Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self Love Podcast for Women

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  • #187: Clean Up Your Digital Space(s) Before the New Year

    In this episode, Mary shares 6 ways to declutter your digital spaces.

    You will learn how to…

    • declutter your phone, computer and social media
    • better manage your email
    • organize important information
    • Remember: Self-love demands that we properly shift from one role to another, acknowledging that digital decluttering is not just about organizing our spaces but reclaiming our focus, reducing stress, and embracing a more intentional and organized use of technology. It’s a journey towards improved well-being in a world filled with constant digital noise.

      If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

      • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

      • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

        Mentioned In This Episode...

        How to Remember Your Life: https://youtu.be/GLy4VKeYxD4?si=JcMxOl_qkeSrxedr
        Sign up for Notion: https://notion.grsm.io/zb63msx9ep0n


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        28 min
      • #186: 5 Habits that Have Made Me a Better Person (Encore)

        In this solo encore episode, Mary shares 5 habits that are good for mental health and personal development AKA habits that might make you a better person!

        Remember: take what you need and leave what you don‘t!

        If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media!

        And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

        • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

        • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.


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          25 min
        • #185: Feeling Behind in Life? Listen to This.

          The reason you feel behind in life is because you’re comparing yourself to others who seem to be ahead of you.

          When you compare yourself to people who graduated, got jobs, got married, reproduced, bought cars and houses and vacations, not only are you doing a disservice to yourself, but you’re also contributing to the narrative that “success” is measured by external achievements rather than inner fulfillment.

          Here’s how to stop comparing yourself to others and start accepting that you are exactly where you need to be.

          Let this episode be a refreshing, encouraging reminder that feeling lost, directionless, or behind in life just means that you are taking the necessary time to pave your own way.

          Mentioned In This Episode...

          Get Your Self-Love TEA: https://maryscupoftea.com/tea
          Ep. #163: Feeling Lost? Listen to this: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6yFlPHOd6psTmAu1iJh97L?si=eUtcRPv3S-CwNULANGmiEw
          Ep. #180 on Detaching Self-Worth from Productivity: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4tXIGoj9RLZMjob3xbjqsN?si=LwWaB-3STWCe7tl18fPoUQ

          If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

          • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

          • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

            Cheers to self-love!


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            31 min
          • #184: How to Find Yourself When You Feel Lost with Dr. Sara Kuburic

            “Some of us knew who we were and then we lost our way. Some of us never became our Self in the first place. We grew older, we aged, our roles and functions changed, but we never grasped our essence. We became many things- a professional, a partner, a mentor, a parent, a friend- but we never truly became our Self.” ~ pg. 22 in Dr. Sara Kuburic’s book, It’s On Me.

            If you’ve ever felt this way– lost, like you don’t know who you really are– then this conversation is for you. Dr. Sara is a psychotherapist who focuses on existential psychology after a long journey of experiencing, studying, and explaining the concept of “self-loss.”

            You will learn...

            • how to answer the question “who am I?”
            • why hearing advice like “go find yourself” and “figure out who you are” is unhelpful
            • the first step for how to create an AUTHENTIC sense of self
            • Remember: who you are evolves over time, but if we are stuck checking boxes and pleasing others, then we will always feel inauthentic, disconnected, and lost in life.

              Follow Dr. Sara on Instagram: @millennial.therapist

              Learn more about Dr. Sara’s book here: https://amzn.to/3Rata05

              And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @millennial.therapist


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              43 min
            • #183: The Best Book on Communication

              I thought I was a good communicator until I read this book.

              It has challenged me (in a good way) and I wanted to share some of my takeaways with you.

              You will learn...

              • the book Mary’s been reading, bringing to therapy, and trying to learn from
              • how most people communicate and why it causes conflict
              • the 4 levels of communication
              • Remember: there’s a difference between communicating clearly and communicating compassionately. I always thought the goal was the former, but now I’m realizing that it’s the latter.

                Hope you enjoy my unofficial book club, where we talk about books that have helped me heal, grow, and evolve.

                If you liked this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

                • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.
                • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.
                • Get the book Nonviolent Communication: https://amzn.to/3GaGriU


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                  21 min
                • #182: Sober-Curious? This one’s for you. Therapist Amanda E. White on ALCOHOL

                  Most of us know that alcohol is poison, it makes us feel shitty, and rarely leads to much good. Despite knowing this, it’s easy to get pressured into drinking even if you don’t want to. This episode is for all my sober-curious friends, who want a fun-filled life without being dependent on alcohol (or any substance for that matter).

                  You will learn about...

                  • the benefits of quitting, or at least reducing, your consumption of alcohol
                  • how to set boundaries around alcohol around friends, family, and your partner
                  • the link between adderall and alcohol
                  • why alcohol makes us more turned on + ideas for sober dating
                  • how to regulate your emotions before turning to your substance of choice (whether that’s drinking, smoking, or scrolling)
                  • Regardless if quitting drinking is right for you or not, you can be less dependent on substances and thus, more emotionally aware, connected, and present in your life.

                    Amanda E. White is a licensed therapist and the creator of the popular instagram account @therapyforwomen. She is the host of the podcast, “Recovered-ish.” She is the author of the book “Not Drinking Tonight” and its corresponding workbook.  She is the founder  of the group therapy practice, Therapy for Women Center, based in Philadelphia serving clients across the country. She has been featured in notable publications such as Forbes, Washington Post, Shape, Women’s Health Magazine, and more.  To learn more visit amandaewhite.com

                    Follow Amanda on Instagram: @therapyforwomen

                    Get Amanda’s Not Drinking Tonight book here: https://amzn.to/400T5KM

                    And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @therapyforwomen

                    Mentioned In This Episode...

                    Dan Carlin’s Hardcore History Podcast: https://www.dancarlin.com/hardcore-history-series/


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                    1 hr 3 min
                  • #181: Stress Eating? Listen to this.

                    The holiday season tends to be full of stress: family drama, financial strain, end-of-year work obligations, etc. If you find yourself turning to food to cope with stress, this episode is for you.

                    You will learn...

                    • why stress eating isn’t always bad and when it becomes a problem
                    • what to tell yourself if you feel like you overate
                    • how to mitigate stress eating and feel less guilty about it
                    • Remember: Food can be complicated, but it can also be a solid source of comfort, pleasure, and joy. Stress eating is nothing to be ashamed of.

                      If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

                      • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

                      • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

                        Episodes That’ll Help Your Relationship with Food...

                        Ep. 14: How to Stop Dieting, Restricting, & Binge Eating for Good: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3tylfVI2XscEZb5g5cHnKE?si=9a84338d304a4203
                        Ep. 17: The Science of Food Freedom w/ Jessi Jean: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3mR0cbZYCNg5amrw4H6zlJ?si=57a51d956c484812
                        Ep. 29: My Entire ED Story: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6QpXQN0TT8wjEIaL0F1rHK?si=5cf3d47ab2214475
                        Ep. 150: Hidden Meanings in Disordered Eating with Dr. Anita Johnston: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4ANZQbzkEMXrGtZiLT07cL?si=6b9ebb060b1c4800
                        Ep. 161: What Helped Me Finally Stop Binge Eating: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3bup5DXcRX6ELsFI3OBdlD?si=170248b972ff44ea


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                        29 min
                      • #180: Detaching Self-Worth from Productivity

                        Mary is trying to undo decades of attaching her self-worth to her productivity.

                        Which is HARD to say the least.

                        This episode explores our limiting beliefs about productivity, while helping you detach your worth from your output.

                        You will learn...

                        • why productivity is a trap
                        • how to embrace doing nothing and let yourself rest
                        • 2 book recommendations that’ll help you form a better relationship with time
                        • practical tips for decoupling your sense of self-worth from how productive you feel
                        • Remember: Who you are is not what you do. Your work is not your worth. Nothing you do will make you more valuable than you already are.

                          If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

                          • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

                          • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

                            Mentioned In This Episode...

                            4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman: https://amzn.to/495x815
                            How To Do Nothing by Jenny Odell: https://amzn.to/498y0lp
                            Ep. 177 on Mary’s Cup of Tea: The Power of Slowing Down: https://spotify.link/LJFrTQgccEb
                            Ep. 125 on Mary’s Cup of Tea: Productivity for Self-Lovers: https://spotify.link/NNhFH7dccEb
                            Ep. 79 on Mary’s Cup of Tea: Dealing with Overwhelm via Self-Talk: https://spotify.link/q13zpNiccEb


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                            21 min
                          • #179: Feeling Like Your Body Betrayed You with Grief Expert Ashley Lemieux

                            CONTENT WARNING: this is an episode about pregnancy loss, chronic pain, and the grief that comes with feeling like your body has betrayed you. Ashley Lemieux joins us to share her personal experience with pregnancy loss, a near death health emergency, and crawling her way through grief.

                            This episode is a giant permission slip to let yourself feel your pain, to acknowledge your grief for what it is: maybe the worst thing that’s ever happened to you. You will also receive encouragement and tools for finding your light in the dark.

                            You will learn...

                            • how men and women grieve differently and the toll it can take on a marriage
                            • why so many of us feel GUILT in the grieving process
                            • how to begin to heal after a tragic loss
                            • ways to feel safe in your body after chronic pain
                            • Ashley Lemieux is a best-selling author, speaker, and content creator whose mission is to help you triumph through challenging times. She holds a Masters in Mental Wellness and Grief, has written 2 books including Born to Shine and I Am Here, and hosts a podcast called Healing Her. Everything Ashley shares will help you feel less alone and more empowered, especially during life’s inevitable lows.

                              Remember: your pain is as bad as it feels.

                              Follow Ashley on Instagram: @ashleyklemeiux

                              Get Ashley’s book, I Am Here:

                              And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @ashleyklemieux


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                              45 min
                            • #178: Coping with Crisis in an Emotionally-Intelligent Way

                              In an age of information overload and devastating crises unfolding before our eyes, the importance of critical thinking and emotional regulation can not be understated. We must remain grounded and informed in the face of overwhelming news, opinions, and emotions. Tune in to learn Mary’s 5-step process for coping with crisis.

                              Note: This episode is not about political commentary. Rather, its focus is on sharing tools for processing horrific information on the internet so that you can remain physically and emotionally healthy even in the midst of intense crisis. While acknowledging the importance of humanitarian issues and social justice, this podcast is focused on self-love as a means to maintain personal well-being during challenging times.

                              Remember: it’s good to care about global, humanitarian issues but don’t let it come at the expense of your own humanity and well-being.

                              If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:

                              • The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.

                              • 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

                                Mentioned In This Episode...

                                Why Has Social Media Made It Impossible to Follow the Israel-Hamas War? on the Offline Podcast with Jon Favreau: https://crooked.com/podcast/why-has-social-media-made-it-impossible-to-follow-the-israel-hamas-war/#:~:text=As fighting intensifies between Israel,content moderation and fact checking.
                                TikTok on how it takes 90 seconds to metabolize an emotion: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8haExJG/
                                The Lemon Tree book: https://amzn.to/3QwIcxb
                                Byron Katie’s 4 Liberating Questions: https://thework.com/2017/10/four-liberating-questions/
                                Dan Carlin’s Hardcore History Podcast: https://www.dancarlin.com/hardcore-history-series/


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                                38 min

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