Polycurious

Mariah and I talk to Mr. K, someone who tried polyamory and realized that it's not be for him. In this conversation we talk about his non-monogamous inclinations and his kitchen table poly aspirations. He tells us how he realized his ideal didn't match up to reality after being in the poly scene for five years. We also talk about how despite that, he considers himself as someone with a lot of poly characteristics such as barely experiencing jealousy and wanting to connect with metamours.

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Anna and Chetan have been together for 4 years, but they each have been exploring non-monogamy for almost 15 years. In this conversation they share what they have learned during that time. They also share their experience forming a triad and how that dissolved before moving in together. Lastly, they give lots of great advice for polycurious people, especially when it comes to jealousy.

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Tarynn is a New York-based Psychotherapist who focuses on alternative sexualities & lifestyles – including non-monogamy. In this episode we talk about how she opened up her relationship with her husband of 8 years. She speaks of relationship anarchy and reveals how she achieved a comfortable "kitchen table" dynamic between her husband and secondary partner. We also talk about how she plans to communicate with her daughter about non-monogamy and about therapy for alternative relationships.

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Book Come as You Are (The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life) by Emily Nagoski

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Ana and Dustin are a married polyamorous couple who have a very loving relationship. In this conversation we talk about gender roles in non-monogamy: how they influence Dustin’s jealousy and affect the way they each relate to other potential partners. We also talk about the importance of establishing a solid base on one’s relationship before opening up.

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Frankie is an incredibly inspiring person when it comes to dealing with non-monogamy. In this conversation, she shared with us a particular experience of jealousy we can all learn from. When faced with her uncomfortable feelings, she decided to approach the person she felt triggered by. Listen to find out how that turned out!

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In this conversation I speak to S & J, a married couple from Brooklyn. They tell us how they decided to open up their marriage and navigated their different ideas of what that meant. J was initially more interested in having experiences as a couple and S wanted to see people independently. Through trial and error, they eventually reached a point in which they both feel comfortable in the relationship, despite the fact that they are open in different ways.

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In Part 2 of our conversation with Bear (formerly Safi) and Fifi we go deeper by talking about their relationship. They narrate their love story and share with us inner layers that help them navigate polyamory together. We talk about how Safi developed compersion, which is a feeling of joy when a loved one takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship.

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Resources mentioned:

Book The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

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This is part 1 of our conversation with Bear & Fifi, (Safi & Fifi at the time of the interview), a queer polyamorous couple that hosts⁠ a YouTube channel⁠ where they share their experience and provide tips for other polyamorous couples. In our conversation they talk through their journey coming to terms with their sexuality, gender and non-monogamous identity. Fifi as a second generation Latina from the Bronx and Safi as an African American from Brooklyn.

Stay tuned for next episode where they share how they met, how their relationship works and the struggles they have encountered.

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In this episode I speak with Dr.Zhana, a professor of sexuality at New York University. She is also the creator of the Open Smarter Course, a science-based course designed to figure out what type of relationship works for YOU based on your personality. In this conversation we talk about Dr.Zhana's own non-monogamous journey, her research on casual sex and some of the important traits to consider when deciding what type of relationship works for you. 

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In our inaguaral episode, we introduce Polycurious, and our host, Fernanda, interviews our occasional co-host, Mariah. We delve into the intriguing details of her journey into non-monogamy, the stigma she encountered from her family, her first play party, her relationship with her primary partner, and her experiences with jealousy.

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