What if being reasonable is the worst strategy with a narcissist? In this conversation with negotiation expert Rebecca Zung, we explore how to protect yourself when fairness and empathy are used against you. She shares her SLAY method—Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, and You—as a powerful framework to shift the dynamic, stay emotionally grounded, and take back control in high-conflict relationships. 

Rebecca's Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/negotiate-your-best-life-podcast-with-rebecca-zung/id1408141817

https://www.rebeccazung.com/negotiate-your-best-life-podcast/

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Dr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.