Reclaiming Food, Freedom & The Last 10

Ever feel like everyone else has got it ALL figured out except for you?

HINT: THIS is what most of us naturally think about ourselves UNLESS we change our constant self-judgement approach ON PURPOSE.

It's essential to make this change because as you might imagine: constantly thinking there's something wrong with you and your brain is NOT helping your goals AT ALL.

In this episode, I'm on a mission to make sure you know THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT, perfectly 'behaved' HUMAN BRAIN.

& here's the best news of all: You don't need your brain to ONLY think positive, motivated, useful thoughts ALL OF THE TIME in order to change your results and your life.

YOU WILL NEED THESE 4 THINGS however:

(perfection NOT being one of them) Curiosity, Compassion, Awareness, and deliberate decision making.

In order to create epic results and transformation in any area of your life (including creating next-level weight results and upleveling your relationship with food) you can do it ALL with your human, imperfect brain.

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To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

There's something about the way women are socialized that breeds so much of the 'struggle' experience with our bodies AND ALSO decisions about our bodies...

That 'something' is this: We are taught to value OTHER people's opinions MORE than our own.

eek. This programming that's been hardwired into many of our brains can be challenging to override, but it's absolutely possible. (...and I believe it's one million percent worth it! #freedom)

Overriding this single belief leads to being able to actually feel liberated, empowered and actually ENJOY your decisions and your results in this area of your life.

In this podcast episode I teach you the game-changing concepts of:

• UNAPOLOGETIC DECISIONS
• TRUE CHOICE
• PHYSICAL AUTONOMY

I teach you how you can develop these 3 skills and why they matter if you truly want to be DONE struggling.

THIS is the stuff that following a meal plan or food tracking app ALONE won't teach you.

YOU are the boss of your body.

Your body is YOUR property.

YOU my friend, GET TO self govern.

This is the road to empowered results & 'weight struggle' freedom.

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To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

When someone has struggled with their weight (and food) for years and even decades... it can start to feel like living WITHOUT a struggle isn't even possible.

IT IS POSSIBLE.

It's 100% possible, but requires that you re-program your brain.

You gotta be willing to take your brain to 'school' and learn:

• brand new ways for doing weight loss.
• brand new ways for doing the food.
• brand new ways of doing life WITHOUT the sabotaging or frustrating emotional eating.
• brand new ways of taking care of, and loving your body UNAPOLOGETICALLY (like a #Boss!)

It's possible.

You ready?!

Let's go.

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To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

If weight loss is the one area you don't feel empowered in your life- you're gonna have to listen to this episode.

One of the reasons that losing weight feels like a drag, and quite frankly, miserable for most people is because it's treated and approached as external-imposed rules that MUST be followed vs decisions you're making to create the life you want.

Shifting from RULE FOLLOWING approach to a DECISION MAKING one changes everything.

It will change your experience- which enables you to also change your results.

To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

Figuring out how to eat in order to lose the weight you want to lose can feel:

• confusing.
• overwhelming.
• frustrating.

Today I wanna make the food simple for you. I'm sharing with you the basic formula that was a complete game changer for me after decades of struggling with my weight, trying everything and feeling like nothing worked-

This episode has ONE MAIN mission: help you make the food and nutrition simple.

When things feel simple, they also feel doable.

The more complicated something seems to us, the less likely we are to think of if as something we can actually do.

Ready for the food to feel simple?!

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To lose your ‘last 10’ using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

Do you find yourself worrying what people 'might think' about you, your body, or your appearance?

- worried what they 'might think' if you gained some weight?

- worried what they 'might think' if you lost the weight?

- worried what they 'might think' if (insert any other appearance concern here).

When you're constantly worried about what someone else might think about your body, it steals you from being able to feel fiercely confident in your body.

& listen sister, I get it... I've been there. I understand what it feels like to constantly be preoccupied about what others 'might think'...

Once upon a time, I used to live my life and make my own personal decisions feeling hostage to others opinions. Even decisions about MY BODY! (ie- for example, if I wanted to lose some weight) I would feel as if what I chose to do with my body or what my body looked like was a matter of public opinion, and I ruminated constantly about other people's possible opinions.

That. Was. Exhausting.

Trying to always have everyone's 'approval' was EXHAUSTING.

Also, it was an impossible feat... because: People will always have opinions.

Specifically, people will always have BODY OPINIONS.

Let them.

In this episode I teach you the most important thing you'll need to do in order to have a rock-solid opinion about your body, and never again worry about anyone else's opinion.

(*hint: it involves your opinion, not theirs)

LISTEN NOW TO LEARN MORE.

To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

I would argue that feeling deprived, being critical actually keep women stuck and sabotaging.

I would also argue that the way to epic results are through curiosity, patience, understanding, LOVE and trust.

Contrary to popular belief: the way I teach my clients to create results is about EXPANDING your life, diversifying, enriching, adding MORE pleasure, MORE comfort, MORE celebration.

Through my LAST 10 approach my client Athena lost 20 pounds. & now she's maintaining these results with so much more peace and freedom than she even thought was possible!

Once she learned my tools and my process for losing the 'last 10' she shared with me that her process was SO LOVING, it allowed her to break existing family patterns. She believes healed not ONLY her, but ALL the women in her family (past and future).

#generationalchange

To learn more about how to true freedom in this area of your life, maintain your results like NBD, and break personal/ family patters- LISTEN NOW.

To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

Weight loss ALONE doesn't create body confidence.

(Especially, not that unshakeable, rock-solid, unapologetic, kind-of-body-confidence )

Let me tell you, I know this very well. I had to learn this the hard way and I definitely don't want you to have to learn it the hard way-

There was a point in my 20 year weight struggle, where I had lost all the weight I wanted to lose- and yet felt more insecure, anxious and inadequate then ever...

#truestory

HERE'S WHY THIS MATTERS: It matters because in order to stop feeling shame and inadequacy about your body- you must understand that THE ONLY way to change the way you feel in your body is to change:

1. The way you think about your body.
2. Your relationship with your body.

THIS PODCAST EPISODE IS ALL ABOUT UPGRADING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BODY (along with your results).

Changing the way you think about your body and relate to your body will allow you to change your experience AND your results, more than any 'diet' or 'meal plan' EVER could.

I was able to go from utterly despising my body, constantly feeling inadequate, sabotaging daily/weekly, to now:

LOVING my relationship with food, LOVING my relation with my body, and loving my results.

I can tell you with certainty, that there's no amount of kale or quinoa that would ever have created THAT kind of change ;)

With the approach that I teach you today, you'll be able to upgrade your body image AND your results.

Do NOT skip this episode.

It's a must listen.

To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

Women are socialized to believe they shouldn't invest in themselves.

Their kids? yes. Their families? yes. Their businesses? yes. Their communities? yes.

Themselves, just because they want to? nope.

Society tells us: that's selfish. that's a waste. that's vain.

But here's my take on it: A women's body image, her relationship with herself, her body, with food... impacts ALL aspects of her life.

Not only is it NOT a 'waste' or 'silly' to invest your time and energy to uplevel this area of your life, IMO: IT'S PRICELESS.

Listen in to todays episode, as I chat with my client Andrea. Andrea is a successful life coach and entrepreneur that felt empowered and like a total #boss in ALL other areas of her life, except this area (food, weight).

She shares how she was able to finally be done struggling with food and weight. Now, this part of her life feels totally ON HER OWN TERMS, easy and even fun!

And guess what? Creating that change, meant she had to give herself permission to invest in HER.

If you are someone that has been able to feel successfully in so many areas of your life- except this one (especially if you're an entrepreneur!) You gotta check out this episode.

It's jam-packed with value and tons of gems for you, so that YOU can also continue to feel empowered in your own journey-

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To lose your 'last 10' using my proven method JOIN THE LAST 10™ Program- GET ALL THE DETAILS HERE: www.brendalomeli.com/thelast10

Women experience SO MUCH SHAME AND GUILT when it comes to: food, eating, over-eating, emotionally eating, their bodies, their weight, wanting to lose weight... and more!

Emotional eating is one of the most common topics I talk about. But what if it isn't bad?". (hint: ...it's not!)

On todays podcast I'm teaching you that emotional eating is NOT a 'bad' behavior. It's simply: a behavior.

The reason women experience shame, guilt and other intense-negative emotions (which btw only drive more emotional eating! Almost ironic, right?)

..is because we label emotional eating as 'bad' and then label ourselves and 'defective' or 'bad' for having done so.

There IS a solution.

There IS a way to stop feeling shame and guilt about food.

This approach is exactly how I de-conditioned feeling food shame and food guilt for myself, and it's how tons of my clients have also de-conditioned shame and guilt.

The first necessary step is to STOP telling ourselves that emotional eating is bad.

Listen Now to learn more.