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As a mom of three with a neuroscience background, I've come to understand that the emotional health of fathers is a critical but often overlooked topic. That's why I invited Dr. Matt Englar-Carlson, an expert in counseling and male psychology, onto the  podcast. Our conversation offers an essential guide for anyone invested in the development of healthy boyhood and supportive environments for men as they embrace parenting, with insights into breaking cycles of anger and fostering emotional regulation.

In our final thoughts, Dr. Englar-Carlson and I reflect on the significance of building healthy relationships for life success. We explore how being a positive force in the lives of children, partners, and friends can be the cornerstone of well-being. For fathers and all listeners seeking to enhance their mental health and emotional expression, this episode is an invitation to explore new pathways and embrace the journey toward more fulfilling personal connections.

MENTAL App:
https://www.getmental.com/

Sources:
Accentuating positive masculinity: A new foundation for the psychology of boys, men, and masculinity.

The American psychological Association's practice guidelines for men and boys: Are they hurting rather than helping male mental wellness?

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As I dive into leadership and business books, I can't help make the link with parenting. I think leadership books are the best parenting books!

I gave a workshop this week to a leadership team and realized how many of these tips applied to parenting so this week, I break down 3 aspects of this talk and give you some reflection prompts to apply this to your home.

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Listen to more Curious Neuron Podcast episodes similar to this one:

• How to start a business while also being a stay-at-home mom 
• Being a parent is similar to being a CEO
• Melinda Wenner Moyer: Raising kind humans

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Dr. Ramani and I rigorously tackle the complexities that emerge when parenting with or alongside a narcissist, offering invaluable strategies for setting boundaries and cultivating a nurturing environment for both parents and children.

We discuss the often-overlooked impact narcissistic parenting has on the developmental stages of children, from their tender infancy to their more independent years. We confront the harsh truth that parenthood doesn't magically reform a narcissist and discuss the imperative role of a supportive, responsive parent in mitigating a narcissist's unpredictable influence. Delving into the intricacies of equitable parenting and its significance on familial harmony, this episode sheds light on fostering a balanced family dynamic, even amidst the challenges posed by a narcissistic partner or parent.

Sources:
https://srcd.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/cdep.12362

https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1420870112

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797620965536

Read Dr. Ramani's new book It's Not You:
Canada
US

Dr. Ramani's YouTube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/

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My grandfather Roger always said that the true measure of character is found not in comfort, but in the face of challenge.  In this episode, I share my story of a day I called my grandpa pretending to be sick when I was in high school.

This story is a reminder that we need to place our children in uncomfortable situations to help them work on their inner dialogue and motivation. It also reminds, the parents, that we need to do the same.

I hope you enjoy my story about my grandpa Roger, he was the world to me and taught me so much!

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Being a new parent can make you feel really alone. But don't worry, I talked to Dr. Kelly Elliott and Dr. Tracy Vozar, and we had a chat that might make you feel better.

Today, we talk about the different ways people raise kids and how it can affect our feelings. We also look at how feeling anxious and trying to be the perfect parent can make us feel really lonely. We talk about how social media can help connect parents and make them feel less alone.

We don't just talk about the problems, though. We also give you practical tips and resources to help you through the tough times of being a new parent. The Baby Steps lab at DU has a lot of useful stuff, and we share some simple self-care ideas to help you take care of yourself. Let's celebrate the small moments that make being a parent a bit easier, and work towards a future where parents' mental health is a big deal in our community.

Resources mentioned during the conversation:
Alexandra Sacks, M.D TED TALK
Baby S.T.E.P.S. lab resources HERE
We mentioned the term "good enough parenting" and cited Circle of Security
Maternal Mortality and Morbidity article HERE
Tracy and team's publication on P-PTSD HERE
Infographic on intrusive thoughts HERE

Curious Neuron Podcast Episodes for new parents:
5 tips for new parents HERE
Advice for new parents HERE
What new parents should know about brain development HERE

When should a tantrum become a concern? Article  HERE
Watch this episode of YouTube: https://youtu.be/H4xaY5Z5bFU

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Have you ever wondered how to keep the spark alive in your relationship and fend off the threat of monotony that might edge you toward divorce? Join me, Cindy Hovington, along with Amy Morin, author of "13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do," as we uncover the secrets to a flourishing partnership that benefits not just you and your spouse, but your children as well.

We discuss the delicate balance of setting boundaries in a relationship can feel like walking a tightrope, but it's a vital act for maintaining a healthy connection. We reveal how to introduce boundaries with sensitivity and strength, even in well-established relationships, and take a closer look at the underlying issues that trivial squabbles can mask. If you're ready to challenge the myth that your partner should be your everything, this episode is for you.

Lastly, we tackle the pervasive challenge of martyrdom and how to foster a more equitable partnership through delegation and open dialogue. With these actionable insights, Amy and I guide you in strengthening your bond and renewing the joy in your journey together.

Get Amy's Book Here:
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Canada: https://amzn.to/3SilDvv

RELATED PODCAST EPISODES
Listen to my previous conversation with Amy about mentally strong kids:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1255388/11767725

Listen to my conversation with therapist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish: How to maintain a healthy relationship after having kids
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1255388/13551469

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https://www.instagram.com/amymorinauthor/

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https://curiousneuron.com/podcast/

Get your FREE emotional awareness training for parents and kids below (comes with a poster, workbook and video):

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Grab our course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent 

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Hang tight for a cozy chat that's like catching up with your parent BFF – we're spilling the beans on emotions and parenting with Jenny from EQ School. No fancy talk, just a laid-back convo packed with aha moments.

From decoding our emotions to setting real, self-care boundaries, we're giving you the inside scoop on the family feels. This isn't your typical podcast; it's your backstage pass to leveling up your connection game at home.

Emotional intelligence isn't just for suits – it's a game-changer for your living room, especially in the parenting chaos. Join us as we spill secrets on handling emotional triggers, squeezing in some self-reflection, and calling in backup when needed.

No cookie-cutter boundaries here – we're talking self-care magic that turns your family dynamic into a well-choreographed dance. Learn to speak your needs loud and clear while giving your emotional health a boost.

This episode is all about reflection – your golden ticket to expressing emotions and parenting with sanity. We're dishing tips on building your emotional vocab, navigating the ups and downs of raising emotionally aware kids, and why it's okay to let those emotions flow.

So, grab your drink of choice, kick back, and join us for a chat that's all about beefing up your emotional IQ and becoming the parent rockstar you were born to be. Let's do this! 

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Ever wonder why your heart races with anticipation or why a simple hug can calm your nerves? Prepare to unlock the mysteries of your emotional landscape with the theories of Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, author of How Emotions are Made, as we examine the complex world of constructed emotions. I am reading her book and I want to share some key concepts with you that will change your perspective on emotions.

We delve into the nuances of emotional granularity, exploring how a keen awareness of our micro emotions can prevent the depletion of our mental and physical resources.

If you want to rethink emotions, tune-in to today's episode!

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More ways to become a Reflective Parent with Curious Neuron:

Join our NEW book club for only $9.99!

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Learn about the next books we will be covering:

https://curiousneuron.com/podcast/

Get your FREE emotional awareness training for parents and kids below (comes with a poster, workbook and video):

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Today is a very special episode on emotional intelligence with world renowned researcher Dr. Marc Brackett, director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. As we navigate the intricate ties between emotions, parenting, and education, Dr. Brackett shares his profound expertise on the RULER approach and the pivotal role of emotions in shaping our lives.

Our conversation extends beyond theory to offer tangible strategies that help us grant both ourselves and our children the 'permission to feel,' a crucial step in fostering mental health and well-being.

We discuss how consistent role modeling across all environments—be it at home or school—is essential in teaching our young ones to navigate the complex world of emotions. This episode is an eye-opener for anyone looking to understand why emotional intelligence should not just be an add-on but a key component of our collective growth.

Lastly, we reflect on the profound impact that emotional intelligence can have on leadership, relationships, and personal fulfillment.

A special thank you to my guest co-host Karl Mercuri, Social and Emotional Learning Coordinator at The Priory Elementary School in Montreal.

Get Dr. Brackett's app How We Feel for free:
https://howwefeel.org/

Get his book Permission to Feel:
In Canada
In the US

Follow him on IG:
https://www.instagram.com/marc.brackett/

Publications:
Emotional Intelligence in the Classroom
The Ability Model of Emotional Intelligence

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Welcome to Curious Neuron, where our sixth season reminds you to prioritize your emotional health. Join me as we unearth the power of journaling and reflection. I also announce the launch of my new workbook called The Reflective Parent

You can purchase it here if you are looking for support in working on yourself this year and relflecting on your emotional and mental well-being.
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This season will be a great one with amazing  interviews already lined up with Dr. Marc Brackett, Dr. Ramani and many more! 

Don't forgot to subscribe to the podcast not to miss any of our episodes this season!

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More ways to become a Reflective Parent with Curious Neuron:

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Get your FREE emotional awareness training for parents and kids below (comes with a poster, workbook and video):

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Grab our course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent 

https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/

Join the next 6-8 week cohort for parents, kids or teens:

https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/

Or email me [email protected] to book emotional training sessions for your organization.