On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Scooter Braun sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about how we aren’t able to truly love ourselves unconditionally, understanding the concept of role models versus real models, and the dangers of living a public life.

Scooter Braun is media proprietor, investor, and record executive widely known for managing artists such as Justin Bieber, Ariana Grande, and Demi Lovato. He founded Schoolboy Records and Ithaca Ventures and co-founded 100 Thieves.

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Episode Resources:

• Scooter Braun | Website
• Scooter Braun | Instagram
• Scooter Braun | Twitter
• Scooter Braun | YouTube

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Do you feel like there’s so much to do but so little time to finish them all? Are you struggling with managing your day-to-day tasks that it’s becoming more dragging and tiring? Is the quality of your work and life going downhill because there isn’t enough time?

Many of us find it difficult to plot our schedules ahead of time and adhere to them religiously. Because once we miss one meeting or appointment, everything else falls apart.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about creating habits that can help us productively manage our tasks by efficiently doing more with less time.

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Key Takeaways:

• 01:03 How many of us feel like time is just passing us by?
• 03:00 By the end of our lives, each of us will spend 33 years in bed, 7 years are spent trying to sleep
• 04:36 Habit #1: Multitasking versus single-tasking
• 06:32 You achieve more quality when you single-task
• 08:04 Habit #2: Time block logical work versus creative work
• 09:59 How to time block your tasks
• 12:11 Habit #3: Everything has to go in your schedule
• 14:23 Habit #4: What’s the one thing you need to do to make yourself feel that today is a great day?
• 16:22 Habit #5: Create goals and plans: The 1-4-1 Method
• 17:53 Identify your one big goal and turn it into four weekly targets
• 20:32 Habit #6: Habit stacking: works on things we do with ease or on autopilot
• 22:20 Habit #7: Get good sleep, meditate, and exercise

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Fearne Cotton joins Jay Shetty to discuss the weight and importance of setting boundaries for yourself so you can learn to respect other people’s boundaries, why you need to change when your inner voice is telling you, and channeling negative energy into positive outcomes and changes in you and around you.

Fearne is the author of the book, Speak Your Truth, and one of the best known and most popular broadcasters in the UK and is most recently known as the Founder of the wellbeing brand, Happy Place. Her podcast, Happy Place, has featured an array of guests such as Ellie Golding, Jada Pinkett Smith, and Russell Brand amongst others.

What We Discuss with Fearne:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:11 The inspiration behind the running selfie
• 04:41 Try and push yourself with vibrant colors
• 07:48 Life is everything, it’s loud and it’s quiet
• 10:54 Don’t ignore that consistent feeling of wanting to change yourself
• 14:11 Being yourself relieves the pressure to be brilliant at all time
• 17:03 When we’re curious, we’re always willing to learn
• 20:13 This social conditioning that we have to act a certain way
• 24:01 Speaking your truth is learning to say NO
• 27:52 Setting boundaries now will create healthy relationships
• 30:52 We need to be responsible for what we are putting out there
• 34:01 “I’m alright so I can be of service.” - Fearne Cotton
• 36:51 The pros and cons of having stop abruptly when you mind is at work
• 39:56 Think about how you can channel negativity into something positive
• 44:54 Be messy and create something that is authentically you
• 48:28 We have something to go with how we feel
• 52:44 Fearne on Fill in the Blanks
• 53:54 Fearne on Final Five
• 54:52 How good are we at accepting other people’s boundaries?

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Episode Resources:

• Fearne Cotton | Website
• Fearne Cotton | Twitter
• Fearne Cotton | Instagram
• Fearne Cotton | Facebook
• Fearne Cotton | YouTube
• Fearne Cotton | Pinterest
• Fearne Cotton | Books
• Happy Place Podcast

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Burnout. When you reach the point where you’re physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausted due to prolonged and excessive stress at work, you get burned out. You start to malfunction in your daily life, work less and become unproductive.

No one wants to go through such lengths of exhaustion. No one wants to drain themselves. Nobody would willingly burn themselves out. We all want a productive and stress-free work life so we remain our best selves when we are finally out from work.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why taking breaks daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and yearly is crucial to rejuvenating our body and rewiring our minds.

Key Takeaways:

• 01:04 Are you feeling tired but you don’t even know why?
• 02:45 That feeling of guilt when you take a break
• 05:29 The habits that strengthen or weaken you
• 08:06 Take a break, take a breath: take a 5-min break every hour
• 10:09 Step #1: Hydrate
• 10:29 Step #2: Walk to get water
• 10:59 Step #3: Watch something in the distance
• 13:38 Every four hours, take a 15-minute break
• 16:20 Middle of the day, take a 30-minute lunch
• 19:03 Take a full rest weekend every 30 days
• 22:00 Take a 3-day break every quarter
• 23:13 Once a year, take a week off

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Dr. Joe Dispenza joins Jay Shetty to talk about how our thoughts and emotions can affect our physical body, the unconscious process of making your feelings become the means of thinking, and reaching an awareness of the possibilities you haven’t thought before.

Dr Joe holds a Bachelor of Science degree and is a Doctor of Chiropractic. His post graduate training includes the fields of neuroscience and neuroplasticity, quantitative electroencephalogram (QEEG) measurements, epigenetics, mind-body medicine, and brain/heart coherence.

What We Discuss with Dr. Joe:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:55 What's the biggest difficulty or challenge you've had to overcome in the past 12 months?
• 04:57 Challenging thoughts we’ve developed that affects how we feel
• 07:34 The Familiar Past, our feelings become the means of thinking
• 12:33 Overcoming your old personality to create the energy to heal
• 18:24 In the unknown, you learn how to be comfortable with the unknown
• 23:27 Processing problems productively and effectively through thoughts
• 27:50 Not reacting emotionally is going to change the energy of how you address a situation
• 33:17 The fear has to be addressed if you want to be healed
• 37:54 Why is our memory for pain stronger than our memory of success or joy?
• 43:19 Your experience produces a feeling that is not chemical
• 48:25 What disconnects us from our awakening and connection to the divine
• 54:36 Deducing the energy frequency of the people you meet
• 58:11 The heart is the middle path, it’s a union of polarity
• 01:08:47 People are the example of truth, we take care of one another and we heal together
• 01:14:13 The purpose of life is to figure out its purpose
• 01:17:02 Dr. Joe on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Dr. Joe Dispenza | Website
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | Twitter
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | Instagram
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | Facebook
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | LinkedIn
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | YouTube
• Dr. Joe Dispenza | Amazon

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Finding the reason to let go and move on is never because of a simple reason. It is often a result of a series of stressful events, unreasonable situations, and in some cases, traumatic experiences that make us anxious.

These unpleasant circumstances push us to the end and would make us question ourselves if it’s still worth staying or is it finally time to move on. Or, if you’re mentally and emotionally prepared to leave it all behind and restart your life somewhere else.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about ten questions we should ask before we decide to end a relationship or leave our job, and what we can do to prepare for when we’re ready to leave.

Key Takeaways:

• 01:12 Are you thinking of finally leaving or letting go?
• 05:06 Question #1: Am I safe?
• 09:02 Question #2: Am I free to be or am I performing?
• 12:15 You don’t have to go right away as soon as you realize you’re pretending
• 12:48 Question #3: Am I honoring my values?
• 15:54 Question #4: Am I holding back or being held back?
• 17:52 Question #5: Am I here for the potential and what could be?
• 20:12 Question #6: Am I the only one trying?
• 23:22 Question #7: Can I forgive?
• 24:35 Question #8: Am I being honest?
• 26:24 Question #9: Am I otherwise fulfilled?
• 27:56 Question #10: Is there more to learn here?
• 29:41 Make a decision that serves you best in the long term

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Jocko Willink (@jockowillink) joins Jay Shetty to talk about extreme ownership and discipline, switching from a competition-based to a collaborative culture, building trust even in stressful situations, and mastering your self-discipline.

He is a retired naval officer who served in the Navy SEALs and an author of several books including Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win. He also co-hosts Jocko Podcast that discusses discipline and leadership in business, war, relationships, and everyday life.

What We Discuss with Jocko:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:08 The most difficult thing to go through
• 02:57 How do you process a difficult situation and be ready to go through the experience
• 06:07 What you go through is your present, nothing else will matter
• 08:18 Are you born a leader or did experience make you one?
• 13:44 Working through procrastination and overthinking
• 18:01 Lessons learned from joining the Navy Seals
• 20:14 Turning a competitive and comparison based culture to a collaborative culture
• 26:37 Principles and methods to build trust in high stress situations
• 29:53 The biggest leadership mistakes and the key takeaways
• 33:20 Rather than beating yourself up, practice extreme ownership
• 36:34 Taking criticisms from someone you don’t respect
• 38:54 Your ego against the decentralized command strategy
• 43:07 When people are struggling with self discipline, where do you start?
• 47:06 Start self discipline by waking up earlier in the morning
• 49:24 Life lessons learned after leaving the military
• 53:20 Jocko on Final Five

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• Jocko Willink | Twitter
• Jocko Willink | Instagram
• Jocko Willink | Podcast
• Jocko Willink | Books

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Have you ever wished you could change someone in your life? Have you tried changing someone to fit your ideals and beliefs? If so, have you succeeded? Did it make you happy?

It’s frustrating to try and change someone who isn’t willing to change, especially when your circumstances aren’t helping. This will only trigger stress and anxiety, and will continuously deplete your inner peace and compassion.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why we should stop trying to change others and instead, focus on loving ourselves through cultivating patience, tolerance, and compassion.

Key Takeaways:

• 01:29 Have you tried changing someone in your life?
• 02:25 Top 3 reasons couples fight: money, sex, children
• 03:36 The reasons why we try to change others
• 05:08 In trying to positively impact the world, we are changing ourselves
• 05:45 3 things that happen when we try to change people
• 08:01 Reason #1: We care more for comfort than change
• 12:52 Reason #2: We can’t understand others because of own narrow thinking
• 15:20 Reason #3: We think we are always right
• 18:04 Reason #4: We don’t understand the value of diversity
• 20:40 Change and the motivation to change are an inside job

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Perry joined Jay Shetty in their first ever virtual book tour event for the recently released book they co-authored, What Happened to You? We talk about how they are redefining childhood trauma, why experiences at a young age mold our adult life, and finding rhythm and balance to start healing yourself.

Oprah is an accomplished author, talk show host, actress, producer and philanthropist. Dr. Bruce Perry is a neuroscientist and psychiatrist, currently the senior fellow of the Child Trauma Academy in Houston, Texas and today, we will find out “What happened to you”

What We Discuss with Oprah and Dr. Perry:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:24 Meeting Dr. Bruce Perry and the journey towards understanding “What Happened to You”
• 05:57 Commonly misunderstood concept about trauma
• 09:06 Going beyond success to heal your trauma
• 11:05 The younger the children, the more influence you have on who they become
• 12:24 Oprah on Fast Five
• 19:05 Switch from “What is wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
• 24:13 Life-long study on child trauma and how it started
• 27:52 The connection between childhood experience and adulthood
• 32:53 What should parents do differently to express love to their children?
• 41:27 Finding the time to create a rhythm and balance
• 46:24 Misconceptions about the stress response system that leads to trauma
• 50:14 Neglect is as toxic as trauma
• 53:26 Reaching an understanding so can process your pain and anger
• 01:06:39 The difference between coping and healing

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Episode Resources:

• What Happened to You?
• The Oprah Winfrey Show
• Oprah Winfrey | Facebook
• Oprah Winfrey | Twitter
• Dr. Bruce Perry | Twitter
• Dr. Bruce Perry | Website
• Dr. Bruce Perry | Books

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When our emotions become overwhelming, we lose our ability to make sound decisions. We struggle to listen to anyone or anything else, even though our intuition seldom guides us wrong.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty reveals five reasons why many of us struggle to be in tune with our intuitions and how this leads to trust issues & self-doubt.

Key Takeaways:

• 01:20 1.2M had to leave the workforce due to the pandemic
• 02:39 Reason #1: We don’t understand the different roles of our minds and our emotions
• 04:43 Our brain and body coordinate to create emotions
• 06:27 When we feel discomfort, we come up with a label for it
• 09:28 Reason #2: We think we have all the facts to sort through until we get an intuitive hit on what to do
• 11:51 Reason #3: Our brain has inherent biases
• 15:45 Freewriting helps us get to our thoughts and beliefs we have trouble accessing
• 16:58 Reason #4: We underestimate the impact of culture on how we see the world
• 17:48 Reason #5: We keep weakening our intuition by ignoring it
• 18:33 Schedule time with yourself to be alone to listen to your mind and body

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