What lessons can families learn from businesses? Have you ever thought of formalizing your values as a family and creating a vision statement?

Ellen and I had the privilege to chat with Chris and Melissa Smith, founders of Family Brand, and loving parents to five kids. We discuss what it’s like to have (and come from) an unusually large family, their near-divorce experience, and how they are now happier and stronger than ever before. They talk about why they founded Family Brand, and highlight the importance of working on oneself first and, and being very intentional with your commitment to your partner and parenting to co-create a brand unique to your family unit and why/how that’s helpful.

Useful Links:

• Download the transcript of this episode here
• https://familybrand.com/
• https://familybrand.com/podcast/
• https://familybrand.com/quiz/
• https://www.instagram.com/ourfamilybrand/
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow/
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Do you find yourself in a relationship with someone who isn’t meeting you halfway?

Are you curious to learn why your partner refuses to do their part of the work in the relationship?

According to behavioral psychology, human beings are hedonistic. We prefer pleasure over pain, good over evil, comfortable over uncomfortable—even though  it is through discomfort that we grow. If you listen to the podcast, I consider you a growth/developmental-oriented person. If a non-growth/developmental-oriented person stays in a relationship with you long enough, they inevitably will bump up against discomfort and will do one of three things: run, check out, or sabotage.

Tune in to this short episode to learn more about avoidance tactics, the number one reason your partner resists change, and the role shame plays in this dynamic.

Useful Links:

• Download the transcript to Episode 421: The #1 Reason Your Partner Won't Do The Work
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow/
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Have you ever wondered if there was something you could do quickly when you were triggered and it just made everything better? 

This week we’re joined by Spiritual Coach Mamoon Yusaf who gives us the elevator speech description of the Qu’ran and it’s deeper meaning). He shares his experience growing up in a posh British grammar school as a young Pakistani boy, becoming a Spiritual Coach, and awakening as a way of owning his feelings, the reactions that changed his life and his relationships for the better. But most importantly he shares a quick method to work through triggers.

Useful Links:

• https://mamoonyusaf.com/
• Sign up for updates here: 7207044852
• my.community.com/jaysongaddis/
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow/
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Are you a "dad to be," or are you already on the field but want to up your parenting game and become the kind of father and husband you always wanted to be (i.e., sincerely present and very engaged)?

Buckle up for a candid, special, extra-long episode geared explicitly for dads with advice on pre-birth, birth (how to support the process and show up), and post-birth (notes on sleep, sex, healthy brain development, post-partum, technological considerations, carrying your child) and more.

Useful Links:

• Download this episode's transcript here
• Sign up for updates here: 7207044852
• my.community.com/jaysongaddis/
• https://relationshipschool.com/masterclass/
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow/
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com
• Personality Disorders with Judith Pearson – Part 2 (Ep 418)
• Personality Disorder with Carolyn Bankston – Part 1 (Ep 410)
• How to Get Your Kids and Teens To Do What You Want and Need to do Without Fear and Bribes (Ep. 409)
• Boundaries & Other Tips for Brand New Parents with Tina Payne Bryson
• Why Your Kids Need You to Be In Charge with Kim John Payne
• 4 Non-Negotiable Needs Required for a Secure Partnership

By far the most important age to get parenting “right” is 0-3. This is when the “self” forms and if the primary caregiver (often the mother) is not well, major challenges will emerge in the child. If you have a complicated relationship with your parents or you are a new parent, this is a must listen.

Useful Links:

• Send a text: 7207044852
• my.community.com/jaysongaddis/
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the grieving process just won’t quit?

In this week’s episode Jayson coaches Kadri, who is struggling to get over a breakup that happened 15 months ago. Jayson suggests that we tend to repeat our patterns (like choosing a “healing” partner vs. a “feel good” partner) unless we fundamentally change something about who we are, and gain insight into why these patterns exist in the first place. Tune in to learn more about this and see if you can relate…

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/rescue
• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

This week my wife Ellen and I tackle a couple of your questions…

Jennifer is curious about how to forgive ourselves when we relapse into old patterns… 

Ashley asks us how self-centeredness is either useful or destructive…

Brian inquires about confidence, and how to stand up for yourself respectfully…

Hannah asks if and how there’s a right way to get back together with someone…

Tune in to this week’s Ask Me Anything episode where we discuss  ghosting, being centered in a world out of balance, the importance of co-creating agreements in your relationships, and more. 

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Ever feel like you are the one overfunctioning in your relationship? Ever feel like you are “taking care” of your partner and they feel like a kid sometimes? 

Listen to this week's episode to hear Jayson review and unpack this codependent couples session with Shannon and Matthew (or catch the episode on YouTube to see the action and better understand what their body language is saying).

Useful Links:

• Text: 7207044852 -  my.community.com/jaysongaddis
• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

This week I spoke with Debbie Reber, author, and founder of TILT Parenting which offers resources to parents of neurodiverse “differently wired” humans to help navigate these uncertain waters in a world where everything is biased towards “normal”.

We speak about how ADHD is considered neurodiverse, and often oversimplified as someone who experiences challenges with their focus when in reality it includes challenges with emotional regulation, impulsivity, misreading social cues, and rejection sensitive dysphoria. We also learn about the Autism Spectrum, and some of the terminology like “twice exceptional”, “masking”, “high-functioning” and “Aspergers”. And, of course, we talk about neurotypical-neurodiverse relationships.

Useful Links:

• https://tiltparenting.com/
• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Have you ever been advised by friends or family not to “settle” in your romantic partnership? 

Did you ever consider why you may be settling, or have settled in the past?

Do you believe in not settling because you’re waiting for “the one”?

In this episode, I unpack “settling” and offer three essential ingredients I think it takes to make a relationship work day-to-day and in the long term.

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/rct
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com