In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? SLIM Kim on TikTok got us out here collecting our flowers even with the obstacles we go through as black women. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend is a travel nurse. She has only been at her hospital for 5 months and already been nominated for recognition. Now it's time to nominate again and she wants to nominate another African American nurse. Her Asian boyfriend thinks she shouldn’t nominate anyone because she is not full time and that she only wants to nominate this woman because she is black. She asks if she is being unfair by participating since she is not full time. Our other friend is a millennial and thinks she may be too hard on herself. She’s about to be 40 and has a good job as a restaurant manager but thought she would be a lot further along than she currently is. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We’re doing things a little differently this week. What’s on our timeline is what’s on your timeline. Let’s Talk Through It We’re talking through some of the stories and clips you sent us. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We have 2 words for you: Hospice Wife! Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has been married now for almost a year.and her husband used to be a charmer back in the day. They traveled a lot and used to have fun. Last year she started noticing that her husband started wanting to stay home more and he is tired most of the time and sleeps often. Our other friend is writing to us about her mother’s active social calendar, particularly her dating life. Her father passed away of cancer at the age of 76, five years ago. Her mother, who was with her father, till the very end, has developed a healthy social life. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This week’s timeline comes to us from Pastor Henderson, AKA Pastor Keion Henderson, husband of Shaunie Henderson, formerly known as Shaunie O'Neal. Note: Don’t Blame Us! Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has a friend asking her and their friends to hook her up with someone. She’s never been married, 50 years old, and a single mom by choice. Our other friend is a 42 year old single woman and has her own home, car, and no children. She has a master's in psychology, and works as a government contractor providing psychological services for veterans. She meets a lot of men every day, but has yet to find a husband and has no prospects. . Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We came across this on our timeline via power credit consultants: women are saving their own money, some of their husband's money and their joint money and they're calling it escape money. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend makes significantly more money than her fiance, and did not feel obligated to tell him how much she makes. They discussed purchasing their first home together and after getting married she doesn’t want him to bank on her income to contribute to half of the bills. Our other friend is a male listener who said he and his wife struggled after his furlough from work and the pandemic. This was until his wife revealed her sizeable rainy day fund. Since then, he started his own rainy day fund and has put away a pretty good amount but doesn’t know if and how he should tell his wife. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from, friend in our head Kitty Rose. In her post on TikTok she is discussing what makes a man dateable, what makes a man a good husband and what are the characteristics that make a man husband material?. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend is in love with her fiance and lately has been asking about their future financial plans. When she asks him if he contributes to his 401k he says he doesn’t know. Our other friend loves her husband of 20 years with all her being. Early in their marriage he was the breadwinner and had a plan for their family, However, he lost his job during the pandemic and while he has a job now it's a lesser position and he seems to be a shell of his former self and she needs some Godly advice. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This week our timeline discussion comes by the way of Stepdaddy Season on IG. Our guest letter reader breaks it down. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she really loves her man but she doesn’t know if she can take the fall for him. Our other friend thinks her man's baby mama is only putting him on child support to spite her. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

Red Flags Everywhere

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Reesa Teesa is on our timeline and we’re gonna try to sum up a 52 part TikTok that is about 500 hours. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she is in a nightmare situation of a marriage with a man she met online. She walked in on him wearing her bra, panties and her lace front wig! Our other letter comes from the fiance of a listener who says she isn't who she says she is and he hopes she and her co-workers that listen to the show all the time hears his letter and realizes that the jig is up. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from babyghost115 on TikTok who says don’t date a broke man, however another content creator says that’s bad advice. He says don’t date an uneducated man. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she really loves her man but feels like she is carrying the relationship. They work together and both started at the bottom but now she’s at the top and it’s causing a problem. Our other friend says her man is really starting to upset her. They’ve been together 5 years and aside from the fact that’s too long to wait for a ring, she doesn’t like the way he handles money. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Our Amazing friend Kim Allen is back! Let’s Talk Through It Kim follows up on the readings of Nicole and Janine from her last visit and gives them a look into what is in store for 2024. She also reads a few listeners that sent in some questions. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!