Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Tired of those awkward first date silences? We've got the ultimate trick that promises to make any conversation sizzle. Uncover the simple yet powerful art of mirroring in today’s brand new podcast.

Originally aired: Sep, 30, 2023

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In today’s podcast, we're going beyond the usual clichés and explore four key traits that men genuinely desire but are often overlooked. These traits aren't just about attracting men; they are qualities that anyone can cultivate for their own personal growth and happiness.

Originally aired: Dec. 14, 2023

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Ghosting hurts - no question. It feels like rejection, and your brain spirals: What did I do wrong? Why wasn't I enough? But here's the reframe that changes everything: ghosting isn't a sign you're losing. It's proof your standards are working.

When you raise your standards, you naturally repel low-investment people. They see you won't settle, won't chase, won't bend - and they disappear. Good. That's the system working. Emotionally healthy men don't run from standards; they lean in. The wrong people exit fast. The right person will stay.

If you want help protecting yourself through this process and building that ironclad mindset, head to loveapply.com and apply for a love strategy session. We'll show you exactly how to stop chasing and start choosing.

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When you're single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. So, in today's podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski breaks down the The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence

Originally aired: May. 30, 2024

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I'll be straight with you: talking yourself into the wrong guy doesn't happen because you're desperate or naive. It happens because you're empathetic, capable, and actually really good at making things work. But those same strengths can become your biggest trap when you're dating someone who isn't showing up the way you deserve.

In this episode, Gary and I break down the 4 subtle patterns that make you excuse bad behavior, chase potential instead of reality, and slowly erase yourself to make a relationship work. These aren't the obvious red flags—they're the quiet justifications that keep you stuck for months or even years with the wrong man.

If you've ever wondered why you keep choosing guys who don't meet your standards, take the free Attraction Archetype Quiz at attractiontype.com. It'll show you exactly why you're ignoring red flags and where to put your energy so you can finally open your heart to the right guy.

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What if I told you there are incredibly simple yet effective techniques to show interest without uttering a single word? Each of these methods is grounded in scientific research and can catch the attention of someone new or signal your interest to someone you're already seeing.

Originally aired: Jan. 05, 2024

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A man's desire is not proof of his devotion. That single misread is where the confusion, the "slow fade," and the self-blame begin.

Once you understand the evolutionary wiring behind male dating behavior, you stop taking his disappearing act personally and start seeing the difference between a man who wants your attention and a man who is ready for your life.

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If you keep decoding mixed signals and second-guessing your standards, this one is for you.

I wrote about the quieter, behavioral signs that a man has already decided whether you're short-term or long-term, and how to actually see them.

No scripts, no games, just a clearer way to read his effort, his calendar, and your own confusion.

If you're ready to stop negotiating with "busy" men and start honoring what you actually want, then listen to this.

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Are you ready to dive into the minds of men and discover what truly captures our attention? If so, check out today's podcast: 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Massively Attractive.

Originally aired: Nov. 26, 2023

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Brilliant at work, baffled by dating? For a woman who thinks for a living, "just flirt more" is not advice, it is an insult.

In this episode we break down how high-achieving women turn a discouraging love life around without going casual or lowering their standards.

Why pacing, structure, and one simple mindset shift matter far more than perfect photos or the right text.

If part of you is ready to give up on love, and part of you refuses to, this one is for you.

Delicia almost swiped past the man she's about to marry. Watch our free 7 Little Love Steps training to learn the strategy that changed how she dated: https://go.lovestrategies.com/virtual

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