Betrayed partners are exposed to a great amount of uncertainty when they learn their spouse has been unfaithful. One of the things they often hear is "Once a cheater always a cheater". Is this ture?

Listen to Miami's relationship expert Idit Sharoni expressing her thoughts and ideas about the old saying based on her experience working with coupes in the aftermath of infidelity. 

FREEBIE: Download the "5 Ways to Know if You’re Dealing w/ Always a Cheater" guide Idit created to especially for this episode listeners. Simply click the link below. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

FREEBIE: 5 Ways to Know if You’re Dealing w/ Always a Cheater

Idit’s FB Group: It’s Okay To Stay - Healing After Infidelity

Where Should We Begin Podcast Season 2 ep. 7

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Do you hear from your spouse that they need to feel more loved? Do they tell you you're not making time for them, attending to them, or making them feel appreciated enough?

That is a very real issue for many modern relationships these days. So, how do you make your partner feel loved and cared for without jeopardising your individual needs? 

Listen to Miami's relationship expert Idit Sharoni giving you 5 tips on how to go from having a partner who feels uncared for to a relationship where both of you feel nurtured.

You may be surprised...

Links mentioned in this episode:

Episode 46: Date Night Will Not Solve Your Problems

TED Talk: The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship

Article: For a Better Marriage Act Like a Single Person

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

A couple wanted to know if as a marriage therapist Idit believed they could change after 20 years of marriage. 

Her answer was not what you might expect, but it was positive. In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni will tell you what it takes to make changes in long term relationships of 10 years and up. 

And it not only hard work...

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www.iditsharoni.com

Have guilt or shame stopped you from being able to make your relationship work after infidelity? Has guilt made you more defensive than helpful or remorseful? Or, has shame made you more confused about whether to stay or leave your cheating spouse?

These are all negative outcomes of guilt, blame or shame that occur in the aftermath of infidelity. BUT, there id a positive side to guilt that actually helps the healing process. 

Listen in and find out more about this from Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni.

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www.iditsharoni.com

You finally decided to go to couples counseling, but now you have to find a good therapist.

You Google couples counseling in your area and you start making some calls. How do you know which one is the right therapist for your relationship? Do you determine by price, availability, location? Or are there more criteria you should look for and ask your prospective therapist about?

Answers to these questions and the actual 5 questions you should ask are all in this episode presented by your host - relationship expert Idit Sharoni.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

In this episode you’ll find out if you are in a sex starved relationship, and if so, what it does to your connection & what you can do to change the situation.

As many couples believe that this is a phase that will go away or it’s the nature of a long term relationship - Miami's Relationship expert Idit Sharoni will challenge you on that and help you get things going in the right direction.

Takeaways you don't want to miss:

• What's considered a sex starved relationship / marriage?
• How it sometimes shows in a relationship?
• Who has the power to change it?
• Tips on what you can do to stop sex starving in your relationship.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

In the last decades couples confront serious problems that have to do with fast track relationships.  If you've done all the way from meeting your spouse to holding your first baby in less than 2 years, and you're experiencing serious relationship issues - than this is the episode for you.

So, before you think it was a big mistake and the only solution is divorce or breakup, see what relationship expert Idit Sharoni has to say to you. 

Hint: there is hope.

Find 5 suggestions to prevent divorce or breakup in fast-track relationships that will give you the hope you need to continue.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

How does handling money as a couple influences your relationship, and what can you do to avoid having it kill your marriage? 

Miami relationship expert Idit Sharoni walks you through:

• The different models of handling finances as a couple.
• The different notions behind each model and how they influence the relationship.
• The place all of this can be stemming from.
• What you can do now to make a change (even if you're already having issues with handling money as a couple).

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Why some couples seem to recover after infidelity while others can't?Miami relationship expert Idit Sharoni walks you through the 3 main components that block the healing process after learning about your partner's cheating.

Idit offers an extensive explanation that includes a roadmap to healing where she shares the 3-Phase road to healing in the aftermath of infidelity. 

Links mentioned in the episode:

Click to join Idit's FB Group - It's Okay To Stay

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Recommended book: After The Affair by Janis Abrahms Spring

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

When you feel you're stuck because nothing is positively changing in your relationship, you get discouraged thinking you're in one of those change resistant relationships.

This episode is inspired by a couple that told me the following:"This is our last chance before divorce. We either change or we give up on this relationship. We’ve tried it all: talk about it, not talk about it, pray, be nice, be aggressive, you name it, we tried it. Nothing worked." 

I talk about why this couple has been so resistant to change so far, and what they (and you) can do differently. To help boost the change, I share the 2 most important components of change in relationships.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com