Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Are you finding it difficult to maintain romantic connections? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your relationships. While you may be trying your best to impress and attract men, certain behaviors can inadvertently push them away.

Here are seven common mistakes women make that can drive men away

Originally Aired: Dec. 07, 2024

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You've gotten really good at flirting. Maybe a little too good. Now guys are always approaching you, always wanting to chat you up, and you're thinking, "How do I turn this off?" Here's the truth: if you're going to be out there flirting and meeting men everywhere, you need an equally strong skill to turn away the wrong ones. Otherwise, you're just opening yourself up to confusion, frustration, and months wasted on emotionally unavailable guys. That's why we created the Anti-Flirt Method.

In this episode, Gary and I break down exactly how to spot the men you don't want and how to discourage them quickly, kindly, and clearly. Use your nos to protect your yes.

If you want the full step-by-step process for finding real love, go to https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtual and get our free 7 Little Love Steps training. And if you're ready for our team to guide and protect you every step of the way, head to https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin to speak with one of our love strategists.

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He wants to take a break. Those words can pierce right through you, and I get it - the confusion, the pain, the endless loop of "what if I'd done something different?" But here's the thing: you don't have to sit in that pain for months or years. You don't have to let his inability to commit derail your entire love life.

I'm going to give you four powerful steps to move forward, including one that might feel counterintuitive but actually works faster than anything else. This isn't about wallowing or waiting until you magically feel "ready." It's about taking your power back and going out there to find someone who's actually right for you.

If you want help getting back out there and attracting the committed relationship you deserve, head over to loveapply.com and apply for a complimentary love strategy session. We'll walk with you every step of the way.

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Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest podcast to discover the secrets to finding lasting love.

Originally Aired: Oct 12, 2024

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I hear this every single week: "Adam, I only attract narcissists. The good guys just don't exist in my area." And every single time, I tell my clients the same thing - you're wrong. The good guys ARE there. You're just filtering them out before you even give them a chance.

Maybe it's because his profile pictures are terrible (spoiler: most guys' are). Maybe he talks too much about work on the first date because he's nervous.
Or maybe - and this is the one that gets me - he's actually consistent and reliable, which somehow feels boring compared to the hot-and-cold drama you're used to.

If you keep choosing the wrong men and want to finally break that pattern, I've created a free seminar called the Male Mind Map that breaks down exactly why men pull away and how to filter for genuine character instead of surface-level charm. Head to https://go.lovestrategies.com/map to watch it now.

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So how do you know if a man is falling in love with you? Here's the real deal: it has very little to do with his words and much more about his behavior. In this week's episode, Dr. Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce reveal the true signs that a man is falling in love.

Originally aired: Oct. 17, 2022

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Look, I get it - you're a high achiever who crushes it at work. But here's the problem: that same intense, outcome-focused energy that makes you successful in the boardroom? It absolutely kills the vibe in the bedroom.

In this episode, Gary and I are breaking down 8 psychology-backed strategies to help you step out of hustle mode and into real sensuality and connection. From hacking your hormones to creating the right environment, we're covering the mindset shifts that make intimacy 10 times better. Plus, we're revealing the actual research on how often couples should have sex - and spoiler alert, it's probably not what you think.

If you're ready to dive deeper into this work and want personalized guidance, head over to loveapply.com to apply for a complimentary love strategy session with my team.

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You’ve been dating for a few months, and everything is GREAT. The start was amazing, and things have only gotten better. You’ve had the Define The Relationship (DTR) talk and are officially exclusive. 

You’ve made it to exactly where you want to be.

But wait... Not so fast. Things have changed. The initial excitement has settled down.

He’s not as attentive as he used to be. He seems different...he’s pulling away.  Suddenly, there’s a lot to worry about.

Is this a real problem or just a typical cool down period?

Here are 3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away

Originally aired: May. 26, 2024

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Look, I get it. You've been the person everyone leans on - the caretaker, the achiever, the one who always puts herself last. And now you're wondering if real love is even possible at this stage of your life. You've convinced yourself you're not worthy of it, or maybe you've just forgotten how to let someone in.

But here's what I know: investing in yourself isn't selfish. It's essential. You went to college, built a career, supported everyone around you. So why not invest in finding the relationship you actually deserve? My clients who take that leap - who show up, do the work, and trust the process - are the ones building real, lasting partnerships.

If you're ready to stop settling and start attracting a high-quality man who values you, take my free quiz at lovequiz.com to discover exactly what's blocking you from finding love.

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Tired of those awkward first date silences? We've got the ultimate trick that promises to make any conversation sizzle. Uncover the simple yet powerful art of mirroring in today’s brand new podcast.

Originally aired: Sep, 30, 2023

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