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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...
- A quick breakdown of Baumrind's 4 parenting styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and Neglectful.
- How to use "high love and high limits" as your compass for helping you know how to raise healthy kids.
- Why the pattern so many parents find themselves in is:
authoritative ➡️ permissive ➡️ authoritarian (and how to break this cycle!)
- Knowing the difference between being permissive and making a conscious and intentional choice not to pick this battle.
- The subtle shift in how you frame an intentional pivot to your child so your actions are still authoritative when you are "giving in."
- How to change your mind without teaching your child that they can get you to cave and that your limits are unreliable.
- When your child refuses to take a bath, brush their teeth, wants more water after bedtime, and asks for candy before breakfast - how to be authoritative in all of these situations.
ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:
🎧 What can I do when all the "rules" for setting limits don't work for my sensitive kid?
🎧 How to move out of power struggles and into cooperation with Jen Lumanlan
🎧 How to use the principles of attachment science to make parenting easier
WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:
Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!
 By Dr. Sarah Bren
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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...
- A quick breakdown of Baumrind's 4 parenting styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and Neglectful.
- How to use "high love and high limits" as your compass for helping you know how to raise healthy kids.
- Why the pattern so many parents find themselves in is:
authoritative ➡️ permissive ➡️ authoritarian (and how to break this cycle!)
- Knowing the difference between being permissive and making a conscious and intentional choice not to pick this battle.
- The subtle shift in how you frame an intentional pivot to your child so your actions are still authoritative when you are "giving in."
- How to change your mind without teaching your child that they can get you to cave and that your limits are unreliable.
- When your child refuses to take a bath, brush their teeth, wants more water after bedtime, and asks for candy before breakfast - how to be authoritative in all of these situations.
ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:
🎧 What can I do when all the "rules" for setting limits don't work for my sensitive kid?
🎧 How to move out of power struggles and into cooperation with Jen Lumanlan
🎧 How to use the principles of attachment science to make parenting easier
WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:
Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!

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