatments for Midlife Women

33:14 Oral Health and Heart Disease Connection

35:25 Menopause, Hormone Therapy, and Heart Health

39:51 Encouragement and Final Thoughts